just about every guy i meet when they approach me they act as if they are interested then they never ask how to get in touch with me later. or if i do give them my number they may call once or twice but never keeps it up. im not ugly and very smart. so what is it. i mean just about every guy i meet. is it me. i hold on good conversation and dont act to desperate. i have a nice figure and great smile. and a very nice personality. i like being nice and easy to talk to and i dont act stuck up. so why is it no one wants to continue seeing me. am i doing something wrong?
2006-09-25 08:00:36 · 30 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st it sounds like maybe you just haven't found the person you should have yet. a lot of people out there with bad habits its normal. make sure you don't stop being the way you are (special). Things happen for a reason. you just need to wait your turn. Just think someday you might find someone like me. Take care of you and give what you desire, happyness....
2006-09-25 08:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk a lot about your being smart, you are not ugly, you hold good conversations, You don't act desperate, You have a nice figure & smile. You sound like a beautiful person, but maybe you are doing some things you don't realize. Could it be possible that
you are coming off as all these things you mention? You need to examine your self and see if that's what is happening.
2006-09-25 15:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you meeting guys? If it's at the bar they act like like A: because they are drunk. B: because I and anyother guy would rather talk to a woman at the bar then a bunch of guys. Also if you are just meeting guys other places maybe you aren't sending the signals out to them when your talking. Not everyone that talks to someone wants to get to know them more than that. Maybe you could be more forward with these guys it's allways nice when a woman tells you she is interested in seeing you agian. Just a little advice. If your intelligent you shouldn't have a problem fiding a guy no matter if your good looking or not! Not every guy is that immature and vein.
2006-09-25 15:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by ajmarti82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're saying guys will come up to you, as if to meet you or pick you up, then after they talk to you they don't ask for your number, or ask you out. It's not the way you look, or they wouldn't approach you. So, you must be giving a signal that you are not really interested in them, or a kind of cold distant sort of thing. It's good not to be desperate, but you still have to look at them and smile and make them feel like you are interested.
2006-09-25 15:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like this chick i know of to a tee. hmmm , lets see , have you showed him what he may recieve if he in deed did ask for your number and then called you at the risk of being charged with stalking ? coz for the most part it seems like women nowadays are really all into making each other laff at how stupid they can make a man seem and act then just playing by the old rules and when passing sex signals than delivering said sex like post haste but that could be only 1 experience and nobody else can figure out what im talkin about. show some nipple next time and maybe rub your coochie on him and then watch out !!!
2006-09-25 15:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by whatisthisallabout? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be giving a good enough 'I like you' signal. Guys look for things at girl does that say 'I like you'. She smiles, touches him and says nice things. You may come off as cold....the smart girl who would never kiss or cuddle or have sex. So the guy gets turned off.
2006-09-25 15:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you with absolute certainty b/c I've never been around you before, but, just a theory--a lot of guys just like the chase a lot. Do something crazy to stand out in his mind...be less plain, more memorable. Make him see that you aren't just another pretty fish in the sea.
2006-09-25 15:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just being too nice. Try to add a little humor in the mix, you never said anything about humor. Guys like to either make you laugh, or also made to smile, b/c we like humor.
2006-09-25 15:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by anzojr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.selectsmart.com/FREE/select.php?client=rightkindofguy
Take this test to find out who is the right guy for you. As I can understand, you have absolutely nothing wrong in your external appearance or in your behavior. YOU JUST PICK THE WRONG GUYS. What do I mean by that? Let's give you an example: everytime you choose a shy guy and in the end you find out that he is boring or you choose a bad guy who wants to put you in his harem and in the end you realize that you want someone loyal to you.
2006-09-25 15:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with you it's just that guys at this age in time are looking for a physical relation not just conversational. i'm not telling you to have sex with him just open up a little and flirt and fluff his ego and make the talk all about them. guys love that.
2006-09-25 15:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by beauty2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋