Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

2006-09-25 08:38:47 · 1 answers · asked by Shorty 2 in Friends

How do u get over an ex? Especially when they insist on being friends...
I recently broke up with my boyfriend; his decision I’m cool with it, however why does he insist that we be friend immediately? He calls all my numbers and leaves nasty messages when I don’t answer saying "It’s your friend pickup" and accuses me of have sex, what’s that all about? I told him we can surly be friends but once my heart is healed I don’t want to break-up on Sunday and Monday be your best bud, come on get over yourself!

I’m not going to lie it kills me I can’t cry but I feel sooo sad and I expressed this to him but I doubt he cares how can I get over him?

2006-09-25 08:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 08:38:17 · 24 answers · asked by The Next Idol 1 in Singles & Dating

im in a situation where im living in a house with my boyfriend and his mother and you your kids with you and their all girls and she keep trying to tell you what to do with children and its getting on your nerves and you say certain things to let her know that it will be ok and just because she was a certain way with her kids doesn't mean i have to raise my kids that way and its so frustrating that im about to burst and mind you im trying to go to school and work and i think i'll have a nervous break down which i hope i don't please help.

2006-09-25 08:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by honey bun 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am to explode..i have ordered a hsipping from puralotor from a tiloe store to my home. i needed them to deliver me a box of floor tiles ..after paying them huge delievery bill thry deliever my package but all the tiles were broken into pieces. I called them they wouldnt do anything about it. and i still have to pay the contractors daily fee cuz i booked him but now there are no tiles to work with. ( that was the store that had the special tiles and i tis like 3 hours away from me that is why i used purolator) i am so mad how do i relax........i just called my husband at work and took my anger from him and just yelled at dear dog too :( any solutions to relax..i feel like punching someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-25 08:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...her that I'm not worried about her husband catching us, because of the hours he works, but my gf usually gets home an hour after I do...what choice do I have? It sometimes seems like women will never be happy!

2006-09-25 08:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by HughGRection 3 in Singles & Dating

if 2 people really love each other, how long should they wait to get married? Like say they have been datting for a year should they wait longer?

2006-09-25 08:36:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 08:35:16 · 32 answers · asked by skunck_2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Nope, if you think I'm slutty, you are wrong. I'm not like that. In truth, I am a conservative young lady & much respected in my office. (& at my age & looks, people say i'm really hot.) It's just that sometimes, I give in to temptations. But i know the limits. My coworker seduces me in many ways whenever he sees a chance, but I told him firmly that I want to be a good wife to a good man. He sometimes steal passionate kisses & embraces on me when my husband is not around, or smells me all over (specially my armpits, OMG!), but that is only up to that. I admit he's getting me wet & my nipples hard, but I can still control it. I'm just really turned on by his carnal desire on me, i think. But please, don't call me bad names. I'm at the very early stage of my marriage, & maybe I'm just going through some tests or trials. It hurts me very much to hear some painful comments from you. Of course, thanks for the answers & advice... --- JENNY

2006-09-25 08:35:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am a single mother of two young children. My baby who is now one, her father and I split up. I kicked him out do to drugs and cheating, meanwhile the whole time we were together and way before I even knew him I was in love with his cousin. I never knew he was his cousin untill I was with my baby's father, I planned on braking up with him because I wanted to be with the cousin. A week before I was going to brake it off with him I found out I was pregnant. We ended up staying together for the first year and I kept my secret of being in love with his cousin. When I finally came out to his cousin and told him how I felt he felt the same way, but he broke it off because he couldnt deal with the fact that the family was agianst it and that my daughter was his cousin's child. Is it wrong to fall in love with someone like that? He has always been a father figure to both my children even when I was still with her father, and I miss him terribly. What should I do?

2006-09-25 08:34:29 · 6 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm married, mother to a newborn. In past relationships I've always had issues with trust, jealousy, and control. Now it's causing a major strain on my marriage, I'd like to change but I don't know how or where to start. My main issue is being controlling and bossy, how can I change myself to save my family?

I have a therapist. We did marriage counseling for awhile but now we're separated and I go alone.

2006-09-25 08:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by control 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal: He's always gone out a lot and I let him because he's not in prison. He almost never takes me out (from the day we were married - 12 years ago - he has treated me more like a burden than the love of his life.) In the past year I've become increasingly certain that his lies (which have always been obvious) are more than just silly slip-ups like he'd like me to believe. He's been writing to girls on Craigs List personals (says he's just doing it as a joke) and calling and text messaging quite a few girls as well as e-mail them. The e-mails don't have anything overly incriminating, but he always tells me he doesn't have time to call me nor write me e-mails from work, so why does he have time to do so with other women? Also, when he realized I could tell every call me made on his cell phone, he got a prepaid phone and hid it. I found his secret phone, but he made up a crazy story of why he had it. I know he's still lying to me even though he claims he's not.

2006-09-25 08:33:37 · 29 answers · asked by Chicka B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Basic question for once.... this girl we always talk and look into are eyes and on phone, txt , cuddle.... but today she has been wierd im kinda worried i like her alot and is there a easy way.... plz help

2006-09-25 08:33:33 · 11 answers · asked by Jack S 1 in Singles & Dating

I get wet even with a thot of him, is it wrong?

2006-09-25 08:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Shaved or unshaved or halfway?

2006-09-25 08:32:59 · 31 answers · asked by Momin2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i get into a lot of fights and im tired of it.most of the problems are from his ex who was my friend first.but i found out that she wanted to go out with me.. i dont know wat to do....

2006-09-25 08:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by cynthia t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 08:31:54 · 21 answers · asked by meriaawaazsuno 1 in Singles & Dating

help! i alwasy "finish" very fast... however, i always try to make sure my partner is satisfied. this is done orally and with fingers.

women, is this enough to keep you happy? or should i be more concerned about my rapid firing!

so embarrasing!!!

2006-09-25 08:31:15 · 14 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever wished you was never born? or to have a different family and relatives because they are so harsh to you?

2006-09-25 08:31:12 · 7 answers · asked by quencerman 1 in Family

My boyfriend wants to get married about this time next year and I love him and his family very much. The only problem is he's a big time momma's boy. I think it's great that he loves his mom.....but I don't want to live down the street or even next door to his parents. His parents live down the street from his granparents so we would all be in the same neighborhood. I love that he's family orientated and his family is great....but him wanting to live that close to his mom is....i don't know....weird.

2006-09-25 08:30:18 · 29 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Singles & Dating

ok this is how it goes....I dated a guy in highschool for 5 years, since I was 14. We always talked about getting married, and we believed that we were soul mates....well i ran away from home, and never talked to him again, but i hear that he kinda went off the deap end when i left, and he drinks a lot now, and he did something when he was drunk that put himin jail.ive been marriedalmost 1 1/2 yrs now, and i think about him all the time. I kinda blame myself for him going to jail, 'cuz if i hadn't left, he wouldn't be so hurt. and how do I get him out of my mind though, i have a family now, i can't go back to him, even if I wanted to. so what should I do? I think about him every day! no kidding, and I try not too! What should I do seriously?

2006-09-25 08:30:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 08:29:59 · 18 answers · asked by Eileen S 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel my friend is being very non-supportive of her husband's weight issues. He currently weighs over 400 lbs. Should I e-mail him with the information and suggestions instead of her?

2006-09-25 08:29:55 · 12 answers · asked by Barbara T 2 in Friends

2006-09-25 08:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by birds_pigeons 1 in Weddings

I have noticed that women are more likely to notice men if they are married....Even if they didn't pay atttention to them when they weren't. ;)

2006-09-25 08:29:34 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am recently seperated, I met someone I really want to know better. I just moved out and I went out a couple of times with him. He says that because I am still married, he doesn't want this to be happening. I feel that I am ready to just get on with life and date, nothing serious. Is this too soon? I have only been gone three weeks.

2006-09-25 08:28:33 · 34 answers · asked by hawkespatricia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 08:28:31 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been thinking about this decision towards this friend that has asked if he wanted us to be friend's with benefits. i never liked him but i would always have some type of atraction towards him. what should i do????

2006-09-25 08:28:25 · 29 answers · asked by melli 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know. my boyfriend (4 months) has been acting really wierd lately. he kinda acts as if he dont like me any more, what can i do to make him happier with me.

2006-09-25 08:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by Me♥Manatees 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently met a girl that said she would never date someone who had cheated on anyone in the past, even if it was kissing one girl while they were dating another. She said she felt this way even if she didn't expect the person to cheat on her in the future. Is this a realistic viewpoint? Should someone be held responsible for questionable decision(s) they have made in the past?

2006-09-25 08:27:52 · 20 answers · asked by silentbobus 2 in Singles & Dating