Ok I am a single mother of two young children. My baby who is now one, her father and I split up. I kicked him out do to drugs and cheating, meanwhile the whole time we were together and way before I even knew him I was in love with his cousin. I never knew he was his cousin untill I was with my baby's father, I planned on braking up with him because I wanted to be with the cousin. A week before I was going to brake it off with him I found out I was pregnant. We ended up staying together for the first year and I kept my secret of being in love with his cousin. When I finally came out to his cousin and told him how I felt he felt the same way, but he broke it off because he couldnt deal with the fact that the family was agianst it and that my daughter was his cousin's child. Is it wrong to fall in love with someone like that? He has always been a father figure to both my children even when I was still with her father, and I miss him terribly. What should I do?
2006-09-25 08:34:29 · 6 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call him and tell him you miss him , you can't help how you feel. ask him if he still feels the same , if he does it shouldn't matter what others think! including family!!!!
2006-09-25 08:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by plgbw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you what to do, I mean you do have other things to look at like two kids to look after and parent. Get those things in your life together.
If the cousin is serious about you he will step up to the plate because certain things in the past can not and will not be changed like the fact that your kids are his cousin and he loves you.
2006-09-25 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop messing around with men and focus on being a mother to your 2 kids. The drama of your love life, and all it involves is going to take up too much of your time and attention. Since your kids are already down 1 parent, they don't need you emotionally wrapped up in another man. Leave the cousin alone and focus on raising the kids... they're already off to a pretty lousy start in life as it is.
2006-09-25 15:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only do what is best for your children
2006-09-25 15:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, well, he is blood, so I dont think its right at all
2006-09-25 15:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by six7foru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't help love
2006-09-25 15:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋