i wanna break up with my boyfriend.how do i do it?

Question

my boyfriend and i get into a lot of fights and im tired of it.most of the problems are from his ex who was my friend first.but i found out that she wanted to go out with me.. i dont know wat to do....

Answer 1

A litle bit of advice. When you break up with him be specific why. It may seem harsh at first but at least he'll know exactly why. never EVER say "I think of you as a friend" or something of that nature that is the most horrible despicable thing you can tell a man. He'll walk away thinking, "Is it me? What have I done AM I EVEN A MAN?!" Insead of knowing it was his hair or his bad breathe or maybe he was to impulsive he'll dig deep within himself to almost the point of self destruction. he'l go back to his buddies and tell them,"He do you knwo what she said?" they'll answer,"What did she say?" "She-she,...wanted to be friends..." "OH NO!!! You poor guy!!! That B i t c h!!" they'll hold him and hug him. Drinks are on everyone to help him ease the pain. It's a tragic thing for men.

Answer 2

Steps:
1. Acknowledge that the relationship is really over. Come to terms with your own feelings and make a firm decision to end the relationship.

2. Don't delay the inevitable. Once you decide to break up with your partner, immediately think about how, when and where you will take action.

3. Make sure you're the one who personally delivers the news. Don't give a third party the opportunity to tell your partner that you want to break up before you have the chance to discuss the matter alone.

4. Select a private place to meet with your partner to end the relationship.

5. Find or schedule an appropriate time. Approach the topic when both of you are calm and rational. Don't announce your intention to break up during a heated argument or a moment of anger.

6. Show your resolve by being firm, decisive and honest. Help your partner understand why you want to end the relationship. Be tactful, not brutal.

7. Remind your partner that you'll never forget the positive qualities in your relationship, but emphasize that you're ready to move on with your life.

8. Give your partner the closure that he or she needs to accept the breakup; answer questions and talk it over instead of leaving loose ends.

9. Stay positive as you both make plans to go your separate ways.

Tips:
Let go of old grievances during a breakup. The end of a relationship isn't the appropriate time to bring up old grudges.

Warnings:
If your partner does not agree to the breakup, don't allow him or her to manipulate you into staying in the relationship.
http://www.ehow.com/how_63_break-peacefully.html

Answer 3

u should let him down easy. tell him this: listen we git into a lot of fights and i think we've been together 2 long. and if he trys to pull that sweet stuff that they do say stop! listen i think we should see other ppl. use the oldest 1 in the book:it's not u it's mee.

i hope we can still b friends. then give him a kiss (on the cheek) then walk away.

Answer 4

try to get her out of your relationship and if that doesnt work then you need to let go and leave him but give it one more chance and see what happens

Answer 5

Honestly and to his face. Job Done!

Answer 6

tell him ur sick of the drama and tell him its over, but that you care about him, you just can't handle all the crap.

Answer 7

Take him somewhere public and tell him there.

Answer 8

Well if he was with you friend first you're wrong any way so ha! ha! ha! ha!ha!

Answer 9

if you don,t get on work it out if you like him or finish it. be honest with him.

Answer 10

break it off. tell him how u feel.