im in a situation where im living in a house with my boyfriend and his mother and you your kids with you and their all girls and she keep trying to tell you what to do with children and its getting on your nerves and you say certain things to let her know that it will be ok and just because she was a certain way with her kids doesn't mean i have to raise my kids that way and its so frustrating that im about to burst and mind you im trying to go to school and work and i think i'll have a nervous break down which i hope i don't please help.
2006-09-25 08:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by honey bun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to get your own place and become independent. You have to be those girl's mother or else they won't listen or respect you. When I had my first child, I was living at home with my mom and she tried to do the same thing. I MOVED OUT and our relationship is better and my son and I can't be closer and more respectful to one another. That was 7 years ago. So it may be hard and tough at times but believe me it is better.
2006-09-25 08:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard living in other people's houses. I have been there to. Unfortuantly they don't own you or your kids. I would simply say that if there is a problem with the children please address me with the situation so I can handle it the way I want to. Don't let anyone intimidate you just because your living in there house. If that doesn't work then I would seggest finding some where else to live. Good luck
2006-09-25 15:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is awkward you need to get away from her she is interfering, but she probably thinks she is helping and knows best, don,t take it personally its her problem, tell her you are the mother not her and the one who makes decisions for your kids and he should back you up in this.
2006-09-25 15:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put mama bear in her place and get your boy 2 grow a spine and stick up you!
2006-09-25 15:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by marty d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me or my kids don't live there-
who's house is it??
it is never a good idea to live with in laws-move out
2006-09-25 15:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk on msn.listen to music .trust me man ,music is the best
2006-09-25 15:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by pinkygirl m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out, and then u wont have ta worry
2006-09-25 15:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by nonners1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋