prior to that i was recieving a amount agreebable to both ourselves, the thing is he said if i go to the csa he will report it that the maintance was not declared. but because of circumtances of things not amicable i just wont to to let the csa a deal with it, how will that affect me part from finacially.will i be in trouble or do i say i never recieved any. but i will be involving csa with out a doubt.
2006-09-25 07:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by K G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you were not recieving child maintenance for a few months.
I left my ex-horrible husband and divorced over 4 yrs ago, the csa was chasing him and he got to pay for 106 pounds /week, he did something now he only has to pay 19 pounds /week..which took the csa 4 yrs to get money from him, and he paid for 2 months then he stop and he has just now got a new Thaiwife (before that he went to Thailand 7 times within the period of 10 months), he drink 2 botttle of wine every night, he change his new cars often, he live in a luxury life style,.....he lied to the csa, my solicitor, the judge, .....he hassling me all the time, he cheated money from me, I now have to pay back the bank loan for nothing........I was never bother about his money, but because he asking for custody my son, not because he love my son so much, but because he wants to upset me,...my solicitor can not do anything about he emotional attack me, and solicitor can not do anything about child maintenance...it 's down to csa.
so eventually I contact the csa to chasing him pay the child maintenance.....*Guess what! I keep chasing the csa, and my ex-keep lying avoiding to pay...it took the csa almost 3 yrs to get 19 pound /week from him and only 2 months.
*please don't expect that the csa can help you get his money.
and you need to call the csa at least 3 days/ week...every weeks
*But if he used to give you some money and just stop , he may have some financial problems, why don't you give him a chance, wait, be patience, be kind, at least he used to give you money, *my ex-husband never even given even a penny!**the only time he gave me was when I was pregnant and working as a washing up in his resturant from 6 pm to midnight, and after that I had to wait for him, bath him, massage him....he still nasty to me, I think we should not expect anything from them, a real man will pay responsibilty for his child, no need the others to catch him up to do it. if the csa has to do the job for them, they are not a man and not even a human. if they are not a human, will you won't to be involved with them?...I am not!
2006-09-25 11:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont think it matters if the maintenance was declared, its not a taxable amount as far as im aware. you are able to make an agreement between yourselves in writing and keep it for your own reference, it doesnt need to be shown to anybody until used as proof etc. regardless, yes the csa is in a state but i would report it to a government body of some sort or a solicitor to notify somebody of the situation at least that way a few months down the line noone says hang on minute how comes you have only just decided to notify someone. you also may be advised to contact a solicitor for advice, they will be able to advise you from there. hope this helps
2006-09-25 08:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by bab_ey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The CSA do no longer think approximately (unfairly) any of the %. earnings so in the event that they have a bigger half who's a millionaire it gained t count. Their activity is to paintings out your earnings and (unfairly back) your companions earnings (in case you have one) then paintings out a share of that. For a million baby its 15% of your weekly earnings, 20% for 2 infants and 25% for 3. 3 or extra remains 25%. An occasion is while you're making £3 hundred a week after taxes and you have 2 infants. you will possibly then pay £60 a week maintenance. regrettably the final public of situations contain mom and father who've won reward in that element and supposedly the government is paying your £5 a week maintenance in that element although that may no longer consistently the case. they might quit paying with out even telling you and then your arrears rocket! £60 a week promptly will become £ninety- £one hundred with the aid of fact the arrears is added to the widely used fee. back this has no longer something to do with the determine with cares earnings so despite their situations you would be envisioned to pay that quantity each month. some all human beings is asserting purely overlook approximately them yet that is no longer sturdy suggestion. in case you overlook approximately them they have a appealing to bypass to the HMRC and your employer for salary training and while they acquire it they'll set up a deduction of earnings order at the back of your back meaning your employer pays the CSA in the previous they pay you and there is not any thank you to quit this. as quickly as you're classed as non-compliant for no longer responding you will consistently be non-compliant whether you get in touch or whether you alter your activity and this time notify them. Take it from a individual who's conscious having worked the the CSA (and become screwed by ability of them concerning to the calculation) its no longer a sturdy element to be classed as non-compliant.
2016-10-17 23:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are on Income Support you do not have to declare maintainence payments for any other benefits, I think.
I know it doesnt affect Tax Credits. How did he pay you? If by cash in hand then say you never recieved any. He cant prove it.
2006-09-25 08:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is not to go to the CSA it is in a state and is soon to be abolished according to hear say! th best thing you could do id visit you're C.A.B and finding out where you stand up till now.
2006-09-25 07:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by miss_power86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny
2006-09-25 08:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋