Me and this girl , always flirt and talk on phone and txt, when we went ice skateing we holded hands, but today she just did'nt really talk to me, like she use to .... kinda dissapointed i no its only one day but u no...
2006-09-25 08:04:11 · 30 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 17:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, that's young love for you.
You see me friend, your making a big mistake by trying to understand women, it's just an impossible thing to do.
They are completely unpredictable animal, one that works on absolutely no logic what so ever, you safer being trapped in a cage with a Tiger.
Don't try and work them out, if your a straight man just except the fact you were born to suffer untill the day you die.
2006-09-25 08:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably that time of the month. If you talk to her all the time, then today you should ask her if there is something wrong. I have had this situation before and showing up to her house with flowers and a smile really helps. Tell her you just wanted to talk.
2006-09-25 08:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by wakebrder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could go two ways.. 1) she likes you and it has only just hit her and she doesnt know what to do. 2) She has been playing you along and in the meantime found someone else. All you can do is place it cool and wait to see what the following days bring. Good luck x
2006-09-25 08:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls don't even know what they really want. One day they are into you and the next day they aren't. Just ask her, but before you ask her anything, maybe give it a couple more days to come to that conclusion. She may just be having one of those days where she's not in the mood to chat or text.
2006-09-25 08:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thought she liked you and then when you both started holding hands she realized it wasn't what she thought but didn't want to hurt your feelings right then so didn't say anything about it at the time. Now she is ignoring you and hopes that you go away.
2006-09-25 08:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bogie Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be very off and on with things like that. I know that it may be awkward, but I suggest just asking her. If she says that she does like you, then that's awesome if you like her too. If she says she doesn't like you, don't just ditch her. She might still want to be friends with you. However, if you keep getting the cold shoulder, trying to make the friendship work might not be the best plan.
2006-09-25 08:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by mys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be a little frightened and unsure of where the relationship is going. maybe she was hurt before and doesn't want to get involved too quickly. slow down a little bit, but still let her know you like her. give her a little space, that way she will be ready for the next step. :) good luck!
2006-09-25 08:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have been having a bad day. Talk to her and ask her if everything is ok. She might like the idea of you thinking about her.
2006-09-25 08:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her another day or two;this may have been one of her off days and the more something happens, the better you know about the situation.
2006-09-25 08:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by dragon_fan1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋