Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Well?

2006-09-25 13:55:09 · 28 answers · asked by retrojunkiee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband dont notice me at all.ive done everything.from strip teases to opening the door naked.to try and wake him up at night to have a midnight snack.but he is cold.we only ha ve s e x whenever he is in the mood.and when i try to initiate, he just ignores me.i feel sad,like if i am doing something wrong.i am pretty,and look nice but he is acting like if i cant satisfy him anymore.when i try to talk to him about it,he is too busy.and the answer i get is that im just paranoid,that we have a great s e x life.i feel irritated about this situation.i love him but im loosing interest in my husband.and that is depresing me.i dont look at him like i used to anymore.i was so atracted to my husband.he is so handsome, but i dont see that anymore.he is a stranger in my own house.at night when we sleep, i look at him trying to find the man i fell in love with,and i cant find him.a friend sugested that i go for a one night stand.but thats no what i want.i married him because i love him.

2006-09-25 13:54:37 · 24 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone with experience regarding this subject out there?

2006-09-25 13:54:21 · 2 answers · asked by Skylar 1 in Singles & Dating

If you asked your children the same question, what would they say?Would there be a discrepancy between your answer and theirs? If so, why? What one thing could you do this week to help you and your children see more eye to eye?

If you already have regular family meetings, what works--and doesn't work-- about it? If you haven't yet tried a family meeting , why start one this week?( If your kids are older, expect the initial groans, but put your plan into action anyway.)

2006-09-25 13:54:15 · 2 answers · asked by babykatdream099 5 in Family

My ex and her boyfriend are living together. I know it, they know it. I want to try to get my spousal support changed. He is providing income, and I'm living in a rented bedroom. They have rented a 3 bedroom house, and my son is over there 1/2 the time. Suggestions, Ideas?

2006-09-25 13:54:11 · 7 answers · asked by Sad-Dad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy who has liked me since last year b/c we always have a locker beside eachother. well we are always talking. One day he had this other guy ask me out for him then when i went to tell him he said he was just joking. but everyone know that he likes me and now he is calling me a stalker just because we have a locker beside eachother. i kinda like him but i don't know what to do

plz help me!!

2006-09-25 13:54:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 13:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by ipfreelie 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I keep on staring at the girl I think is beautiful? and when she catches me looking at her, I just look away. What would a girl think in her point of view? I have talked to her in class though. I seriously need help. What would you do if you were me? First of all, I know I need to stop staring at her. Maybe I can lie to her if she asks why did I stare at her like I can say, I wasn't staring, I was looking at the wall that is like 10 feet away from you and I was also wondering is that the girl from my class??? I gotta play it cool. I got to play my cards right then I might get her. I will not give up on her yet. Is there a chance that she can be friends with me still?? I will not ask her out until we know each other a lot more.

2006-09-25 13:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

do u think it was 2 match mine

2006-09-25 13:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by WILD 4 RKO 5 in Singles & Dating

i am 5'10''.......14 blue eyes.......dark brown hair......115 lbs....kinda skinny but not to bad
most girls say i am sweet and i am very kind and understanding.....i like sports and hiking

2006-09-25 13:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by Justin 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay my husband, whom I love is driving me crazy. We're in the process of moving and setting up a new house. He's So particular and fussy (in my opinion) about where to put things and how to do things. If I vacumn a rug, he will vacumn it over again, or tell me the "right" way to do it. We've been arguing a lot lately.

If I spill the dogs dish and miss sweeping up two dog food kernels he will notice and complain about the dog all night.

He's also highly allergic to dust and mold and now beleives we shouldn't have plants in the house. I already have to dust everyday and vacumn every 3 days to keep him happy but now he wants me to get rid of my plants that I love and have collected for 15 years? don't get me wrong he does his share of the housework, but I do extra just to keep him from complaining and doing it all himself which causes me to feel guilty.

I'm at my wits end. what are some methods I can use, even to myself, to be able to tolerate him and his picky habits foreve

2006-09-25 13:52:08 · 5 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce

should you Not tell a new guy about your previous experience? Anotherwords, would it make you appear as a weak person or as someone with 'problems'? Overall, is it better to keep this to yourself. I don't want anyone's pity, but I don't know if that's important to the other person in order to understand me.

2006-09-25 13:51:42 · 13 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

ask a guy out

2006-09-25 13:51:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So so mad b/c they lie to me they say they love me but all they want is to have a girlfriend who's hott thats me and tell their friends what should I do??? I need help!!!

2006-09-25 13:51:15 · 1 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

My best female friend is engaged and she asked me to post this Q for her. neither of their religious beliefs nor their morals allow them to have ____ before marriage.
a couple of monthes ago she kept trying till she found his account password (she doesn't feel guilty for what she did !!!) because she got shocked. (his account is full of Viagra ads.)

she's now really worried about their relationship after marriage. she wants to know if the Viagra ads and the other similar emails can be good indications for any sort of impotency?
she is really worried because she adores him...

by the way he is 30 years old and he is heartless he enjoys to watch her suffering because of rude comments.

2006-09-25 13:50:47 · 8 answers · asked by adorable 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I been dating this boy for a year or so he says we sorta are dating but we are aloud to "hang out" with other ppl. I went to a party and made out with this guy, my boy found out and is pissed and wnats me back but he doesnt no if he can trust me anymore.. How do i prove to him he can trust me?

2006-09-25 13:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to build a long relationship and lasting love, but I don't know what I should to do, can you help me

2006-09-25 13:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by hello051 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with my boyfriend for almost two years (he's 19 and i'm 17) and everything seemed to be going great and you could never tear us apart. i mean, we had problems here and there but it was nothing that couldn't be fixed.

then, i started a waitressing job at a local restaurant. there is this guy working there whom, at first, i was really intimidated by. he seemed like the guy who is the life of the party. i was scared to talk to him so i got a little happy when he was assigned to train me to become a waitress. at first, he barely even knew my name and then, we always started flirting hardcore. he was just really blunt all the time. then, i found out that not only does he have a girlfriend of 4 years, but he also does drugs. oh, and did i mention he's also 23? (i thought he was 19) it didn't matter, i still continued flirting and helping him out with things at work. then, out of nowhere, he started ignoring me. why? and why do i seem to be throwing my relationship away?

2006-09-25 13:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so theres this guy at my work that i've known for almost 2 1/2 years. You can say were okay friends, but he would always flirt with me while at work. He'd ask me for hugs, mess around with me, call me sweet names. But he recently has a new gf and i feel like i totally missed out on him....i wanna tell him i like him or even make a move on him ...i feel horrible saying this but i wish i could break their relationship up....i missed out but i wanna fight to get him back. This girl is skinneri and more popular than me..but i am dieting and excercising so when the day comes i can look better than her. I hope than in two months i can tell him the truth and have our first kiss together...what do u think?

2006-09-25 13:49:37 · 17 answers · asked by Angelwings87 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 13:49:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when I have these 'prophetic' type dreams, I can usually do something to thwart the bad things. Now, my Best friend is going to CA from NY for Thanksgiving. In this dream, I was called to come to the airport to ID a body. It was pouring rain, and late at tnight. I got to the airport and was met by an official who took my info and then took me into a room. In the room was a few more official people and they showed mee a small piece of tubing with some sort of can-like contrivance attached. "This is the part we think failed on the aircraft", one guy told me. This was so vivid that I copuld draw this thing flawlessly if needed. There was also a mesh like piece of what seemed to be a cylinder, black, and they said that this piece was instrumental in the system failure, too. I was never shown the body I was asked to ID, because I woke at this point, scared, shaking, with knowledge that this had to do with my friend's flight. Should I tell her? I am not called Mystc One for nothing...

2006-09-25 13:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by The Mystic One 4 in Friends

I fell in love with my one of my best guy friends a little while ago. But today when I got up the courage to tell him that I like him he came up to me and told me that he had told the girl he like a couple nights ago. But he can't remember what she had said to him. Now I'm trying to get by on the unitentional heartbreak. Should I still tell him how I feel? What are the worst and best case scenarios?

2006-09-25 13:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 13:47:51 · 9 answers · asked by Twisted&Demented 1 in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for my ex bf. The thing is we only dated for a short time and that was like 8 months ago. I just can't get him out of my head. He was sweet and caring. I think maybe I can't let go cuz he was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, but it was very innocent it never went past kissing. He use to say hi to me on msn after the breakup but he eventually stopped that. Should I ever message him on msn just to say hi once in awhile? would that be desperate? We go to the same university so maybe we could meet up but I would never ask him that.

2006-09-25 13:47:48 · 15 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

I was goin out with this guy for about a month, things were great for 2 weeks, then he started to annoy me, just little things. i backed off, but he continued to be over affectionate, and wanted to hold hands everywhere, and even kiss if i left the room. I said we needed a break and we have, but he still wants to be with me. im attracted to him, but will these little annoyances cause a breakup again if we get back together? i dont want to waste his time or mine again

2006-09-25 13:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

what would that make you.

2006-09-25 13:44:49 · 18 answers · asked by u_ez23 1 in Singles & Dating

like we all love eachother like famaily but sometimes it is just so stresssful to have to deal wth it

2006-09-25 13:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had a friend who I had a falling out with. In fact I had a huge crush on this person. However at times I thought she was a little insensitive. I sent her an e-mail one day and really sort of described everything that I thought she did that I thought was wrong. Basically I said that I didn't think I should talk to her any more. Now (4 months later)I'm thinking I made a mistake and maybe I was just a little sensitive because I liked her more than "friends". Well I'd like to be friends with her again. But she just won't pick return my calls or reply to an e-mail I sent her. So i"m thinking at what point should I quit. Is this normal?

2006-09-25 13:44:31 · 4 answers · asked by urlikeaminal 2 in Friends

What if she says no? what do I say/do?
If she says yes, do i hug her right away?
What does "this isnt a good time" or "I think its too soon" mean?

2006-09-25 13:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by streetsoccer9594 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u quit when u are addicted to something?i dont mean drugs or smoking...for example biting ur nails...something which by doing it hurts u...

2006-09-25 13:43:28 · 19 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships