My best female friend is engaged and she asked me to post this Q for her. neither of their religious beliefs nor their morals allow them to have ____ before marriage.
a couple of monthes ago she kept trying till she found his account password (she doesn't feel guilty for what she did !!!) because she got shocked. (his account is full of Viagra ads.)
she's now really worried about their relationship after marriage. she wants to know if the Viagra ads and the other similar emails can be good indications for any sort of impotency?
she is really worried because she adores him...
by the way he is 30 years old and he is heartless he enjoys to watch her suffering because of rude comments.
2006-09-25 13:50:47 · 8 answers · asked by adorable 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she doesn't want to live like hell then she should leave him...
2006-09-25 13:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you.. that sometimes when a person visits a web page (connected to or unconnected to) a specific subject, you tend to get all kinds of junk mail. Once at a former company I worked for, the bosses son was on my computer while his dad was working that particular day on the weekend, When I came into work, I have literally 100's of penis size enlargement, viagra, all that other crap that comes with it.. flooding my email. Not only one day, but several days of it was flooding my email. It got so bad that usually on Mondays, it would take me all of 30 min. just to empty the junk mail. I wouldnt take the ads as any indication of anything except, someone visited a web page and the links keep coming into his email account. Its harmless. I have never went to a site for penis enlargement lol. nor viagra but I do get similiar emails/ads on my computer from time to time.
As far as him being heartless, that will have to be an answer only your friend can answer because it all depends on how much is she willing to deal with. She has to know that if he is treating her like this, then he will continue to treat her like this unless she steps forward and lets him know how his comments hurt her. Until she says something, he thinks its fine. If she has told him how it makes her feel, then she probably should move on. Life is too short to be miserable and being put down by rude comments is not worth it. Tell your friend good luck. Maybe her boyfriend will grow up one day. Doing heartless things such as you described is simply immature.
2006-09-25 21:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha ha!
Tell your friend not to worry one bit. I'm a 20-something working mom and MY email account is also full of Viagra ads. Needless to say I have never once ordered or taken a Viagra. :)
Plus, if he isn't allowed to have sex before marriage how would he know if he were truly impotent anyway?
2006-09-25 22:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra is VERY VERY popular to SPAM email boxes with these days. I get 100's a day. Perhaps he just has not cleaned out his email (spam)? That is very likely. If he's nasty, that's adifferent story, though. But don't let some email spam be the reason!
2006-09-25 20:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get viagra spam at work all the time, and I don't have impotency problems! LOL. It is not his fault he gets spammed. It is, however, wrong, wrong, wrong of her to invade his privacy like that. Even worse, she has no regrets! She is a vindictive, sneaky person, and she will get caught.
2006-09-25 21:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea for her to get into this marriage with this man, because his e-mail is filled with viagara ads, he should have been able to talk to her, since he wants to marry her, he's already hiding something from her, so therefore she should get out of the relationship while she can easily, getting married to this guy is a bad idea.
2006-09-25 20:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No I don't think so...He is 30 years old...He probably was looking for something that will help him last longer since he is a virgin....There is no excuse for him to be heartless... "would you really want to marry a man who is being cruel to you already"....Notice the unhappy signs...If you don't like them please do not get married, because they may never change....Pray on it...
2006-09-25 21:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no idea what to say to you.
2006-09-25 20:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by ღimd14uღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋