so theres this guy at my work that i've known for almost 2 1/2 years. You can say were okay friends, but he would always flirt with me while at work. He'd ask me for hugs, mess around with me, call me sweet names. But he recently has a new gf and i feel like i totally missed out on him....i wanna tell him i like him or even make a move on him ...i feel horrible saying this but i wish i could break their relationship up....i missed out but i wanna fight to get him back. This girl is skinneri and more popular than me..but i am dieting and excercising so when the day comes i can look better than her. I hope than in two months i can tell him the truth and have our first kiss together...what do u think?
2006-09-25 13:49:37 · 17 answers · asked by Angelwings87 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him. Next time, if you like a guy tell him.
2006-09-25 13:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you are going to be together in two months, if he is just starting to get to know a new girlfriend. You are dieting and exercising for the completely wrong reasons. If you want to improve your health and looks, do it for yourself and not for some guy. Why don't you take some time and focus on yourself instead of this guy? You could develop a new interest or hobby and meet someone special who shares your new interests.
2006-09-25 20:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just make sure that you keep your curves. Most guys dont like the sticks. Plus, a few extra pounds could come in handy if the other girl wants to throw down. You showing that you care about the guy and are willing to throw yourself in the face of embarassment for him will win him over. If that doesnt work, it is not meant to be.
2006-09-25 20:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Everything happens for reasons. You win some, you lose some. If it was meant to be it will be. Just submit to the fact taht this is one of those things that is out of your control. Best Wishes =)
2006-09-25 20:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let it go,cause if you brake his relationship with that girl,he might use you and we will hurt you more.
Like you wrote he once flirt with you,that was just a teasing,if he would wanted you he would have already ask you to go out with him.
Try to go out with friends and maybe you will find someone who will be more attract to you and maybe might be a future,good luck
2006-09-27 20:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better cool your jets because one of you will get fired if it gets too messy at a work situation.
2006-09-25 20:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and do it fast the longer you leave it the harder it will be and unless her is really shallow the fact that she is smaller shouldnt matter but dont leave it to its to late
2006-09-25 20:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by beach_buggy2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool. You'll do the anything and later he'll dump you. Than how will you feel?
2006-09-25 20:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on............life's too short. There is an ocean of guys out there waiting to make you happy.
2006-09-25 20:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should go ahead and take a chance try to get his attention by dressing more attractive lol good luck!!!!
2006-09-25 20:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by jasmin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋