Why do I keep on staring at the girl I think is beautiful? and when she catches me looking at her, I just look away. What would a girl think in her point of view? I have talked to her in class though. I seriously need help. What would you do if you were me? First of all, I know I need to stop staring at her. Maybe I can lie to her if she asks why did I stare at her like I can say, I wasn't staring, I was looking at the wall that is like 10 feet away from you and I was also wondering is that the girl from my class??? I gotta play it cool. I got to play my cards right then I might get her. I will not give up on her yet. Is there a chance that she can be friends with me still?? I will not ask her out until we know each other a lot more.
2006-09-25 13:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her out
2006-09-26 09:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie to her.. and chances are that when she see you starring at her, that she was starring at you too.. I think there is a definite good chance that she likes you!! I'm glad you're not going to ask her out until you know eachother a lot more, b/c a lot of people just jump into things now days, but you still want to kinda give her little hints that you're interested. IM her..chances are the only reason she's online, is to see if you're online. Ask her how her day went, and what's going on w/ her classes, it's a great way to let a girl open up to you and show that you're a genuinely caring guy..(oh, and open doors for her..guys forget to do those sort of things now days, so you'll stand out)
2006-09-25 21:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by smartstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I think you should just stop staring at girls. I know who you are. I know who you are talking about. I'm sorry, she is taken. 2nd of all, staring at girls can be creepy. you should never stare at girls at all. I really doubt that she likes you as a friend because I have heard the way your conversation flows. She is not very open to you. I think you need more tips on how to make more friends or something. and PLEASE, NO MORE STARING!!!
2006-09-25 21:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and catch her staring at you =)
She probably doesnt think shes beautiful so compliment her on her looks.
Try and make her laugh and after she laughs a ton compliment her on her smile. (but spread these two out within a few weeks)
Don't look in her direction. focus on the person in front of you. what does their hair REALLY look like? Did they really take a shower the night before? *ocasionally glancing in her direction for less than a second to see if shes looking at you or not*
I'm a girl, so thats what i guess i would wnat to happen- without the guy laying it on too thick.
2006-09-25 20:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by x3perri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem confused, lol. Infact you're confusing me.
Anyway....
Does she seem to like you? I mean, even as a friend... you don't have to stop staring at her, unless it is creeping her out, because it's a sign to show her that you like her, and if does end up liking you, and you show no signs of liking her, she's going to come to this website posting questions about how you know if a guy likes you, or asking how to make you like her.
I know this sounds weird and all, but I hope it makes sense.
Also, If I was her, I would like the attention and wonder what was going on. Girls like attention. Plain and simple.
I hope you get the girl like you should!
Good Luck!
2006-09-25 21:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by o Robin o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, wierd I am a girl and I am in the same positition as the girl ur talking about only I really like the guy and we went out before but then broke up cuz he said we dont know eachother very well and he only wanted to be friends, if she catches you odds are she thinks u like her! so make a move ask her what shes doing over the weekend, talk and get to know her but DEFINETLY dont stalk her, girls ABSOLUTLEY HATE that!!!!!
2006-09-25 20:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by sas94yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view as a girl, this might help you. if she ever happens to ask you why you keep on staring at her, just tell her that you like her and that you would like to go out with her. but if that doesn't happen, approach her at a right time like bumping into her on purpose but making it seem like an accident or acting like you just noticed that she was there. then go up to her and ask her that you need help on a homework or something. after she helps you in some way, compliment her like by going wow (her name), i never knew that you had such beautiful eyes or something like that in a way that you never noticed that feature about her. then try to start a conversation on what you guys can relate on. if that works, then go ahead and tell her that you like her and that you would like to go out with her.
2006-09-25 21:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by hyper_cal93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant get to know her without asking her out,, and if she asks why you were staring at her,, tell her you were trying to find some way to ask her out without messing up and you were lost in thougt and held your gaze longer then was appropriate,, then explain that you believe her to be the most beautiful woma you have ever met and would like to get to know her better ,,maybe exchageemails or cell numbers,,then work from there
2006-09-25 20:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and inexperienced. Take your time, talk to her and don't be shy. If she's interested you will pick up on her clues. If she doesn't dig you, fine look for someone else. You've got a ton of time to work out new feelings and experiences.
2006-09-25 21:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Giggle* first off don't stare, that's quite rude. And second off if you like the girl ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. You'll never get to know somebody if you don't spend more time with them.
2006-09-25 20:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first things first....if she asks why you are staring at her...dont say you were staring at the wall...that is the lamest thing i have ever heard.....i stare at girls, and when they look at me, i just keep staring at them.....then you either get HER or get the inside of her hand across your face....its like a game!!
--monkeybomb_45
2006-09-25 20:56:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋