What if she says no? what do I say/do?
If she says yes, do i hug her right away?
What does "this isnt a good time" or "I think its too soon" mean?
2006-09-25 13:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by streetsoccer9594 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to a dinner or anything, just u know, a hug in the halls, that kinda stuff.
2006-09-25 13:49:36 · update #1
wing it ask her out if she says no well then she said no
2006-09-25 13:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, take it from a girl.......which i am. If she says no.....it just means she doesn't like u the same way.....she's obviously not for u right now. and if ur having problems with talking, u can say millions of things.......the simpleset yet most specific is Do u want to go out on a date with me? Or u can say Do u want to be my girlfriend? And if she says yes........DEFINITELY DO NOT hug her right away, she'll think ur a little.....wuts the word.........obcessed. So u say ok, and maybe hold her hand or something. And this isn't a good time means something in her life is going on and it's bothering her.......or she just got out of a realationship.....and i think it's too soon, means.......that she doesn't really know u all that well or she's not ready, so if she says either of those, give her space........she'll come bak when she's ready.
2006-09-25 13:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to see a movie. If she says no, just say OK and walk away. You do NOT hug her if she says yes, that is creepy. This isn't a good time sounds like she would like to go out with you, but she is busy with other things or possibly seeing someone else at the moment. I think its too soon sounds like you guys just started to get to know each other and she wants to get to know you more before going out on date with you.
2006-09-25 13:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if she says no then move along just say ok, if she says yes dont run up and hug her take it from a gurl she;ll think ur weird k, if she says this isnt a good time or i think its to soon then u might have a chance just not right now
2006-09-25 13:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'this isn't a good time' or i think it's too soon' are the same as no.
if if she says yes don't 'hug her right away'. don't shake her hand, either. just smile and talk more about the date. be specific about times and places and transportation if that is required. let her know how happy you are. smile. then look forward to a nice date. that's how you learn to interact with the opposite sex. be a gentleman at all times. most of them really like a gentleman.
2006-09-25 13:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing her a letter. Or going up to her and just ask her if her and her friends wanted to come over to your house to watch a movie. I would not go up to her and giver her a hug right away. You need to establish a relationship with her first. And remeber it is O.K if you get turned down it will only make you stronger. She will be sorry when you move on to someone elese.
2006-09-25 13:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. I mean you cant be wondering what would happen if u didnt ask her. Dude! Is this ur 1st? Whatever. If she says yes that KOOL and if she says no then say ok if thats what u want fine u know also be kool with it. Dont act stupid we hate that! Anyways just u know when its the right time. If u feel like its not go with ur guts!!!! Just be yourself thats all I can say!
2006-09-25 13:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by ღimd14uღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm in seventh grade to and just go for it. Don't be afraid of rejection because in later in your life u may be turned down. Ask one of her friends and see if she likes u or if she will go out with u. my boyfriend asked me out and he was scared to be turned down but I said no. If she does turn u down be friends. U should not be sad if she doesn't want to go out with u cause I bet your a great guy and u can find better. Just be careful about who u like cause I've gotten my heart broken when I thought I really liked someone.
2006-09-25 13:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by greeneyedsnowboarder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to her for a bit and she seems interested in you, then ask her. If she says no then leave it at that and just try to be friends. If she says yes, arrange a date and time. Those 2 phrases can mean a variety of things. They could mean just that, or they could be just excuses to soften the blow. Best thing is to follow your gut, and don't over analyze when you don't need to. You're young, live and learn. Best Wishes =)
2006-09-25 13:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she says no be liek ok thats cool
if she says yes be like ok great lets go hang out
this isnt a good time means shes probably not into u. its too soon means she doesnt kno u well enough or feels too young.
2006-09-25 13:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have these many questions. then maybe ur not ready 2 have a gurlfriend. but if she says not then u have 2 accept that. it'll just ake u stronger. u can give her a hug but then u might not want 2 bcuz it might make u seem like u were desperate.
2006-09-25 13:49:22 · answer #11 · answered by DJ Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋