Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Chris Rock (married 7 yrs to his high school sweetheart) once joked that "If you're married and never thought about this then your ain't in love.". He was talking about fleeing murderous thoughts towards a spouse LOL. Not obsessive, detailed ruminations. If you are having those SEEK HELP, ASAP! But upon them doing the same annoying thing for the 10.000th you have a brief fantasy about pushing them out of a skyscraper. Are these thoughts understandable, harmless and normal during a marriage of 5+ years or is this sick, bad, and something to be concerned about?

2006-09-25 16:18:18 · 17 answers · asked by Belle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy goes to my school and i really like him and i dont know how to say it. I am also i afraid my friends iwll get mad at me. I see a side of him noone else sees and the side that other people see is concetied and rude. What i see (or what he wants me to see) is a guy who respects others and he just jokes with people about not being on the top whatever on myspace... what i am trying to say is HOW DO I TELL THIS GUY I LIKE HIM WITHOUT THINGS BEING AWKWARD AND MAKING MY FRIENDS MAD?!?!?

2006-09-25 16:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Rachel W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 16:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 16:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by I-C-U 5 in Singles & Dating

I am completely lost when it comes to dating, I either rush in to quick or don't move fast enough. I never know when to speak my feelings or when to shut my mouth. I am a very straight forward gal and I hate beating around the bush. Any advice on how to approach dating?

2006-09-25 16:16:37 · 15 answers · asked by Askinqs 1 in Singles & Dating

Communicate with my husband? I am 18 years old he is 21 and we got married after 2 months of knowing dating each other in vegas as a joke. And due to a lot of drinking that same day have a baby on the way. We have been married for month still have not told our parents and we had our first big fight recently. I have to keep fighting the urge not to throw a fit and cry?Also sometimes my husband speaks to me as if i were a child? i really hate it!

2006-09-25 16:15:39 · 5 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Family

All i can think about is him honestly, no matter what i tell myself i can't get him out of my mind, he is the first thought when i wake up in the morning and the last thought at night, when i hear his voice and i'm mad I always smile, his smile makes me feel like i'm on a clould an he always knows what to say i truely belive he's a gift from the heavens .........so could it be love

2006-09-25 16:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by mocha-fava 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I CAN OFFER MINE!!!

2006-09-25 16:15:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to ask out a taller, older 10th grade girl, when I'm only in 9th grade? Also, I don't know if she has a bf, so how can I find out? (I don't know any of her friends, so I can't find out thru that). The only class I have with her ends after Christmas, and we are really good friends right now, but if she says no, then it will be too awkward for me to talk to her again...... ideas?

2006-09-25 16:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

from liking him, and she got all mad at me and now we are not friends, what should i do??

2006-09-25 16:15:27 · 3 answers · asked by Katelynn 1 in Friends

books, tv, movies, etc.

2006-09-25 16:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by Olive 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend left 1 week ago for Marine recruit training and I am having a hard time getting through it and I still have like 2 1/2 months left. I really don't have any friends so I'm alone on this one. Any advice on getting through this or passing time a little faster?

2006-09-25 16:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love to see cute girls get heart broken by their boyfriend. When a girl gets dumped it makes me happy because the b*tch learned her lesson for dating a stupid worthless guy. Women are stupid when there are better dudes like me :P

Shallow girls need to learn their lesson.

2006-09-25 16:14:51 · 30 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 16:13:23 · 5 answers · asked by Olive 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started having a re-occuring terrible dream @ 6-7 mos ago. that my bfriend was having an affair w/ this chick we work w/ & I told him at that time & he swore up & down that there was no way, & offered to go to counseling w/ me because I was like, waking up from this dream & crying & going crazy like, why is this in my head?( He has always treated me great & I never had any evidence to believe something was happening) but, I cant help to think of the motto Ive heard out there-;"go w/ your gut"or, "your instincts will tell you the truth" anyway, ever since then i have the dream occasionally & why do you think this is happening?

2006-09-25 16:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a guy that i was with before summer and we broke up over the summer and now we are most likely getting back together. Obviously i know its not an obligation for me to do anything with him but i dont know I feel like giving him head would be a good thing to do...i honestly i really want to. When we were together we didnt go very far...i hadn't gone very far and neither had he but over the summer things changed. I got fingered for the first time and many times after and he got head from this girl...well now its kinda like i have to do better and now im just really nervous about doing it because if i do i want it to be good for him and for it to totally push that other girl doing it out of his mind. And the whole DOING it part is wat really freaks me out. Its not that im not ready its just that im nervous and its like i was when i had my first kiss...scary but exciting. I just dont know how to go about the whole thing cuz i dont want it to be awkward an i dont want it to go badly

2006-09-25 16:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's 7 years old.. and he doesn't know how to open a soda can, he can't take the crust off his own sandwich, find his own missing things, clean up his own messes, make his own simple peanut butter sandwich, clean his own glasses, and he gets up at random times after his bedtime just to babble to us about nothing important. He makes US all do it FOR him. And when we tell him to do it himself, he whines, and eventually our dad gives in and complains about it to us. I'm 13 and was NEVER like that and knew how to do ALL that.

2006-09-25 16:12:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

While theoretically this may hold true, to a certain extent, my personal experiences have led me astray from this belief. I am curious if any of you have had a situation like this and did it "feel" right to you? Is it fair for BOTH parties involved or is it that on settles on the other since they are unable to get what they want? Is this moral to engage in or simply a matter of convenience/timing?

2006-09-25 16:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

perhaps because you thought you are not good enough and how did you deal with it or how do you plan to deal with it

2006-09-25 16:10:46 · 13 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 16:09:35 · 21 answers · asked by italianrae1986 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know if this guy is courting me or if we are just dating.i know there is a difference..what signs should i look for if i'm being courted? and what signs do i look for if we are dating?

2006-09-25 16:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to ruin "his" day but must admit that the whole naked girl grinding on my future husband gives me stomache pains. I also feel humilated that all the guys watching him will be at our wedding. How do brides deal with this?

2006-09-25 16:09:33 · 21 answers · asked by marjorieh 1 in Weddings

Okay, before you all flame me. Jessica, the daughter, is from my wife's first marriage. So she's not related to me, and she is 18, so it was legal. It kind of just happened one night when my wife was out of town for work.

2006-09-25 16:09:13 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend cheated on me this past summer, she gave a man oral sex while away on a trip to mexico to build a home. It's been almost 3 months, and she just now told me. It only lasted a few minutes, and she refused to see him after or talk to him because she felt "dirty"
We're already working on a long distance relationship, so what should I do?
I would have never known if she did not tell me, and I do truly love her. Any ideas?

2006-09-25 16:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a three year old daughter who is extremely active and usually very independent. Developmentally she is a year ahead and extremely intelligent. The problem is that I am pregnant again and I didn't think it was going to be a problem but when I'm watching my brothers little girl who's 4 months mine started acting differently. She loves her little cousin and trys to help as much as she can but doesn't seem to like the attention we have to give a little baby. We were so close to having her potty trained and now she doesn't seem to care. She'll cry and throw fits trying to get attention. I'm very worried that it will get worse when the new baby is here and I'm having to spend so much time caring for it.

2006-09-25 16:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by lil sis 3 in Family

lately my b/f has been acting distant. i understand that he has just had a death in his family(his child) and he's messed up right now. I try to be there for him but he just pushes me away. sometimes i don't hear from him for 2 days and we usually talk 5 times a day. No text messages, no emails.The more i try, the more distant he gets. What do i do? by the way, we live 2000 miles from eachother and only visit monthly.

2006-09-25 16:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by lilbit 2 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I'm around people, I smile a lot. Someone talks to me, I smile. so my question is would you like a guy that smiles all the time?

2006-09-25 16:07:43 · 27 answers · asked by ermo447 1 in Singles & Dating

when u have been in a long term relationship?
i was in a relationship for over 4 years and we loved each other. can u just not love someone anymore and just care for them? does love die? one week he told me he still has feelings for me and the next week he says he doesnt love me anymore? is this normal?

2006-09-25 16:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Communicate with my husband? I am 18 years old he is 21 and we got married after 2 months of knowing dating each other in vegas as a joke. And due to a lot of drinking that same day have a baby on the way. We have been married for month still have not told our parents and we had our first big fight recently. I have to keep fighting the urge not to throw a fit and cry?Also sometimes my husband speaks to me as if i were a child? i really hate it!

2006-09-25 16:07:21 · 8 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay sorry about putting this here but i need opinions

Im a guy.

Over the summer i found out that one of my friends (girl) likes the way i look

I get back to school and she is more on me than before. I really didnt think to much of it. Then three of us are hanging out. She starts resting her arm on my knee for some reason. Then a little later i touch her shoulder and she flat out hugs me.

I brushed it off because she always was grabbing my shoulders before and hugs or wrestles with a few other guys. And shes always joke hitting everyone.

Then a week later she stops doing it as much. Now she barely does it at all. But every lunch weve got together she makes sure to sit near me. Shes always looking for me.

So whats really going on. Are these signals

2006-09-25 16:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family