Okay, before you all flame me. Jessica, the daughter, is from my wife's first marriage. So she's not related to me, and she is 18, so it was legal. It kind of just happened one night when my wife was out of town for work.
2006-09-25 16:09:13 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's really f***** up. She was still a "daughter figure" to you... eew. I hope she cuts your d*** off.
2006-09-25 16:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing that you would even ask this question. But I am delighted to answer: You should think long and hard about telling you wife that her daughter is pregnant and you are the father. Just because Jessica was conceived during your wife's first marriage-does this make her less than your step-daughter? You should tell your wife right after your flight lands at the Canadian airport.
2006-09-25 16:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....i don't know what to say about this one... First of all..she is your STEP DAUGHTER..what were you thinking! This kind of "thing" doesn't just happen. Not only have you screwed up your relationship with your wife, but her relationship with her daughter also! I truly feel for your wife she deserves better than you. If I were you, I would tell her from a distance because if you were my husband, well, lets just say the coroner would be on the way or at the very least your "manhood" would be cut off!
2006-09-26 05:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just so disgusting! Even though u are not related to her, u were still a "father figure" to her which makes it real sick. Go ahead and tell your wife. I'm pretty sure that either way, she's going to be devastated that her husband was screwing around with her own daughter while she was away. I'm also pretty sure that no matter what, she will take her daughter's side over u.
2006-09-25 16:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if her daughter goes through with this pregnancy, you will make your wife a grandma, isn't that special?
I hope for all of yours sake, that this daughter is open to the idea of abortion. Hearts are going to break over this one.
I think you should talk to a professional counseller about this BEFORE you tell the wife. Look at all of the options before making a decision. I'm strongly thinking abortion might be a good idea here, but its not my decision to make.
2006-09-25 16:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your wife you dirt bag. You now have an innocent bastard child that had nothing to do with your choices you ignorant turd, as well as, a ruined child mother. You better take care of each of your children in the high manner they deserve. If you don't, you are going to burn in Hell after your children and wife desecrates your grave. You don't deserve to be called a man or even a human being. Shame on you! And shame on the girl who laid with you. No one would blame your wife from divorcing you, except it's her child and grandchild. The authorities should castrate you.
2006-09-25 16:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand she's not your daughter by blood but she is still the daughter of the woman you married.
She should have represented a "daughter figure".
I dont care if the girl was adopted! She's still your wive's daughter. Legal or not.
Get ready for a divorce and for jerry springer. sorry to tell ya!
2006-09-25 16:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her very carefully and only after you have unloaded all the guns and hidden the knives.
Or you could use the old "honey I've been barebacking with a HIV+ man from down the block, you should get yourself checked" Then pull the-"just kidding sweetie, but I did knock up your daughter"
Good luck
2006-09-25 16:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may not be your blood daughter but she is your STEP DAUGHTER that i think to me is still not right she is still your daughter.i would pack your stuff up and have it by the door waiting cause i know if i was your wife no matter if her daughter is 18 or not i would kick your *** out.you not only had sex with her daughter and got her knocked up but you CHEATED ON YOUR WIFE.THAT IS WRONG IN IT SELF AND THINGS JUST DON'T HAPPEN LIKE THAT.YOU COULD HAVE USE A COMDOM OR SOME THING
2006-09-25 16:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes your Wife that's is your step Daughter that's still very Disgusting
2006-09-25 21:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Way to go freak show! This means you are grandpa as well as daddy. The daughter is giving birth to her sister as well as her daughter, and not only is your wife going to be grandma, but she's going to be stepmom too! Skip telling her, draw her a diagram as to where she would fit in this picture, it'll be easier to comprehend!
2006-09-25 16:33:34 · answer #11 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋