Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

Ok, the other night I was tryin to mess with my grilfriend.

And I start touching her, with my fingers and stuff like I normally do. to get her into it.

but then she took off and started doing other stuff, and I tried again later, then she said she was tired so I left her be.

then tonight she told me,
Men are stupid, women dont want to have sex, women never think of that kind of stuff. men are gross pigs.

so I asked her if I was ever able to pleasure her,
and she said she has to force herself to get in the mood, but she use to tell me all the time thats she would get horny and stuff, and that I get her to an orgasm without trouble.

so in other words she lied before,
and now says women have no thought what so ever about sex, or pleasure...

Is this how all women are?
do you actually think of sex?
Do you actually get to an orgasm?
Why do you think she would say that?

2006-09-25 15:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by Adam D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He has talked about marriage, but always has a reason not to. Every time we complete something he wants, he will find something else that needs to get done. We get along great and have a lot in common, but there are things that I want and need, but he does not seem to relate. For example, he has benefits through his job and I have benefits through the VA, Of course, his are better, but he doesn't seem to care. Am I being selfish or is he?

If you have nothing nice to say, please do not answer. Answer if you can truelly relate.

2006-09-25 15:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by mcgrawm7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I decided to make something of myself before proclaiming my love to her. 16 years and alot of hard work after I formed my own business and became a success. Still in love with her now ready to proclaim my love. Unfortunately heard she was getting married the same week. I could'nt break her heart or smash her marriage so I remained silent. She has married 3 months now and I feel like a piece of crap. Waited 16 years to let a girl know I loved her and didn't even knew she was involved. How would you feel if you were in my shoes?

2006-09-25 15:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does he like me? I can't be sure!?
Okay, here goes... Obviously, I'm fourteen, and I like this guy. I've known him for three years, but we've only started hanging out this summer... That was when I started liking him as more than a friend. And I know he was interested for at least a little bit, because he was asking my friends about me and flirting all the time, and we wen't to the movies with a few of our friends and he let me lean into him and everything. He even called me after. But now, he told my friend he likes someone else, and he sits with her on the bus and all. But I swear he kindof likes me, because he's always really close to me, even if we're working together in school he's like 2 inches away from me! And he always tries to make me laugh, above any of the other girls... but like I said, I haven't seen him when he's with this other girl, and I'm not sure what to think... I mean, if he didn't like her, why would he sit with her and everything?? I'm just confused. Any help?

2006-09-25 15:52:37 · 4 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Well its been an experience asking questions here in Australia and getting answers from all around the world One thing that I like is everyone is talking to someone they probably dont even know offering advice or just saying hello if only our so called world leaders could take a look at what happens here I think they just may learn that people can get along a whole lot easier and instead of being so egar to shoot they just may learn to hold out a hand of friendship shake it and agree to start talking again, wouldent it be nice and cosy if our childeren didnt know what a war was because our leaders lernt to talk and value life.
Anyhooo take care everyone live peacefully love and stay alive.
TrOpPo.

2006-09-25 15:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by TrOpPo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the profile doesnt exist anymore.. wow ur sooo through

2006-09-25 15:52:20 · 1 answers · asked by Dj Enigma 4 in Friends

2006-09-25 15:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by MS.KNOW IT ALL 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was dating this dude and we were seeing eachother like everyday for about 6 months,than all of a sudden i found out he was seein this other girl on the side that he met the same night he met me.i was with him more tho.i use to talk about bein his girlfriend.he said he didnt want one.he wanted 2 woman and i was suppose to be down with that,1 would know but the other wouldn't.of course i would be the `1 to know.i wasnt on that so i said no.next thing you know he told me the girl was his girlfriend.he didnt have nobody else so he made her his woman.we stopped chatin for a while. .he called back a few of weeks later and we talked and i was cool wit him for a long time.him and the girl broke up and he would call me everyday.he always said it was my fault we broke up.i thought we was building a relationship again until... he came over and spent the night with me and had his arm around me and next thing he wasnt talkin 2 me ,sent me a tex ..he gettin back wit her thats wrong isnt it?

2006-09-25 15:51:19 · 13 answers · asked by nova44307 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 15:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by Tonya W 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

like do u think they should be goin out for more than a month or what? just wanna know what u think.

2006-09-25 15:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like my friend. I been wanting to ask her out, but cant find the right time since she's always with her friends. would it be okay if i ask her out while were chatting online? or would that make me look like a wimp? wat should i do, ask her online or in person?

2006-09-25 15:49:39 · 4 answers · asked by perez_cristian_89 2 in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for my ex bf. The thing is we only dated for a short time and that was like 8 months ago.Even though he was the one to end it, I just can't get him out of my head. He was sweet and caring. I think maybe I can't let go cuz he was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, but it was very innocent it never went past kissing. He was a few years older and more experienced(I'm 20 he was 24), but I refuse to believe that he left because I wasn't putting out. He use to say hi to me on msn after the breakup but he eventually stopped saying hi. Should I ever message him on msn just to say hi once in awhile? would that be desperate? We go to the same university so maybe we could meet up but I would never ask him that. So should I just let it go or do something?

2006-09-25 15:49:36 · 1 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

almost everyone here would probably go for the Costume Party. Why? all there will be is drinking, smoking, loud music. But if you went trick or treating you would have fun, right? hell, I give up. I'm going to the Party. You Coming??

2006-09-25 15:49:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bn together for almost two years can hardly communicate, he is closed up and i try to give him attention and show him that i am concerend but no response

2006-09-25 15:49:21 · 4 answers · asked by lost4u 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

looking for mature women who like to chat

2006-09-25 15:49:18 · 1 answers · asked by judetip 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies do you want a gentleman or a badboy. Also say how old you are with your answer so i can confirm that younger girls are stupid and like bad boys.

2006-09-25 15:49:03 · 22 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

condom that I have had in my dresser drawer? Do those things have an expiration date?

2006-09-25 15:49:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what makes us attractive to u? give honest answers plz...thanx

2006-09-25 15:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 15:48:33 · 10 answers · asked by bg 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, how did it go? Did you ever see the person again? Did you regret doing it? Do you wish it has escalated into a real relationship?

2006-09-25 15:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by Bright Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

I witnessed a dump truck verses car accident a couple days ago, the person in the car was killed instantly, I saw him not moving and felt for a pulse the accident scence was horrible and I can't seem to get it out of my head and i am upset all the time I also have to drive by the place where it happened everyday, anyone have advice to help me?

2006-09-25 15:48:14 · 3 answers · asked by BLUE EYES 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he and i broke up over a year ago and i have dated others since. none of them compare to him and i still get teary eyed when i start thinking about him. the relationship was 2 years long. i just wish that he and i could at least be friends if nothing more, but i just care about him alot and want to be there for him even if it is not in a romantic way. the relationship ended well, yet he wants nothing to do with me, not even as an acquaintance. what the heck should i do to move on from this?

2006-09-25 15:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy. I see him all the time. We've talked some. I want to get to know him more. How do I find out if he likes me and if he does: How do I ask him out or get him to ask me out?

2006-09-25 15:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle Annette 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to see what I should do in the future to pick up a girl. Could you just answer what you would look for in a man in each thing I put. Thanks!

Hair Color
Eye Color
Tan (How tan or white)
Height (Tall or short)
Muscles (This is the one I want to know the most. Do you like Big like body builders or just fit or what?)
Active (Sports)
Plays an instrument (What one)
Personality

Anything else you look for and turn you on to a man.

Thanks soooooo much!

(The 10 points will be for most descriptive or extra help).

(I know my spelling sucks)

2006-09-25 15:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him, he's sweet to me, and we really like each other. is it just me or is it time to get a new boyfriend or new friends??


HELP ME SOMEBODY PLEASE!!!! I'M CONFUSED!!

2006-09-25 15:46:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a popular chick that plays soccor,I skateboard and I'm a wicked PRANKSTER.She said I was really funny and we hang out and goof off all the time.I'm just confused cause I didn't think preps dated Skaters,please help me here I'm soooooo confused. =P

2006-09-25 15:46:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oki
well, there's this guy in my class
alot of times we end up making eye contact....we hold each other gaze for a while and then we smile and start to laugh.
often i find him trying to get closer toward's me and also when he see's me, he will make small conversation.
and some times he doesn't do any thing!!!!!

so my question is "what's up with this guy and what is going on in his head!!!!!????"

2006-09-25 15:45:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been away with the military for some time. I want to keep our relationship alive, but not sure what things a man would like. What could I send him?

2006-09-25 15:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by gizbit76 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey What should i do, my boy-friend never calls me but i REALLY like him should i dump him.I know he means well though.What should i do??

2006-09-25 15:43:47 · 13 answers · asked by ~Godrules~#1 2 in Singles & Dating

This is proabaly a stupid question but do you like it when girl walks by and her boobs rub against you? It could be on accident. My friend says that guys love it but I don't know what to believe.

2006-09-25 15:43:34 · 25 answers · asked by angelbaby 1 in Singles & Dating