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i love him, he's sweet to me, and we really like each other. is it just me or is it time to get a new boyfriend or new friends??


HELP ME SOMEBODY PLEASE!!!! I'M CONFUSED!!

2006-09-25 15:46:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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How about neither. My friends kinda hate my bf too, so i know where you are coming from. But if he makes you happy and he loves you and he isn't like too controlling or anything stay with him, because a true friend can hate all they want but they should still support your decisions and be there for you no matter what. Plus YOU ARE WITH HIM NOT THEM!!!

2006-09-25 15:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by ifitaintmeidontcare 2 · 0 0

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and this sounds like acase where its very true. Your happiness is what counts here. Is this guy from a differrent peer group? (I.E. you're a cheerlaeader and he's a cybergeek)? If so, try getting your friends alone one at a time with you and him....take your friends out to lunch. Ask that they just give him a chasnce. and they might just see a glimmer of the solar flare you see in him. If they wont ev en give a chance to actually get to know "him" and not just his stereotype, then its time to dump the shallow jerks and try associating with some of HIS friends. I bet they would all LOVE you. Good luck kiddo. Lemme kno if ive been any help.

2006-09-25 16:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Taz 4 · 0 0

been there done that!!!!! you could go either way, 1 pick the guy cause if you're friends are really your friends they will be there no matter what if not they werent really your friends to being with. 2 pick the friends cause more relationship fail then survive so why end up with no one in the end????? I picked #1 and those friends I lost I dont miss and no the relationship didnt work but it was all worth it. I got the guy for a while and learned who my true friends were.

2006-09-25 15:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi D 3 · 0 0

My girlfriend's friends also used to despise me. They think I'm a good for nothing drug junkie when I was in college. They told my girl how would I raise her and our future kids if was just a guitar player in a band and I have no chance in ever graduating college. Well, I prove those suckers wrong... finished college and got my Electronics Engineering Degree. I still play in a band occasionally but now I'm a full time Test Engineer working for Hewlett Packard. I love my girlfriend so much, I quit my bad habit cold turkey. We had a son and is going to school in a prestigious private school. To hell with my girlfriend's friends, I earn 5 times as much as they do and sometimes they watch my band play. I say, don't mind them and continue loving your boyfriend. Who are they to judge. It's your life, it's your call.

2006-09-25 16:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Trixter 5 · 0 0

If you're happy and he treats you well, your friends should respect that even if they don't like him. If they don't support your relationship just because they think he's a dork they're really shallow and not exactly great friends. If you explain to them how you feel about your boyfriend, that he's good to you and that it's important to you that they accept your relationship, and they refuse to, maybe it's time to start looking for new friends.

2006-09-25 15:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Vlad 2 · 0 0

I am wondering why your friends think he is a dork. Does he beat you? take your money? disrespect you? stand you up? curse you? cheat on you? is he a crackhead? If so, dump him and thank your friends.

Or is it that he is different than they are and they don't accept him? Are they jealous that he is good to you or concerned because he is bad for you? If so, then you need to address this with your friends individually and see what is going on with them.

You do not provide much detail so it is hard to determine what is really going on. Sometimes our friends see something we don't. Love is blind, my dear. Make sure you are seeing 20/20.

Best of luck.

2006-09-25 15:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by RiverGirl 2 · 0 0

Your friends might be a little jealous. If he was treating you bad and then they should have a reason not to like him but since he is treating you so good and then I say f**k your friends. Maybe you shouldn't hang with them that much anymore. Continue being happy and don't worry about your friends

2006-09-25 15:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 0 0

if you love your boyfriend i would stay with him..why worry about what others think..is that how you want to live your life?? I know that is not how i want to live mine..I would either tell my friends if you do not like me becasue of my boyfriend then your not a true friend..good luck on wah tto do..its all on you girlfriend..the first right hting you did was ask advice now the second is all on you..

2006-09-25 15:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by mother of two 2 · 0 0

Try to get them to at least tolerate each other, and don't break up with him if they just think he is a dork, if they think he doesn't treat you right, or that he is mean, then you might want to listen to them though. If they refuse to tolerate him, ditch them, they aren't your real friends anyway.

2006-09-25 15:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by stilettopanda 4 · 0 0

I actually stopped hanging out with a friend because she didn't like my bf. It just gets annoying hearing a so-called friend complain about my boyfriend, when I know he's right for me.

2006-09-25 15:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0 0

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