i was dating this dude and we were seeing eachother like everyday for about 6 months,than all of a sudden i found out he was seein this other girl on the side that he met the same night he met me.i was with him more tho.i use to talk about bein his girlfriend.he said he didnt want one.he wanted 2 woman and i was suppose to be down with that,1 would know but the other wouldn't.of course i would be the `1 to know.i wasnt on that so i said no.next thing you know he told me the girl was his girlfriend.he didnt have nobody else so he made her his woman.we stopped chatin for a while. .he called back a few of weeks later and we talked and i was cool wit him for a long time.him and the girl broke up and he would call me everyday.he always said it was my fault we broke up.i thought we was building a relationship again until... he came over and spent the night with me and had his arm around me and next thing he wasnt talkin 2 me ,sent me a tex ..he gettin back wit her thats wrong isnt it?
2006-09-25 15:51:19 · 13 answers · asked by nova44307 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, that's TOTALLY screwed up of him! It's pretty obvious his scheme though.. he plays as many women as he can.. but once you found out and weren't cool with it (good job! way to have some respect for yourself!) he went with the other girl because she was (or at least she didn't know). But then once he found out he could still talk to you, he tried to hook up with you again. It's real messed up of him, seriously, he sounds like a jerk and you're better off without him. But you already knew that. WHAT A JERK!!!!
2006-09-25 15:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by i rock! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry that you truly truly like this lady because she for sure would not experience the same way. I mean why else may she be prepared to split with you over no longer something merely because she theory her ex changed into going to get lower back which includes her. and then she gained't even trust something you're saying. it truly is because she's both nonetheless in love which includes her ex or truly truly likes him. I recommend you stay damaged up which includes her and initiate assembly and courting different women. I mean you're in a band, there is were given to be a multitude of ladies who imagine you're warm! bypass on. that could make you better appealing to her. do not complication about battling this guy over the lady she's no longer nicely worth it, if something i imagine you should whip his as$ only for disrespecting you contained in the first position. He honestly desires to study a lesson in the back of that! reliable success and performance relaxing residing the only existence!
2016-12-02 01:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by sargeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wish you could tell us in detail? What do you call the novela you wrote here? A long story short? What's short? Nothing here.
The details are just the childish part that gets in the way of making a good decision. None of what you wrote was important except he told me the girl is his girlfriend.
It's over, it's part of growing up as nature intended.
If you had a life of your own that was interesting and fruitful this kind of thing would be just a blip on your radar instead of a traumatic event.
2006-09-25 15:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you found a real "winner"! I'd say let go and move on. It sounds like he only wants to hang around you when the other girl isn't around. You deserve better than that. Find someone who will treat you with respect.
2006-09-25 15:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an ***!! i had the same thing happened to me,and
the next thing you know they make you feel guilty about
the thing that they do wrong(piss me off).and then they
come back ,but it's not about you,his an *** honey,he will
stay with her and he will replace you with someone else,
they not all the same,but stay away he will only confused
you,do you need that in you're life?
good luck
isabelle
2006-09-25 16:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical guy trying to have his cake and eat it too. Move on, sister. You're better than that and you know it.
2006-09-25 15:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong to treat you that way, but maybe she speaks better English
2006-09-25 15:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what his ambitions are you have your own just know he's using you for what he wants but only when he wants it. the power of the pu**y!
2006-09-25 15:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i have lost her trust...she tells me everything and i havent told anyone!! she always tells me stuff i dont kno she said she feels like killing herself..=[
2006-09-25 16:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Katelynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, find a real guy.
2006-09-25 15:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by ~aShLeY~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋