My husband has been away with the military for some time. I want to keep our relationship alive, but not sure what things a man would like. What could I send him?
2006-09-25 15:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by gizbit76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Create a picture journal expressing the deepest parts of you, and make this a daily habit. Write down the things that mean the most to you, even the little things. Then, take pictures of what you are writing about and combine the two. This give him a sense of home, and you can even use your imagination and write entries that haven't happened yet, such as what the two of you will do when you are together again. I hope that this was of some remote help to you.
2006-09-25 15:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by trufate_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i am not a guy, but....have a couple ideas. whether or not you do it, is up to how comfortable you are with the idea.
Send him lots of letters!!!! Spray them with perfume or something that will remind him of you. Kiss the letters with lipstick. ( I know this sounds old fashioned, but women did it during WW1 and 2. It worked for them. )
You could always get a polaroid camera and take pics of yourself (nude, seductive,etc.) ( I suggest polaroid because you won't have to take them somewhere to be developed. It can be between just you and hubby. Not you, hubby and the local 1 hr. photo shop) I think this would definately keep things alive between the two of you.
Good luck and God Bless both of you!!!!
2006-09-25 22:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by ktjokt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a care package, not much candy. Cookies good.
A cup with a built in water filter is perfect. Dust filters and desert camo bandanas are good.
A small battery powered fan with the batteries is good.
Batteries, especially size AAA, AA, and D are good.
You can send him adventure, westerns, guides to the country he's in. Don't send romance. They don't want to be reminded of what they can't have.
Silly toys are good. Bouncing balls, glider airplanes, balloons. Small chess sets, playing cards, dominos sets.
Send him mail. Letters, cards, photos. Send him phone cards.
God bless him, and God bless you for supporting him.
2006-09-25 22:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send him some etible panties with a juicy letter dressed up with some sexy pictues, perfume, and some delicious sex me up talk. I think the smell of your sweet perfume, your sweet wisper, and body talk pictures will make him feel like he is home for a good couple of months. Just make sure you are dressed appropriately when he comes home to top everything off.
2006-09-25 22:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by 9knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Necessities, is he in the sandbox, or stationed somewhere here?
If he is in the sandbox send him
Chapstick
Disposable razors
A pair of your panties
Underwear for him
Candies
Cookies, you baked
Whatever other necessities you think he may need...
And write him a lot of letters or send cards...These guys when its mail call they just love getting tons of mail...
2006-09-25 23:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chat with him online, they do that sometimes, or send mails. or if you want him to come back alive, here's some tips...
I had a friend who went to church every sunday. She even made a promise to God not to eat anything after 5 and she always dressed her kid in blue until he came back.
and he came back alive.
2006-09-25 22:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dude 103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I send my hubby letters everyday when he is away. I send pictures... I wanted to send video messages, but never did... candy, game stuff, food.. definitely lots of letters.
2006-09-25 23:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a picture of you in a nightie with make up and hair done.then write him a semi nasty love letter and send them to him with your perfume and a lip stick kiss on the envelope.put tape on the lipstick so it doesn't smudge.
2006-09-25 23:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him care packs.... usually consisting of stuff like beef jerky and snacks that won't spoil in the mail and magazines and news papers so he can keep up with the news of ur town......send him pics of y and be sure to stay faithful .....
2006-09-25 22:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Benjamin S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
send him a personal video....
BUT be warned... Make sure to start it off with something innocent. His buddies will most likely be watching it at first.....
Then you can set it so he can have some fun.
He will love it.
2006-09-25 22:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋