Does he like me? How do I know?

Question

Does he like me? I can't be sure!?
Okay, here goes... Obviously, I'm fourteen, and I like this guy. I've known him for three years, but we've only started hanging out this summer... That was when I started liking him as more than a friend. And I know he was interested for at least a little bit, because he was asking my friends about me and flirting all the time, and we wen't to the movies with a few of our friends and he let me lean into him and everything. He even called me after. But now, he told my friend he likes someone else, and he sits with her on the bus and all. But I swear he kindof likes me, because he's always really close to me, even if we're working together in school he's like 2 inches away from me! And he always tries to make me laugh, above any of the other girls... but like I said, I haven't seen him when he's with this other girl, and I'm not sure what to think... I mean, if he didn't like her, why would he sit with her and everything?? I'm just confused. Any help?

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I'm about the same age as you so i understand. I thinks he probably wants to make you jealous by talking about this other girl so that you will try to impress him more, and also maybe you didn't push the relationship far enough and maybe he got over you. Show him the fun, exciting side of you so he'll like you more/or start to like you again ! Idk, guys seem like that alot to me! From my experience....hope that helped a little. If not, just keep getting to know him better and better and slowly push the relationship further and further (not too fast) to more than friends and it'll work out! :)

Answer 3

Okay, maybe he likes/liked you but you didn't send enough of the right signals, so he moved on.
okay, so if he likes you, this is how you get him to make a move:
go up to him (at school, whenever) at 3 different times and say hi or whats up and touch him on the elbow when you say it. or give him a little scratch on the back.
guys really respond to touch.

Answer 4

you should definitely talk to him directly and get straight answers on everything, then you can continue to live your life if he doesnt like you, or you could start something up if he does!