Ok, the other night I was tryin to mess with my grilfriend.
And I start touching her, with my fingers and stuff like I normally do. to get her into it.
but then she took off and started doing other stuff, and I tried again later, then she said she was tired so I left her be.
then tonight she told me,
Men are stupid, women dont want to have sex, women never think of that kind of stuff. men are gross pigs.
so I asked her if I was ever able to pleasure her,
and she said she has to force herself to get in the mood, but she use to tell me all the time thats she would get horny and stuff, and that I get her to an orgasm without trouble.
so in other words she lied before,
and now says women have no thought what so ever about sex, or pleasure...
Is this how all women are?
do you actually think of sex?
Do you actually get to an orgasm?
Why do you think she would say that?
2006-09-25 15:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by Adam D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems to me that your girl just isn't into you anymore.
I know a lot of women that are always in the mood so she is wrong on that issue.
Some women think about sex just as much as men maybe even more
You may need to consider talking with her or moving on.
Good Luck
2006-09-25 15:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like she's fed up with you and it's an excuse.
Yes of course women want sex, and reach orgasm, and think about sex, and take pleasure in it.
If she doesn't want to break up, then say that you'd like to start again on a blank slate, and both get to know what the other one likes through complete honesty.
For most women, it starts in the mind, so she might prefer some cuddling and sweet talk before you start touching her with your fingers.
2006-09-26 00:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is rather lying now. She is probably angry or upset for something and trying to hurt you or generalize like that. If I do that it doesn't mean it lasts, I think it sounds as if she's angry at you for something.
Or maybe she feels annoyed that you try to do that when she doesn't want to then. I don't know.
This is not how all women are.
Women do think of sex too.
They can get orgasms too.
Honestly, if I wasn't in the mood and my BF obviously tried to do that with me, I would get offended too. I'm thinking she didn't want to then or act like that because of another issue. I think you should just try to talk to her again, ask again when she is in a better mood or something.
2006-09-25 23:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do not become really sexual till they are close to their 30's then we want it alot more often it is common in younger women not to have much use for sex
2006-09-25 22:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds exactly like me when i was with someone i wasnt attracted to. i was stuck with him, and i tried my best to love him and to make myself want to do that with him, but i just couldnt. sounds to me like she cares for you but isnt attracted to you sexually. with him i never thought of sex, but i still got horny and was attracted to others, but being around him turned me off. sorry
2006-09-25 23:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋