Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

I met this great guy(or so it seemed) we went out twice, and he called me often, over like a 2 week period...

the second night we went out i ended up going to his place, i didnt have sex w/ him but did give him head...I felt kinda obligated to, becuase he ws being a spoiled brat, and kept making me put my hand on his dick...
before i went over there he seemed interested in me, asking me questions about my family, and my day..blah blah...
But after i spent the night at his house i never heard from him again, he WOULD not retune my calls...
i didnt know wtf i did wrong, so i showed up at his palce, and he had another girl there!!!!
i didnt freak out or say anything really..
it just seems i cant get over it. Like i know he only wanted sex..but why did he act genuinley interested until the night i stayed over?
before that he was such a ncie sweet guy...then he flipped the script...

wtf did i do wrong?!

sorry for the ramble:)

2006-09-25 15:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by assidrain420 1 in Singles & Dating

This child is 9 yrs old and has her own computer, cell phone and house phone. I would love to be punished and sent to her bedroom.

2006-09-25 15:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family

theres a boy in my class named Owen he also rides my bus hes always picking on me and today my best friend Sarah helped him pick on me (id rather not say) but he makes me laugh hes also cute and i realy LIKE him i have 2 questions 1st question does he LIKE or does he just like picking on me 2nd question should i keep on LIKING him or should i stop

2006-09-25 15:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by HayHay 1 in Singles & Dating

at me to get a job when I ask her to bring me a beer? I told her to shut up before "she accidentally falls out of bed again and accidentally gets another black eye and broken hip".

2006-09-25 15:25:48 · 7 answers · asked by Landau C 1 in Family

I have my thoughts, just curious what others think. [Men only, please.]

2006-09-25 15:25:15 · 24 answers · asked by alpaca123456789 2 in Singles & Dating

it was for almost 3 years , and we have a 14 month old daughter but it was best to get out of the relationship (it was abusive,mentaly and phyiclly) its just so HARD to do. i dont have any friend to help me grieve i need help. it was almost like we were married

PLEASE HELP

2006-09-25 15:24:32 · 22 answers · asked by myannambaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my "heart" haha the person i love is having surgery the day before the sadie hawkins dance at my school.. so yeah, they won't be able to go.. i really want to!! would it be wrong if i got someone else to go with me even if its just strictly a friends thing?

2006-09-25 15:24:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother. My daughter is a little over a 1 1/2. I work full time from 3-12 in the evening. I also go to school two days a week. As of right now my two younger brothers, who live with me watch her when i leave to go to work and school. I'm not comfortable with her being around them, i'm affraid she'll pick up bad habits. I want to put her in day care but i feel like I wouldn't get to see her until the the week. Her father mother told me, I'm doing too much. She say i shouldn't go to school and i shouldn't work at that time off night. should i take her advice and quit school and find another job or is there another way!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!

2006-09-25 15:23:35 · 4 answers · asked by Amber1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to get a divorce quick and not wait out the 3 years for a separation. I have given the marriage a long and hard thouugh for the last 2 years and decided that i'm ready to call it quits.

I cannot use abuse, battery or unreasonable behaviour on his part. I found out about his affair 2 years ago and din bother to check in the last year. If i say that I am having an affair (even though it's not true) and that becomes grounds for me to get the divorce over and done with in the next 6 months, what are time implications of providing false information?

Even though i am the one in a wreak emotionally and the one hurt, i still care too much about his to "ruin" his reputation or have him go through inconvenience, I rather take the rap, get out and get my life in order without him. I'm losing it and i need out fast.

2006-09-25 15:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by ikusburples 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the number to Tina Lilly? She lives in Bakersfield, California

2006-09-25 15:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that most men don't have economic requirements for the women they date, but many women (not all) judge men on things like how much they tip, if they pay for the woman's drinks/dinner, what kind of car he drives, what kind of job he has, etc. Should men have similar requirements?

2006-09-25 15:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother. My daughter is a little over a 1 1/2. I work full time from 3-12 in the evening. I also go to school two days a week. As of right now my two younger brothers, who live with me watch her when i leave to go to work and school. I'm not comfortable with her being around them, i'm affraid she'll pick up bad habits. I want to put her in day care but i feel like I wouldn't get to see her until the the week. Her father mother told me, I'm doing too much. She say i shouldn't go to school and i shouldn't work at that time off night. should i take her advice and quit school and find another job or is there another way!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!

2006-09-25 15:22:14 · 3 answers · asked by Amber1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i drive a truck for a living and im usually gone about 3 weeks (part of the job)i met a woman 9 mo ago who worked in the front office of the co i worked for. she does not understand why im horney and want her as soon as i get home. so i have been trying to compromise, like when i get home not try and have sex until we go to bed, doing things like bringing flowers, taking her out, etc... so to my point i just talked to her and told her when i get home on 6 oct i want to take her out somewhere special and i was going to make it a suprise. well that pissed her off, see this week she is moving into a new apartment and thinks that a night out then following weekend is not going to allow her to get her place together, i think that after the stress of moving along with work a friday nite out is in order. also i have to arrange for time of 7 days in advance so that is why i will not be there this week as this move just came up today. whats your opinion

2006-09-25 15:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 15:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by shortstack 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. In the 1st week I called him a lot, trying to get him back. It didn't work. He wouldn't even pick up his phone. So in the 2nd week, I stopped calling him and stopped going on aim, just let myself disappear for about 5 days. And then 3 days ago I went online. He started talking to me and being nice to me instead of just ignoring me. And he set his status on facebook as "Rich is never going to get over it; Rich is never going to be happy again; Rich is missing her." But just now when I went online and asked him"u know, if u r missing her, why don't you give her a call". He said he didn't know i was reading his stuff on facebook and deleted them immediately. I don't get it. Why did he delete them?Does he want me back or not? He's been sending me all these mixed signals. Some ppl just tell me to move on. But the thing is, I love him. I want him back. Pls tell me how I can do that(continue to play cool?) and maybe help analyze what he's thinking.

2006-09-25 15:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

im in love with this girl
and she doesnt know it
she thinks i jus like her
shes not talkin too much lately (to me)
do u think i should tell her i love her now or no ?

2006-09-25 15:21:32 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

well my friend is being such a B*TCH she is totaly back stabbing me and i know all her secrits i dont no if i should back stab her back or just leav her alone, help! pleas

2006-09-25 15:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by hdjehshaiqjf 2 in Friends

What would u think of a girl who keep on pulling her bra up throught her shirt while running because the straps on it snaped offf/.

2006-09-25 15:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I know I said my friend but its my ex I didnt know at first she was a cutter but now that shes wearing short shirts i see the freash cuts and scars. She told me she cut each time she feels stressed or when we fight. She begged not to tell anyone but I'm scared she might do it deep one day and end up killing herself. What should I do?

2006-09-25 15:20:58 · 18 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

girls, what is it that u see in a guy that makes u fall in complete love with him, and makes u want to be with him for the rest of your life?

2006-09-25 15:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a guy I work with and he's gay..he found out that i like him and we're friends, but I overheard that he and his boyfriend broke up, and lately I have been getting the feeling that he likes me because of the weird things he does and says around me..but now I don't even want to see him and I don't know why...

2006-09-25 15:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

how so? If you love sex and you love having it why would that make u have low self esteem, I have a very good self esteem just a high sex drive. Why is it wrong to be a female and love sex? What do you think?

2006-09-25 15:18:49 · 19 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

I read that in Mexico it is considered normal for a man to discipline his wife.

2006-09-25 15:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what was your like? how old were you?

2006-09-25 15:17:38 · 15 answers · asked by brunnette advise 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 15:16:44 · 4 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family

I am dating a guy with the same birthday its really cool but I am wondering about two people with the same sign if its good or bad? we are both cancers thanks for the imput

2006-09-25 15:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think that if i whine about it long enough,and write her love poetry,like "I love u snookems,don't leave me now,i didn't mean to sleep with that fat old cow.I need to sook to make amends,that is until I do it all over again.

2006-09-25 15:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what spot do you want a girl to touch you? Nothing to dirty, something that can be done in public but cause arousal? Maybe if I put my hand on your leg, or something, tell me what works best.

2006-09-25 15:14:45 · 4 answers · asked by Katie W 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and have been married 2 years recently i found out my husband was having sex with his boss. I was devestated because my husband and i had spent the last year trying for a baby and the first year of marriage really did not use protection. He had kept saying i was the problem and we had a lot of fights because he thought it was because off the miscarriage i had when i was18 with my first bf. He met me right after and helped me through it. We seperated for 2 months and i started the paper work and so did he for a divorce. While at the bowling ally i actually ran into my ex. bf my first love and the only other guy i dated befor my husband we had seen each other around before and talked. We went out and had some drinks talked about life he turned out to be married 6 months and they had major problems ext. I had sex with him one time thing and now i just found out i am 1 month 1/2 with his child. Problem is my husband just came back and wants to work things out i said yes .

2006-09-25 15:14:14 · 32 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

God Bless!!!

2006-09-25 15:14:00 · 20 answers · asked by I-C-U 5 in Singles & Dating