I have a crush on a guy I work with and he's gay..he found out that i like him and we're friends, but I overheard that he and his boyfriend broke up, and lately I have been getting the feeling that he likes me because of the weird things he does and says around me..but now I don't even want to see him and I don't know why...
2006-09-25 15:19:15 · 13 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me tell you that a women's feelings are complicated and not even a women can understand them sometimes...no worries the next time you see him you will have your feelings for him again...trust me.
2006-09-25 15:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by luv muh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were more comfortable (felt safe) knowing he had a boyfriend. And now you have lost that feeling because he is no longer taken. Talk to him, you don't have to be forward but feel him out. Things you think he says are weird may be totally normal to him and you are just misconstruing it. If you and he get on well then keep him as a friend.
2006-09-25 22:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you know he's gay you're probably a little afraid to get involved with him because he may not continue in a relationship with a girl. Even if you find him appealing, I think you should stay away from him. This would not be a wise connection, so move on to greener pastures.
2006-09-25 22:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you ...hole is in danger. Is not good appetizer if you use your imagination what he used and like to do. Or how other people can look on you. I don't know - you should know better.
I'm sure he is very sensitive nice and polite person. He can help you but he can't hurt you.
If you can't keep him as a friend - make your mind.
2006-09-25 22:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rare and unlikey thought pattern...
But maybe, you wanted him because he had a boyfriend... and now that he's free, you seem that much less attracted to him.
OR!
You feel guilty because your obvious feeling towards could have caused the break-up of an otherwise meaningful relationship.
2006-09-25 22:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know bout this but im going to take a shot.Maybe ur afraid of gay people or u just dont agree with it.Give it time and see if ti smooths out right now
2006-09-25 22:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladiesman2034 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be gay or not to be gay? Is this the question? You can't change him. Look for a straight guy. You'll feel better about yourself....I promise.
2006-09-25 22:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by rere 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur afraid of what u have wished for is coming true and u dont know if u really want him. good luck!!!
2006-09-25 22:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because now he's no longer a challenge...
2006-09-25 22:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by QDPie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur afraid. talk to the guy, b/c he's probably worse off than u r
2006-09-25 22:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋