I met this great guy(or so it seemed) we went out twice, and he called me often, over like a 2 week period...
the second night we went out i ended up going to his place, i didnt have sex w/ him but did give him head...I felt kinda obligated to, becuase he ws being a spoiled brat, and kept making me put my hand on his dick...
before i went over there he seemed interested in me, asking me questions about my family, and my day..blah blah...
But after i spent the night at his house i never heard from him again, he WOULD not retune my calls...
i didnt know wtf i did wrong, so i showed up at his palce, and he had another girl there!!!!
i didnt freak out or say anything really..
it just seems i cant get over it. Like i know he only wanted sex..but why did he act genuinley interested until the night i stayed over?
before that he was such a ncie sweet guy...then he flipped the script...
wtf did i do wrong?!
sorry for the ramble:)
2006-09-25 15:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by assidrain420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl he is a jerk, most men are jerks like that. they will say or do what they can just to get a little or more from you. when i was young, guys used to act all sweet but once they got something it was like i never existed. when you are young you are so naive that you will do almost anything to please them. dont go that route. next time be more cautious and dont get so close to a guy unless you really want to and you are ready. ive had a guy or two that played the whiny brat role just to get what he wanted. im 27 and im much smarter now. i only do what i want when i want. keep your head up girl.
2006-09-25 15:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men love to chase and after they get what they want they disappear. hes a jerk and just forget him. just dont do what you did anymore. most men that is all they want. they dont want a nice girl. so he was less of a man to go that far with you and back out so forget about the jackass and meet someone who likes you for you. oh yeah if you see a guy coming off to strong and making moves on you like that . then you back off and dont call him no more. he will be a wolf in sheeps clothing
2006-09-25 22:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did anything wrong, he simply was only interested in getting laid. You probably answered your own question but sometimes it becomes more obvious when you hear it from someone else. I wouldn't lose much sleep over it.
2006-09-25 22:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rckets 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't try 2 figure a man out just know he is the way he is and there's nothing you can do. it's just more obvious now he's not the one for you so don't question what you did wrong cause you did nothing. Just know he's an butt munch!
2006-09-25 22:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He asked you things that pleasantly convincing, sounded like he truly cares but all it was, he got what he wanted so end of story.
You are not obligated to do anything. You did it because you are attracted to him and that you wanted to please him.
This is your lesson "no obligation 101".
2006-09-25 22:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you most likely did nothing wrong hun, you were nice enough to give him head! :p ....guys can be assholes, and there really is no explanation for that.
2006-09-25 22:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by clouds22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't do anything wrong, All he wanted was sex and since you guys didn't have sex he stop caling you etc.
2006-09-25 22:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋