i drive a truck for a living and im usually gone about 3 weeks (part of the job)i met a woman 9 mo ago who worked in the front office of the co i worked for. she does not understand why im horney and want her as soon as i get home. so i have been trying to compromise, like when i get home not try and have sex until we go to bed, doing things like bringing flowers, taking her out, etc... so to my point i just talked to her and told her when i get home on 6 oct i want to take her out somewhere special and i was going to make it a suprise. well that pissed her off, see this week she is moving into a new apartment and thinks that a night out then following weekend is not going to allow her to get her place together, i think that after the stress of moving along with work a friday nite out is in order. also i have to arrange for time of 7 days in advance so that is why i will not be there this week as this move just came up today. whats your opinion
2006-09-25 15:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some women are just crazy thats all and to a point they dont know what they want and even when they have what they want they want more but dont know what it is they want.
2006-09-25 15:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to understand women. You will never figure them out. We can't figure ourselves out. What works one day won't work the next. We change our minds like the wind. She will probably change her mind about wanting to go out. Keep it in the back of your mind and if she seems stressed with the move tell her she needs a break and you are taking her out. Then when you get home and to bed, light a candle and give her a relaxing massage. If she refuses to go out then offer to help her unpack and get some take out. She will probably need and appreciate it. Good luck
2006-09-25 22:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the gal is worth the work, maybe get a Fedex job, where you'd be home more often and can plan things better. If she's not worth the work, find another gal who's willing to adapt to your work schedule. Maybe make an honest woman of her before demanding she keep "putting out" for you. Could be that she's wanting a commitment from you & that's why she's so cranky. <*)))><
2006-09-25 22:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think is normal for a man to be horny after 3 weeks without sex. Maybe you have to find out whether she likes to have sex or not or she wants everything to be romantic first. To her way of thinking, maybe she thinks that you are taking her as a sex release.........so you had better talk to her again about this
2006-09-25 22:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Larisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you should have a wife/girlfriend that's in the same line as work you're in that way you can work as a team not making your life with her a tug-of-war.
2006-09-25 22:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is either not too interested in you or she will be extremely hard to please in any relationship. Ask her directly what is going on. Be prepared for an answer that you don't like but it may just be stress in her life right now
2006-09-25 22:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how suggesting you go out "pissed her off" It sounds like there is more tension going on here than you have provided in your information.
2006-09-25 22:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10-4 get rid of her find yourself a team driver and get it on while your at the truck stop.
2006-09-25 22:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by chef_q_c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women do know what they want !! we do want sex also, and if it had been 3 weeks, I would want my man as much as he wanted me. we could go out after we were satisfied LOL. good luck. !
2006-09-25 22:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes we do, my friend. We want it ALL! And then some. And we won't stop until we get it.
2006-09-25 22:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋