Communicate with my husband? I am 18 years old he is 21 and we got married after 2 months of knowing dating each other in vegas as a joke. And due to a lot of drinking that same day have a baby on the way. We have been married for month still have not told our parents and we had our first big fight recently. I have to keep fighting the urge not to throw a fit and cry?Also sometimes my husband speaks to me as if i were a child? i really hate it!
2006-09-25 16:15:39 · 5 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He wants to stay married.I am trying to act mature only when i am angry its really hard to act mature
2006-09-25 16:16:57 · update #1
It feels like the more i try to force myself to act maturally the more i act like a child!
2006-09-25 16:17:59 · update #2
well thats your problem you need to sit down and talk to him before you have your fit, and if you feel that your about to fi ght just tell him how you feel and what you have to say to him without screaming or crying just talking to him, if that doesnt work go to yuor room or somethi ng when you guys are fighting and when you are ready and calmed down them go up to him and talk to him.
2006-09-25 16:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child, ur gonna be extra emotional, especially now. Just sit down and talk to each other. there is stress galore for both of you now. and u must decide what ur priorities are and the best interests of this child; and dont forget that u r newleyweds. Act like it...u should be chasing each other round the bed every nite! Mite as well come clean with the parents. they are gonna find out. Remember, they were young too, and probobly still are. They can offer some useful advice, plus a shoulder to cry on.
2006-09-25 23:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Elly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is first tell your husband this so he will know how your reacting and what he should do in those cases. You then should go do something before speaking to him, bath quick walk, whatever you can do in a break (15 min) take your break without him anywhere around. I go out on my porch and smoke. When you come back you can talk normally, and tell him what you need. As long as he is not feeding the fire and he can talk to you, not shout.
2006-09-25 23:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of yous got into something huge at such a young age. when peoples be in college, just starting out in life, here u are already married with kids.
in the end, only u know what is good for u. i suggest, school, or job. settle down for the kid. or if unable, then divorce and give kid up for adoption.
2006-09-25 23:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know the reason why you fight, but your out of luck, girl, so you both need to just respect each other and get to know each other as time goes by...I believe your not in Love, but hope all works out for the both of you...
2006-09-25 23:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋