Okay sorry about putting this here but i need opinions
Im a guy.
Over the summer i found out that one of my friends (girl) likes the way i look
I get back to school and she is more on me than before. I really didnt think to much of it. Then three of us are hanging out. She starts resting her arm on my knee for some reason. Then a little later i touch her shoulder and she flat out hugs me.
I brushed it off because she always was grabbing my shoulders before and hugs or wrestles with a few other guys. And shes always joke hitting everyone.
Then a week later she stops doing it as much. Now she barely does it at all. But every lunch weve got together she makes sure to sit near me. Shes always looking for me.
So whats really going on. Are these signals
2006-09-25 16:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, they are signals. Since you didn't respond she now thinks you're not interested.
2006-09-25 16:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities I can see....
1. She was sending signals, and you seemed confused or uncomfortable so she is waiting to see your interest level... or
2. She still meant it in a friendly way and has realized that you may be reading more into it.
I vote for #1....try a tasteful touch...Good luck!
2006-09-25 23:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dude, these are signals. hello! what does a girl need to do to get your attention? dance around in panties with a sign that says "i love you?" she tried to give you signals and you tottally passed. She has probably settled for being your friend but still likes you. okay, i know this is hard, but just pull her aside one day and talk it out. ask her if you are friends, does she want to be more than that, ect.
2006-09-25 23:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Olive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to find out how she feels about you and if she likes you then take it from there. It's not good to beat around the bush about certain issues. No matter the situation always be able to communicate and express what you feel.
2006-09-25 23:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your feeling for her? If it is just "lets be friends" then you have to tell her that .You realley like her friendship but you do not have the commitment feeling for her. Ask her to join the gang (girls and boys) on an outing and kid with the other girls as you kid with her.
If you care for her ask her for a date and on the date keep hands off and enjoy each other's companionship
2006-09-25 23:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, go for it. It sounds like she's sending you signals, but backed off because you didn't respond.
If you're not into her, she seems to be getting the hint. She may keep her crush on you, but it sounds like she won't throw herself at you unless you make a move.
2006-09-25 23:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by squirellywrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont miss your window kid. Girls affections have a limited shelf-life if they arent returned. Make a move.
2006-09-25 23:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, guy. She likes you. Do you like her?
2006-09-25 23:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... they were... since you didnt respond to them then thats why she stopped... tell her you like her (soon)
2006-09-25 23:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by iluvdiamonds18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess she wants to be close to you.....
and she really likes you :)
2006-09-25 23:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by _♥w!ntER pr!ncEss♥_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋