Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

My brother is now 35 and I 32 we were unseprateable as kids and teens..my brother then married a woman that doesnt sit right with me she always treats him like a boy she even sends him to his room...he has had a rough adult hood hes a survivor of cancer and of a really bad head injury but she treats him so bad that i cant go there and visit with out coming home upset...my dad and mom say that she treats him inaddiquit so he'll feel like he needs to stay but she does it for his settlement $ from his head injury...i try to befriend her so i feel comfortable visiting but she is mean to him and is so loud and embarassing at times..i want to know my brother again and my nieces and nephews but how do i do it without losing my temper with her??My brother seems to not get he is being walked over and i know every marriage is different but i truly feel he needs an outside relationship with his family HELP!!!

2006-09-23 17:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by Alli 3 in Family

I have been off and on (mostly OFF) with this guy for 2 1/2 years. He has been dropping the word marriage (kind of randomly) for about 6 months now. I always just laugh it off. It's because I really don't know how serious he is about it. At this point, he knows he doesn't have to dangle the marriage carrot in order for me to be interested in him or have sex with him. When we are together (which is rare by the way) he always mentions me marrying him. How do I know that he really means it, when otherwise we are not even in a committed relationship. Men, PLEASE help me. SHould I wait awhile for him, or start dating other men (I am currently not dating)

2006-09-23 17:49:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today he and I broke up then he calls me up four to five hours later to tell me that he loves me and really want to be with me, but the only reason he did that because he want to better him self, but i told hime i love him for himself and we can do this together, but he feel that I don't want to help him and that he a stress too me. i told him i don't have no problem with helping him out because i love him and we talked about everything then he start talking about he want me to marry him and be the mother of his children, but i really want to know is this game or is hiding something from me or is he just trying to better himself. men please tell me and women please fell free to enclose an answer to help me better understand this situation.

2006-09-23 17:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by ke ke 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

For when you should be dating often.

2006-09-23 17:48:24 · 14 answers · asked by asprinfree_braindamage_please 2 in Singles & Dating

I realize this isn't a dating service or anything like that...but im gion to treat it like one...if there are any single girls in Knoxville, TN that are looking...Im 5'11, not in shape (im not fat just not in shape) and i like to think i have a good sence of humor and im nice...thats all i can think of. If your interested send me an email @ qed_cyrus@yahoo.com or aim is qed 0xiii ...i know most of you will leave some negative comment and make fun of me or somthing, go ahead i don't really care...

2006-09-23 17:48:18 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

people have been sayin that my boyfriend is cheating on me but i really love him and it is really hurting me. plz help!!!

2006-09-23 17:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by *ShannonMae* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf just broke up with me and is dating my bffl!!!!!!!

2006-09-23 17:47:51 · 19 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, who never ever had any good friends before me, she told me that she had a friend before but her mother did not allow her and him to remain friends because she was a bit doubty about that boy (like all mothers are!), there was a time that she had to choose between that boy and her mother. She chose her mother. (Her guy friend was having a bit of a crush on her, well she was not looking for love but friendship. This guy supported her during the bad times. But since she did not want to hurt the guy in the long run she had to give up her friendship as well. She is still very hurt by the incident. So, Guys, did she do the right thing?

2006-09-23 17:47:20 · 6 answers · asked by transporter 1 in Friends

for a pretty, but average looking woman with a great personality?

2006-09-23 17:46:41 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't go to this restaurant often but it's actually pretty close to where I live. Everytime I go in to eat she's always busy and she never waits on the table I'm at. We've made eye contact numerous times but everytime I kind of just freeze. She probably has gotten the hint I am interested in her but I have never come out and said it. She works usually during the weekends I know for sure. My question is, what is the best way to approach her/ask her out without freaking her out?

2006-09-23 17:45:59 · 9 answers · asked by 2toy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 17:45:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your over18?

2006-09-23 17:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this mormon boy I work with. I'm pretty sure he's interested in me and would really like to ask him out. My fear is that I'll be rejected for not being mormon. So can mormons date non-mormons?

2006-09-23 17:44:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 17:42:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does my gf want to push me away if she realy belives she loves me?

2006-09-23 17:42:01 · 15 answers · asked by spacenut10100 3 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago, n we stayed friends, n then tonite she talks to me saying " i messed aroudn with these kdis at this party when i was drunk" and this happened a week ago.... should i be calling her a slut, like i am, or should i feel sympathetic....i went out with her for 2 months, im only 18, and shes 17, and it jjust makes me upset, i didnt think she was that kind of person...idk how to feel

2006-09-23 17:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

old girl news?

yo, so here's the deal i'm 14, 6'0 ft, decently built with muscle (153lbs), and pretty light skinned and good looking (i'm going buy what i'm told from girls). anyways, i can usually get to any girl but between last year to the present i've liked this one girl on and off during this time she's had 2 BF's, we went through our good and our bad as friends, but as of recent (beginning 2 months ago), right about when school started we went into this period where we would just give each other plain, sudden glances from a distance. my question is i still like her and we make a **** load of eye contact, but **** i'm confused as to what i should do. i always use cologne, shower 2 a day, i play basketball and football, i workout, i shave, and i always dress nice. so somebody please help me out. also, i got a phone call from her house phone a few days ago, but i missed the call. so, what should i do?
i forget to mention i always make her laugh when we chill. sorry miro lol

2006-09-23 17:41:46 · 4 answers · asked by damon m 1 in Friends

2006-09-23 17:41:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aren't you kind of married?

2006-09-23 17:41:14 · 9 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Weddings

i mean me and my bf have been going out for 3 years intil just now! he said that he never saw me as gf! he said that my best friend is more like his gf than his friend! so he broke up with me bc he likes my best and my best friend likes him! idk if i should be mad or happy!!!!!!!!!! LIPS OF ANGEL WAS OUR SONG AND NOW ITS NOT OUR SONG! there so perfect he says! he just called me and said he ask out my best friend and she said yes and she know hes my ehx and she said she would never date one of my ehxes and she is! should i be MAD AT HER OR BE HAPPY FOR THEM!


uhhh........... love hurts so damn much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wahh.. i want him back

2006-09-23 17:41:11 · 5 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

For FUN and to annoy the babysitter,my daughter run out of the house,having the babysitter chase her.My daughter thinks is funny.I tried talking to my daughter, she said the babysitter NEVER did anything wrong.But she likes to bother her babysiiter.
We give her a lot of love and attention.Yesterday she slap the babysitter,i wanted to tell her dad(my husband) but she asked me not to.What should i do ?He's not violent.I need HELP ! She answer back to the babysitter, i ask my daughter in private,she has no complain about the lady,just doesn't like listening to her,on the contrary his 8 year old brother like the babysitter.What should i do ?????? PLEASE ! Desperate MOM !

2006-09-23 17:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by latin l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We only have sex about 2 times a week, and I'm always the one that instigates it. If it werent for that, I don't think I'd ever get laid! Im starting to get frustrated. How can I increase his drive?

2006-09-23 17:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not sure if he loves me but I am sure he only wants to bring me to an inn..and I think he doesn't have a good family values...do you think it will be alright? Please help me decide before I jump to his bed...open to all

2006-09-23 17:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by Cherriz G 1 in Singles & Dating

if you are reading this, know only that I love you and the past is simply the past, a time that was tough, but the future is a place in time that I know can be incredible. I miss you much, Ok the question, do you think the he I am writing this too will read it?

2006-09-23 17:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

so this guy likes me i tell him i dont like him but he wont listen and hes really anoying he calls me everyday (i dunno how he got my number) and he get into my buisness wat should i do?

2006-09-23 17:38:50 · 16 answers · asked by noelleschemicalromance162 1 in Singles & Dating

with one i have really have good communication & good friendship.
with other i have this attration & chemistry...

who would be a better choice for a serious long term relationship...

2006-09-23 17:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends husband is driving her crazy,he is not romantic,never spends any time with her.Hes either working or watching some lame *** movie (typical male pic of guns,shooting and action,when she speaks to him he doesnt take his eyes of the screen,then he goes staight to bed,sometimes without even a kiss good night or anything.He never initiates for sex,and he only responds when he wants to,and not neccessarily when its convienient for her.He goes from one extreme to the next sometimes very caring,gentle and loving and sometimes mean,neglectful and bossy.Shes tired feels lonely and isolate,divorce is not an option for her (SO PLEASE PEOPLE REFRAIN FROM TELLING HER TO DUMP HIM) He was raised in another country OUT IN a village and is really backward in his thinking.She just sits and dreams someday he will change but he does not shes only 26 yrs old and he never takes her out,he just blames it on account of her health problem(shes disabled because of health.What advice to give her?pleas

2006-09-23 17:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to cry, I feel like he doesn't want me, doesn't need me, doesn't care that *I* WANT intimacy with him more than once a month or so. Sex is astounding the seldom times it happens. He DOES INDEED work hard for our family, but he can take 10 extra minutes to soothe our 3yo to sleep, why can't he give me the same effort? I'm thinner than when we met, I still grab and kiss him and tell him how much I love him and how sexy I think he is. I get very little in return. He's a PERFECT HUSBAND AND FATHER in EVERY OTHER WAY. But he can't or won't compromise on intimacy. What can I do?

2006-09-23 17:37:16 · 31 answers · asked by xosm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and him have been dateing for 8 years (i know that is along time) a talk to hem ones or twis a week he never talks to me and he flurts with the girls in his class he is nice to me and thinks i am a great persen but he makes me made when i go over hes house and we kiss and talk but i dont feel right i dont what to kurt hem so what shound i do

2006-09-23 17:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by mo mo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

back in the 50's to 60's it was still taboo for a white woman and blakc man, back then.
but now it is cool for a white woman to be with a black man. hip even.
so is the trend for asian guys beginning as well?
so that 10 years from now, maybe, it'll be a common thing?

2006-09-23 17:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating