people have been sayin that my boyfriend is cheating on me but i really love him and it is really hurting me. plz help!!!
2006-09-23 17:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by *ShannonMae* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
before you go believing anyone's lies and accusing him of cheating...you need to sit him down and talk to him. Ask him to be honest with you and tell him what you have heard people saying about him and what they say he is doing.... tell him you arent accusing him that you just want to know the truth.
You wont know unless you ask him...... I can't say if he is or isnt, but for your sake so you can stop the wondering and hurting.....talk to him about all of this .....dont take anyone's word about him cheating because it just might not be true.
Good luck to you and God Bless.
2006-09-23 17:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to try to picture yourself 5 or 10 years from now...................... do you see yourself with this guy? How long have you been with him and are you close enough to each other that you can tell him anything without him getting upset at you? Are you in love with him or are you in lust with him? You have to weigh out your pros and cons. Is it his friends or your friends telling you he is cheating on you? If it's your friends..... are they saying it because they dont like him? If its his friends....... are they saying it for your boyfriend because he really wants to break up with you and doesnt know how to tell you? There are alot of questions you need to be asking yourself before you even try to make a decision. Have you asked your boyfriend if he's cheating? If he is cheating then dont think twice about dumping him, there is a great guy out there for you.
2006-09-23 17:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe everything that you hear.
People say stupid things.
Whether it's true or not, I don't know. And neither do you. Take what people say into consideration, if they have good reason, but don't let the thought totally consume you.
Sit your man down, and talk to him about it. Steer clear from accusing him of cheating, but make it clear that you're unhappy about what people are saying.
Hopefully, with a good heart to heart, something might be uncovered. Good or bad, at least you'll know.
2006-09-23 17:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice first is talk to your boyfriend first about it. Find out if its really true. Its sometimes a good idea to listen to others, but other could also try to spread rumors to break your relationship up. Seek out the source first. If your boyfriend's responds sounds icthy then maybe snoop around to see if its true. Take terms into your own hands.
2006-09-23 17:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by anakaris_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for yourself!Don't trust a rumor on love...if he is cheating,take a break and see what happens!
2006-09-23 17:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it seems like all the close ones around you are telling you something, maybe you should listen to them. But there are plenty out there who's intentions are just to hurt.
2006-09-23 17:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamer8725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and catch him in the act of doing it. its normal to be hurt but you dont deserve to be cheated on. Try talking to him and see if he's honest about it.
2006-09-23 17:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by @bsolutely $weet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard all kinds of gossip about my husband before, I never listened to gossip. If the people who are saying it can say it in front of him then believe it.
Gossip is uggly and destroys, don't fall into it.
2006-09-23 17:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up ask him if hes cheating thats the only way ur gonna know
2006-09-23 17:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by babyboo_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY BELIEVE THE PEOPLE THAT YOU TRUST. AND IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU, LET HIS *** GO AND MOVE ON. BECAUSE IF HE DOES IT ONCE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM.
2006-09-23 18:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by nshsalumni06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋