We only have sex about 2 times a week, and I'm always the one that instigates it. If it werent for that, I don't think I'd ever get laid! Im starting to get frustrated. How can I increase his drive?
2006-09-23 17:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him, post pictures, state where you live. im 25
lol jk
youve got to find out what he wants. communication is the key. at the same time, dont only do what he wants. tell him what it is you want, and how he can make you happy
sex is really important to some people and their relationships. do you find yourself resenting him for it or is it just a pet peeve? if you're happy in all other aspects of the relationship, then consider yourself lucky.
2006-09-23 17:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Darin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men sex drive depend on his age, at 35+ the sex drive is definitely not so good compared to men around your age 23+. Thus, you better not to push him so much, is better let nature take its place. Taking those medicine like "Viagra", the side effect is always there, thus not advisable. If you are so horny, no choice you have to live with it for the sake of "love", otherwise go for a younger man.
2006-09-23 17:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'll never be able to keep up with you even if you increase his drive. Find someone else or learn to cope with the frustration. It's not going to get any better if he's not all over you now.
2006-09-23 17:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 07:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people said, love got nothing to do with age. It's true emotionally, but not physically. Men are going down peak after 35 years old....but you will reach your peak at 35. Think about it...you have to sacrifice.
2006-09-24 16:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it shouldn't really be all about that stuff. It should be about time with one another i mean you both are in a time in your life when you are looking for the right one, and that's what you should really be doing. So take it easy spend time with him, and as men get older their drive goes down, and it takes a while for them to get used to that feeling. So it will be okay, take it easy!
2006-09-23 17:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by xCrazY4hImx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say it happens all the time and imagine you are 40 and he is 52? You are right at the peak and he wouldn't able to get it up.
Sadly, I can't offer you a solution. I feel sorry for you but what happened to you happens to many people. I try to engage in other activities but no extra-marrital affairs.
2006-09-23 17:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to ask him if he is really interested in you. It sounds like he may be trying to keep from hurting your feelings.
To those who recommended Viagra -- I'm 45 and DON'T NEED THE STUFF! There's something else going on here.
2006-09-23 17:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear things like this and for you I feel bad, and for me I feel SO lonely.
Get him to have a check-up, might be his diet, working hard, maybe a little depressed. The doc can find out, that's a good place to start.
2006-09-23 17:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody's different, maybe some soft porn movies would help? Ask him! If he realizes it is a problem, maybe he will work on it. Just don't badger him, that would make it worse.
2006-09-23 17:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋