with one i have really have good communication & good friendship.
with other i have this attration & chemistry...
who would be a better choice for a serious long term relationship...
2006-09-23 17:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friendship is the foundation.
Chemistry is a feeling, that WILL fade.
2006-09-23 17:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, the first. However, all of this depends on how long you have known the two. If you have known the first guy for a long time and there is still no chemistry, it may never happen, which doesn't make for a great "relationship", even if it is a wonderful friendship. With the second, if you have just met him, if you can back off from the sex for a while, the friendship there could develop too.
2006-09-24 00:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NOT CHOOSE ANY, SINCE YOU REALLY DONT
KNOW WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH, UNTIL YOU DO YOU NEED TO LEAVE BOTH OF THEM ALONG IT UNFAIR OF YOU
KEEP THIS MEN ON SOME KIND OF STRING, HOW WOULD
YOU FEEL IF THE SHOE WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT, BUT
BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOUR DOING,, YOU MAY NOT
NEED A CHOICE THE CHOICE MAY BE ALREADY MADE,
YOU MIGHT BE ON THE STICK BY YOUR SELF. WHY YOU
PLAYING THESE GAMES, GIRLFRIEND. REMEMBER THAT.
2006-09-24 00:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attraction and chemistry should be your long term relationship. dont ruin your friendship with the other guy
2006-09-24 00:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a hard one. but personally i would go with the one with a good communication and friendship. but its not no one elses choice. its what you feel in your heart.
2006-09-24 00:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Numan girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo toughy....i thinkid go with the second (looks dont matter though) but going out with a friend ruins it all. trust me, ive done this b4. when u go out with your friend you can NEVER go back EVER. it changes everything. only if u really like ur frend and he likes u. god luck!
2006-09-24 00:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by explodingmonkee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, lets leave my life relationships to strangers on the internet!
How bout you decide for yourself, kid.
2006-09-24 00:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try both at the same time you might enjoy yourself.
2006-09-24 00:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you just rotate them, like your tires?
2006-09-24 00:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋