Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

i feel there is a lack of equilibrum between me and my girlfriend. i feel like i am giving more than i am recieving and that she somehow takes me for granted although her words reassure me that isn't the case. i feel like i lack the liberty of choice and that i am being somehow subconciously controlled. any thoughts?

2006-09-22 09:06:08 · 6 answers · asked by iwasborntoday 2 in Singles & Dating

Why can't I go out and get rat arsed till 4 in the morning when it's only me who ends up with a hangover. I don't play around I just like getting pissed. I never hurt anyone. Is it just me?

2006-09-22 09:05:27 · 36 answers · asked by Steven W 3 in Family

My wife and I have been doing alot of fighting, I can see where my faults are and am willing to admit them to a marriage counsler. My wife doesnt want counsleing cause she thinks I wont be honest. She wants all this commotion but wants me to leave our house. I spoke to a lawyer to find out my rights and he said I should stay in the house and not to leave. I want to work this out with her but she doesnt want to talk to me right now and wants me out so she can think things over. Any suggestions?

2006-09-22 09:05:20 · 15 answers · asked by djcmin76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is this girl that i think is beautiful, i talk to her online every once in awhile, Im usually a guy that doesn't get nervous around women, but when im talking to this girl in person im scared to talk to her because im scared to mess up and say the wrong things, what should i do to not feel nervous or tell me anything u think can hellp me THANKS

2006-09-22 09:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by Chosen One 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 09:04:16 · 31 answers · asked by christianstrauss51 2 in Family

Don't just say a restaurant or the movies ... I would like more specific answers for good date ideas (not specific locations unless they are available nationwide)

2006-09-22 09:04:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how cud i get rid of a hickey and how long does it take for it to go away?

2006-09-22 09:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by sophia 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not really into 30 year old females I prefer them younger than me, Not that young, but like between 21 and 25? Is that bad...?????

2006-09-22 09:03:35 · 30 answers · asked by Chuy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys what is up with you not likeing us cowgirls I got some answers saying that we were just tough and no man wants that. yeah i can not argue we are tough but it the eway we are raised. I personaly think we are great people and only "tough" when we have to be. And I personaly think that we are worth it you guys just remember we ride horses all the time and most of us know how to please lol any disagreements?

2006-09-22 09:02:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married tomorrow and I have to give the best man speech. I would like to incorporate a joke or two. Two things that I would like to joke about are that they met at a bar. When my friend was in the bathroom, his wife (as of tomorrow) came up to me and my other friend and told us that she thought he was hot. This is how they met. Secondly, he broke his ankle at the bachelor party. I am not sure if this is a sore subject, but I bet I could make a joke of it. THANK YOU!

2006-09-22 09:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by scott 3 in Weddings

2006-09-22 09:01:12 · 36 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a person knows that "1" specific thing/person/fact/idea that makes their life miserable and has the power to change it, why don't they?

Why choose a downward spiral when they have a choice to be happy?

Why let anyone, anyTHING for that matter, bring you down when you can lift yourSELF up?

Why the frantic search for an outside solution, something to cling on to, something that doesn't last...when the answer lies within you?

2006-09-22 08:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Mo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there.. sorry for relating this here. i just spoken to a netfriend who came from China and now work in an asian country as an social escort. she is being cheated to work as such although in reality ppl can say all sort of things about them, such as love for $. the bottomline is signing contract and being bonded for 5yrs.

Her plight is beyond my understanding, imagine the ponographic cds ppl watch.. imagine being force to do all the dirty stuffs and cannot say no. we are talking about the mafia.

my dear friends, i know sex with boyfriend (prior marriage), prostitution, abortion, cohabiting is very liberal in the west, esp. i read so much here at yahoo answers. but these are something that cannot be taken likely with.

there are friends here who make fun in the name of sex but we really must not forget there are many ppl like my netfriend who are in miserable plight. i hope u would encourage your friends to pursue a holy life instead.. i am sorry if u are offended by my remarks

2006-09-22 08:59:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was 15 i met a guy in high school. i was a nice girl and he was kinda wild...but he was a bit like my first love. he calls every christmas. now he's engaged and i have a boyfriend (who actually used to be his best friend) Anyway, I don't really hear from him but every now and then. Last time I told him I couldn't see him because of him being engaged and my boyfriend...even though he told me that I WAS THE ONE he wanted to wake up beside, blah blah.. (yeah, i know..i felt bad for his fiance) So at work the other day, he sent white roses (my fav.) and a CD with that song, "all along" by nickleback...it was just the best thing ever, but what should i do??? i love my boyfriend, and i'm not going to move in on some girls fiance, but it just made me so happy. i dont even know how to react. i'm in shock. what do you think ??

2006-09-22 08:58:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i want him to say he likes am as a friend should i get he rto ask him

2006-09-22 08:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by Banana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I unexpectedly came across my boyfriend's internet browser history, and to my dismay I found out he is participating in an online pornography forum! While it doesn't seem like he is really chatting with other ladies on the forum (it seems like he is more prone to commenting on whatever ladies post pics of their goods, and leaving it at that), I did find a picture of his erect weenie on the forum!!
I always told him to be open and honest with me, and it devastates me to immense levels, since we have been together for over ten years!! I for one have never been into porn, but I have always kept an open mind about people's sexual interests, and I've told my bf that he should never feel afraid to discuss things with me.
I'm worried that someone else on this porn forum will ultimately try and hook up with him. What should I do? Should I spy on him and create my own profile? See if he goes for the bait? Should I not even worry about it? Help!

2006-09-22 08:57:24 · 12 answers · asked by jiinx512 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never done anything bad to either

2006-09-22 08:55:32 · 14 answers · asked by ciuajj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has told me that he has had fantasies about my step-mom and my best friend. How am I supposed to react to this. I feel like crap. Now every time he talks to my step-mom, I feel like he's flirting with her. I think I'm just parranoid, because he said all of this when he was drunk, but it still makes me think that way....

2006-09-22 08:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is 21 my bestfriend is 18

2006-09-22 08:54:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or the new wives are more jealous of the ex-wife?
Just curious...I know there is always going to be some on either side. Just wonder what you think??

2006-09-22 08:53:48 · 31 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know from any mature minded person why we as Americans seem to disown love ones for dating and/or marrying someone who is not of the same race/color as we are. I thought love had no color and if that is true then why do we as a people look at other couples funny when we see them walking out in public. I am having a hard time understanding who made up this so-called rule that you can't date anyone outside of your race. MATURE PEOPLE ONLY please enlighten me on this topic so that I can pass this information on and help to educate those who seem to be bothered by mixed couples. Feel free to e-mail me or catch me on IM to elaborate more.

2006-09-22 08:53:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

look, I real love this girl, I want her so bad, but the sad part is that she have boyfriend, but I want commence with her as a friend, last time when I saw her I ask her for her phone #, she told me her boyfriend wont like it, if she give me her phone #. That's my second week since I met her, I'm trying to be her boyfriend, but she don't know yet, I feel something read special about her, and when I see her something inside me say "she was made for you, and I need to fight for this love" I never had felt something like this. what should I do If I see her?

I love you all

2006-09-22 08:52:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime my boyfriend trys to kiss me i stop him because i don't know how to do it.

2006-09-22 08:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

hello everyone hope you are all fine, I decided to split from ex husband after bein fed up of being hurt, abused and smacked me around, he still came to see the lil one supervised, he told me hed changed, and would provide for me and the lil one insted of living of me, promised not hurt me any more, i noticed that he'd changed and didnt blame me for the debt he was in and didnt use me for money, and had started to respect me, i agreed to give it a try, he is working and I live of uni loan, i am having a really bad time with my finances, and had managed to save up some money to pay my bills, otherwise the debt collectors would be on my back. today he said he was going out, and would be bak in 30 mins, an hour after he went i called him an had no response, i then realised that he has taken all my money for my bills. i no its my fault for letting him in i hate myself, how could I have been so stupid, i let me and my child down what should i do? I no for real that its over but feel so hurt

2006-09-22 08:51:47 · 22 answers · asked by sweetlikehoney_73 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously - the type of thing that just makes you cringe when you remember it.

I'll start - to get the ball rolling. I still can't believe I did this.

A few weeks ago I texted a REALLY intimate message to my boyfriend. I mean, something that was meant to ONLY be between us. Not even gushy I LOVE YOU stuff, I mean this was graphic. I was a bit tipsy at the time, so it's not something I would normally say sober. His name is right beside my brother-in-law's name in my phone book so when I went to add in the sender I scrolled down too quickly and inadvertently sent the message to my brother-in-law! He's VERY straightlaced - a deacon at my sister's church.

I WAS MORTIFIED!!

Moral of the story: DON'T DRINK AND TEXT!!!!

You turn! What's something that just kills you every time you remember it?

2006-09-22 08:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on cooking a romantic dinner, placing rose petals on the bed, with massage oil beside the bed with wine and champagne near by.With candles and sexy music!!

2006-09-22 08:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 08:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Whats a nice baby name for a girl, Mariam or Jane, I like Mariam better, but other people like jane aswell? How about both of them? "Mariam Jane"

2006-09-22 08:47:14 · 29 answers · asked by gee.tar1 1 in Family

I got a crush on a guy. I know he likes me too, but I don't want to go out with him but then I want to go out with him. The thing is that I always have a habit of breaking things of when it gets really serious. This guy is so sweet and nice, that I don't want to hurt him, so I don't go out with him, but then again. I like him. Help!!!

2006-09-22 08:47:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister, who is forty years old and lives with my parents, has recently started to stay one night a week at my mother-in-law's house. She had lived with me and my husband and our children for about nine months at one point, then she was staying with us one or two nights a week. I decided that enough was enough and basically hinted that I didn't want her staying at my house so often. Lo and behold, she is now at my mother-in-laws house once a week. My mother-in-law is 82 and my sister takes her out for dinner and of course my mother-in-law is delighted. I am happy for my mother-in-law, but whenever I call her she always tells me how she just got off the phone with my sister, and my sister has told her everything that we may have done for the weekend, or whatever news there might be. I really feel uncomfortable with this and feel that my sister just went from my house to my mother-in-laws. Am I mistaken in feeling this way. Is my sister overstepping her boundries?

2006-09-22 08:46:40 · 13 answers · asked by proudmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships