my boyfriend is 21 my bestfriend is 18
2006-09-22 08:54:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and you are how much? this is the first thing and no you can not date them both cause you don't love them well as far as I know you can not be in love with two persons at the same time and the thing is if you really love your boy friend then well be with him and if you really love your best friend then be with him but believe me if you date both of them you will end up lossing both of them and the thing is that you are not functioning well cause if you foll in love with your best frined and you decide to be with him you are going to have a great relationship but if things get wrong oh God you are going to loss a lover and a best friend so if you ask me i will tell you if and only if you think that you could mentain the friendship that you have back when you breake up then you could date your best friend and also if you think h is the one for you. but if not then don't end up lossing both so just continu dating your bf. you read me.... GOOD
2006-09-22 09:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you keep this up there will be tears before bedtime so to speak, they will only end up fighting over you is that what you want?...you seriously need to chose which one you want to be with...be careful you are playing with fire...it could so happen if you don't chose, and they both find out, that you lose the both of them, then what.
2006-09-22 16:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can date them both...IF they are both kewl with being "one of the" guys you are dating, and not "the only" guy you are dating.
As long as you are honest to each guy that they are not the only person you are seeing, then you can go out with as many guys as you want...
However, if you are "in love with" both of them...you are probably setting at least one fo them, as well as yourself, up for some heartache...
2006-09-22 15:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you chose to date both at the same time, your gonna end up having to chose one eventually...now if you love you boyfriend and your bestfriend, by dating them both you will end up losing one...look in to your heart and try to figure out which one is the right one for you
2006-09-22 15:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Island Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you floosie....your in like with 2 guys because if you we're truly in love....LOVE would have prevented you for falling in LOVE with another. Get a damn grip. On second thought, ask them what they would think about you loving & dating the both of them. Let me know how THIS works out for ya.
2006-09-22 15:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up your mind girl or you are going to loose both, would you allow your guy to be in love with two its a no win situation
you want to date your boy friend and your best friend,and you say your in love with both, i think you a young and dont know the word love you can only love one,
2006-09-22 16:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes if theyre both ok with open relationships. when i date more than one guy i make sure to tell them that we;re casually dating but i be sure never to tell them about other guys or other daes because i feel thats rude
2006-09-22 15:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by mechanicalanimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends. If you have a casual (non-sexual) relationship with your boyfriend it might be possible. Don't try to be sneaky about it. It will end in tears if you do.
2006-09-22 15:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not going to work out...you should decide who you would like to see, and let things work themselves out from there. dating two people at the same time is never a good thing, its not good for the two individuals, and its defintely not good for you to do.
2006-09-22 15:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Axel Foley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt because if your best friend found out that you were still with your bf then you'll lose your best friend and its the same thing with your bf. so you figure out who you want to be with more and be with that person.
2006-09-22 16:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋