look, I real love this girl, I want her so bad, but the sad part is that she have boyfriend, but I want commence with her as a friend, last time when I saw her I ask her for her phone #, she told me her boyfriend wont like it, if she give me her phone #. That's my second week since I met her, I'm trying to be her boyfriend, but she don't know yet, I feel something read special about her, and when I see her something inside me say "she was made for you, and I need to fight for this love" I never had felt something like this. what should I do If I see her?
I love you all
2006-09-22 08:52:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should RESPECT the relationship she has with her boyfriend... what kind of boyfriend do you expect to be when, as an outsider, you can't even respect what she has going on in her life right now?
I hope you don't think you're capable of impressing her by constantly trying to intrude in her relationship... it doesn't work that way with women. You'll only end up having the opposite effect and you may even cause her boyfriend to become upset with her because of YOUR actions
2006-09-22 08:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all your life is not almost over. Secondly, if she wants to be with you then she will. You are going to come in contact with lots of amazing and beautiful people in your life, and one day there won't be a boyfriend in the way. Just be patient. As for next time you see this particular girl, play it cool. Just acknowledge her existence with a hi, and then just go on with it, give her some mystery, she will get curious and want to know why you don't talk with her as much or wonder what your up too, which will give you the notion that she does care, or she may just not care. Either way you can't help who you love and in time someone will love you back.
2006-09-22 16:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe deeply and listen carefully. The only way to win some battles is to not fight them. If you truly love this girl lay off. If it is true love it will be the same next week, next month, next year, or even next decade. True love isn't jealous. Tell her that if she ever wants to explore more you are open. Then, let it go. Live your life. Focus on making yourself the very best you can be so that you attract the very best of all. When you are the very best you will attract the woman of your dreams, whether it is this one or not.
2006-09-22 15:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be brave ,and u know she has mind and she is owner of her life too ,if u really think u love her ,ok ,do it ,see her and say to her that u love her ,be truth ,look at her eyes and say it ,so inocent ,the way u wrote here say to her ,try to be brave and just u,but if she said she dislike u ,then just u know one side love is the worse kind of love,and just u know this world will continue even if u never reach her love
good luck
2006-09-22 15:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by mohsen m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant love someone you dont know, and if it is meant to be it will happen, you cant try to force someone to be with you. What if she is perfectly happy in her relationship? So, what you do is nothing. If maybe one day her relationship goes bad or she feels as if she wants you im sure she'll find you
2006-09-22 16:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be patient...just like the saying if it's love or meant to be. you can let it go and it will come back to you. you can't push her, it'll only push her away. she'll let you know whenever she's ready and when that time comes if your still interested there can be a chance for something.
2006-09-22 16:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by mrsgilleland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-22 15:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to give her some time to know you . your going kinda fast and seeming really desperate which she'll run from. be the best friend u can be first and be sincere without alterior motives so you dont loose her as a friend too.
2006-09-22 15:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much, leave her alone. She is in a relationship already and you need to respect that. Period.
And lay off the E, Mr. Lovey-Dovey...
2006-09-22 16:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by sokkermum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER ALONE!!! I hate it when people see others in a relationship and try to break it up. Would you like it to happen to you? If you had her would you like her to give her number to other men?? I didn't think so. Just leave her alone PLEASE!! all you commited women out there when you meet men like this man out there, tell them NO and continue your life.
2006-09-22 15:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋