My boyfriend has told me that he has had fantasies about my step-mom and my best friend. How am I supposed to react to this. I feel like crap. Now every time he talks to my step-mom, I feel like he's flirting with her. I think I'm just parranoid, because he said all of this when he was drunk, but it still makes me think that way....
2006-09-22 08:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When people are drunk they don't think before they speak and being a guy myself we can have fantasies about almost anyone.... I'm sure he doesn't mean to fulfill the fantasies... Calm down everything will be alright....
2006-09-22 08:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steven S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if you get to paranoid and start bit--ing about it, he's never going to tell you anything again remember if he didn't tell you, you would not know. Then that brings us to another reality check, we all are human it's natural to have fantasy's, Don't you have them?
Try not and make a mountain out of a molehill just enjoy your boyfriend and life.
2006-09-22 16:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by SANCY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them all over and hook up. Supply the beer. That should satisfy his fantasy and will realize your the best woman he's ever had and will never want to part with you again
2006-09-22 16:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he has fantasies of your step mom and your friend he may just act on them one day and usually when you are drunk your true feelings come out so you do have a reason to feel that wat
2006-09-22 15:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i wouldn't stay with him after that, the thing is i'm very graphic and i also have a terrible temper so it would only end in me going to jail
2006-09-22 15:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasies are healthy part of the being a male, it really shouldnt matter unless his fantasies are acted out.
2006-09-22 16:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by nonsteroidalantianalgesic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it when he's sober. you'll never know unless you ask. tell him how you feel. even if he has had fantasies, he's a man, it happens! he probably still respects you and knows where to draw the line.
2006-09-22 15:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow tell him 2 stay away from ur step mom n best frend
2006-09-22 15:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him right away
2006-09-22 15:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋