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Or the new wives are more jealous of the ex-wife?
Just curious...I know there is always going to be some on either side. Just wonder what you think??

2006-09-22 08:53:48 · 31 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

31 answers

Ex's are generally more jealous. They actually hate to see their ex happy.

2006-09-22 08:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 2 0

This depends on the situation I would guess. If the husband has a friendly relationship with the ex, the new wife may feel threatened & has every right to her own feelings but hopefully the husband would do what he could to reassure his wife that she is "The One" & has nothing to worry about. And the new wife's feelings should be taken into consideration considering she is the woman he would be currently comitted to. So if the new wife has issues with the relationship between her husband & the ex-wife, then maybe the husband needs to look hard at the situation and cut ties with the ex-wife, UNLESS there are children involved then the new wife knew this when she married him, and, well, the kid(s) NEED for their parents & even step parents to ALL get along. Now some ex-wives may be super jealous of the new wife because she may feel the husband is doing more for the new wife than he did for her. This is a difficult question to answer because of different situations.

2006-09-22 09:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0 0

Ex wives are not at all jealous of any new wive.
We are just so happy that the creep is now someone else's problem.

Therefore it is the new wife jealous of the Ex wife.

2006-09-22 09:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0 1

I think the new wife is more jealous than the ex-wife. Because for the ex-wife, the ordeal is over and there is no use crying over spilled milk and she already had accepted the fact that her marriage ended the moment her husband took another. As for the new wife she wil always be in the state of shock, suspicious and untrusting coz she never knows her husband might try doing it for the third time.

2006-09-22 08:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 2 0

Personally, I think that new wives are more jealous of the ex-wives. Its like they can't get past the point that they were not the first, maybe it makes them feels threatened, or like they were chosen second.best. Who knows, but this is the way I have always seen it.

2006-09-22 09:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by bemassey2 2 · 2 0

From my personal experience I, as the ex, was not jealous at all. They did not even know each other until after we were divorced. As far as she went, she was so jealous and resentful of me. I don't know why. My ex and I did not have kids together so there was very little contact between us. She made several comments about me to friends that my ex and I had together. I still can't figure it out.

2006-09-22 08:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1 0

human nature to be a little jealous on both sides - women are territorial - but i wouldn't give my ex the satisfaction of being jealous over the lucky lady that gets him - i just wouldn't want the new wife to start being a mother to my kids - that's where i draw the line.

2006-09-22 08:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Here's a good one I received today; it's funny, and I think it sheds some light on your question.
A man and his wife are dining at a table in a plush restaurant, and the husband keeps staring at a drunken lady swigging her gin as she sits alone at a nearby table.
The wife asks, "Do you know her?" "Yes," sighs the husband, "She's my ex-wife. She took to drinking right after we divorced seven years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since."
"My God!" says the wife, "Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?"

2006-09-22 08:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 1 0

i put my ex and his new wife who happens to be my best friend, together. i knew they were a perfect match.i still love them both in a friend kinda way no funny stuff lol but my answer is no we are not jealous of each other.good question though

2006-09-22 08:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Ex-wives are only jealouse of the if they still have feelings for their husband and if the husband do not clean up his mess properly.

2006-09-22 08:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by templebombshell 1 · 1 0

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