Why can't I go out and get rat arsed till 4 in the morning when it's only me who ends up with a hangover. I don't play around I just like getting pissed. I never hurt anyone. Is it just me?
2006-09-22 09:05:27 · 36 answers · asked by Steven W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I stay out at my mates, my hubby knows where i am, you got to have trust, if my hubby wanted to stay out all night and i knew where he was then that's fine, if your going to play a round you can do that any time of the day .
2006-09-22 09:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by okokok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you aren´t willing to go out together OCCASIONALLY then there are looming ?¿ out there. If you don´t mess around, there is a chance that if you are always getting hammered that your inhibitions will be down in time. A night out with the boys is fine, although keep in mind that your wife would enjoy doing social things as well from time to time...also, if you insist on going out so much at least be reasonable from time to time and concede by agreeing to come home a little earlier than 4 am.....that would mean a sacrifice on both ends...compromise! Best of luck!
2006-09-22 09:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Beasley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about putting it this way. Let's take for granted you're not fooling around but staying out of your home in the middle of the night when you're supposed to be in bed with your wife. How would you feel if your wife does the same? Do you think you won't get hurt? That's the big difference when you get married, you are not on your own, you and your time belongs to your wife as well. lol
2006-09-22 09:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't do it on a regular basis meaning you are not getting drunk every weekend which can't be nice for anyone other than the one who gets pissed, she is being unreasonable. maybe she doens't trust you and is simply jealous. Talk to her. Tell her that she is welcomed to have a girls' night out any time, or go shopping (not spending too much money). If it's all fare, dont' go out for a while, give her plenty of attention, and talk again in a while.
2006-09-22 09:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is ok sometimes but if its a regular thing then it does get a bit much for the other partner, being woken up is a womans pet hate especially at 4 in the morning by a noisy drunken smelly partner/ hubby..... also some woman have issues about who your with and why you need to stay out till all hours......my hubby does it on a friday night and he usually rolls in at 3 ish after a skinful but i don't mind as long as he doesn't wake every body up....have a good life together.....you could go out and get rat ar**ed together.....
2006-09-22 09:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by fossil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a married woman and I have been out until 5am once or twice. Me and my mate ended up in the park playing on the swings! We weren't up to anything but our partners didn't like it. i know how you feel but when you are married you have responsibilities. I know you don't hurt anyone but if your wife doesn't like it you shouldn't do it. we all like our freedom every now and again but don't make a habit of it x
2006-09-22 09:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by TashaLou1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ends up having to deal with you with a hangover! And she probably has a **** sex-life if you are pissed every night till 4am.
I bet she's left you by xmas......sorry!
2006-09-22 09:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Carys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you let her go out???? maybe she wants to spend time with you. maybe you should take her with you, if you like getting pissed drink at home because she probably doesnt beleive that you dont play around if your staying out until 4 in the morning
2006-09-22 09:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by amy120705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called respect! Respect her, if she doesnt want you doing it then you need to put that into consideration. If your drinking too often then you have a problem and shes concerned about that because (only God knows) she loves you and cares about you.
Your married, if your hurt then shes hurt. You need to grow up. I feel sorry for her...but i'm sure you were like this before you two got married..
2006-09-22 09:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is you that doesn't understand yourself. You seem to be an alcoholic and maybe your wife is fussinf about that more than the being gone all night thing.
Get some help dude.
2006-09-22 09:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋