2006-09-22 09:01:12 · 36 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes
Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater
2006-09-22 09:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see alot of people have said yes. It depends on when this happened last week or 5 years ago. Also how long have u been married? where was your marriage the day before you found out, were u completely happy and in love or were things pretty rocky. My wife told me she had an affair, 2 years after it happened, she said she was tired of the guilt. I wanted to leave, but thought about the last 2 years and how happy I had been the whole time, and decided to work things out. was I mad yes, did it creep into my mind time to time yes, do I love her right now morethan ever, do I trust her completely. Will staying be the same for u who knows. If u really do love them, and u believe this was a one time very bad decision then give it another chance, no relationship is perfect, it is the trials that bring us closer together.
2006-09-22 09:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by erker34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i wouldnt let on i knew about this whole thing. I would make sure he would pay for what he did....lets see...
credit cards- check ( max them out honey! New shoes here i come!)
No SEX- no sleeping with him who knows what hes bringing home.Plus I would dress up really sexy..really sexy than say.....NO
Than when he at least expects it, slowly thinking you are going to "have some fun" Twist his you know what, make it look like a accident..the last thing he will be looking for is sex in a while seeing as the pain is pretty bad! than say.."oops im sorry was i a bit too rough?"
Than the next day make sure its still hurting if not, a accidental bump wouldnt hurt, than as he leaves or you leave the house tell him you just cant see this working out anymore, i found someone sho can please me way more than you could ever. Sorry hon. than SMILE...lol..show him its not hurting you even if it did dont show him. Dont let on you know about this whole cheating thing. Your the one who left not him!
Than to make things better i would get rumours going about how "little he was" and maybe throw a little rash here and there..lol....
2006-09-22 09:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
, Really it depends on your value system and what ur feelings r and how much u have invested in this marriage. Just dont blame youself. Be direct and ask him why and go from there. There r only 2 answers really, leave or get ready to compete Just stay calm and dont over react. Taking a proactive approach works. Good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-22 09:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their relationship is serious, it is something to really discuss about. lts difficult to forgive someone who has hurt you but the only way to heal it is to have a heart-to-heart talk with no screaming at each other. Forgiveness can come later. Its a marriage,so try to save it as you can. lf the spouse is "incurable" then you may want the other option.
2006-09-22 09:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I tried to keep my marriage together in spite of my ex cheating. All it did was inspire her to behave even worse. Eventually, she slept with some guy, while we were out with her sister and bro in law, on New Year Eve, and my own brother on her birthday. It would have been less lousy IF I'd have just given up immediately.
2006-09-22 09:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought I would, I didn't when I tasted someone else on him......but I wish I had left him when I wanted someone else and stayed because of pity. I should have left before I broke my vows but I wasn't strong enough. As for him cheating on me...he always did things that were inappropriate, I always had to deal with other women touching him in front of me.....He never saw another man come any where near me yet he accused me of cheating on him for many years before I ever even thought about it.
2006-09-22 09:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only after I cut off his balls, fried them with some garlic, and shoved them down his throat. Then I'd leave him... after I took him for every penny he ever thought of earning.
But my man is a man of character, standards and morals, so I am 1000% sure he will never cheat. Ever. Of this I am completely certain.
2006-09-22 09:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must. If you do not leave, a thorn will always stuck to your heart in the future to come. (2) You will always remember the cheating . (3)Moreover, while he/she will be alone, you will think otherwise.(4) Please note you may like to forgive, but you will never forget. (5) But if you have children, you will have to adjust for the sake of your children. You will have to forgive.
2006-09-22 09:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a heartbeat ! the trust will be gone and life is too short to always be wondering "what if" everytime he left the house. He obviously has no respect for your feelings, so I say hit the road.
2006-09-22 15:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by ajbmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have time to cheat on them because I would get a divorce SO fast!!! Its not like they would care anyways... Whats the point?
2006-09-22 09:03:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋