I unexpectedly came across my boyfriend's internet browser history, and to my dismay I found out he is participating in an online pornography forum! While it doesn't seem like he is really chatting with other ladies on the forum (it seems like he is more prone to commenting on whatever ladies post pics of their goods, and leaving it at that), I did find a picture of his erect weenie on the forum!!
I always told him to be open and honest with me, and it devastates me to immense levels, since we have been together for over ten years!! I for one have never been into porn, but I have always kept an open mind about people's sexual interests, and I've told my bf that he should never feel afraid to discuss things with me.
I'm worried that someone else on this porn forum will ultimately try and hook up with him. What should I do? Should I spy on him and create my own profile? See if he goes for the bait? Should I not even worry about it? Help!
2006-09-22 08:57:24 · 12 answers · asked by jiinx512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Voluptuous is right, go talk to him! I wouldn't worry for the comments but I agree that his penis should be seen only by you and him! See what he has to say and maybe join him. You could have your profile there to chat with him ;-)
2006-09-25 03:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 01:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Roxanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, yeah, I've been there, except mine moved on to the adultfriendfindersites... I played the games for a few months, creating a profile, going as far as to set up a meeting, but if you have to go this far, to find out if you can trust someone.... they are not deserving of your trust in the first place. Still with the guy, so call me a hypocrite, I know how hard it is though when you love someone. And quite possibly, if your guy is up for the discussion and if you really love him, you need to talk to him about it, hell...maybe start looking at porn together! Good luck!
2006-09-22 09:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by lillyputian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about it. You don't like secerets, so don't become the person that keeps one. See what he has to say about it and decide what to do from there. You don't like that he is sneaking about, so bring it all out into the open. See where he stands and then you can decide if you can still be the one that stands with him.
2006-09-22 09:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by littlelotte50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Im sure spying on him wasnt enough oh yes you should bait him and catch him in the act Im sure that will bring him around . Umm let me know how it goes!
2006-09-22 09:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as it took you all of five minutes to type this question, go to him and ask him why is there a pic of his penis online, after 10 years maybe he is looking for a little spice, sit down and go on the site with him, lol....dont look all sick and everythihg its just naked bodies....
2006-09-22 09:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm currently a member at http://www.porn-forums.net its a great website were you can discuss loads of porn categories such as anal, lesbian, gay, bdsm and alot more!, you can also share images and videos, earn awards and more. I definitely recommend it. They even give out free porn passwords for a site of your choice!! how cool is that?
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2014-05-16 07:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
create your own profile, just for the fun of it, but overall, break up with him. if he'd rather look at another girl, you don't need him.
2006-09-22 09:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is that porn forum?
2006-09-22 09:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he isn't having sex with another person i don't se a problem.
2006-09-22 09:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋