i feel there is a lack of equilibrum between me and my girlfriend. i feel like i am giving more than i am recieving and that she somehow takes me for granted although her words reassure me that isn't the case. i feel like i lack the liberty of choice and that i am being somehow subconciously controlled. any thoughts?
2006-09-22 09:06:08 · 6 answers · asked by iwasborntoday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her. Relationships are about give and take not take and no give. I hear about this so often and it shocks me that these days its more the men that are feeling this than the women, this did not used to be the case. Women are becoming more the dominate one, the controller and you guys are letting it happen. No one should be in charge, no one Is the boss, and no one is better than the other. Tell her how you are feeling and if you dont get this resolved you feel it could effect the relationship.That should make her pay attention.Women if allowed, are natural leaders and organizers , they do not mean to be bossy or controlling its just the way some are.Good luck
2006-09-22 09:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out of the relationship, you shouldnt be with someone that you think they tell you things because you want to hear it. Most girls are dirty when it comes to relationships. Now-a-days, most girls really dont care on how they get treated by guys, they just want your money. IF you feel as though you put a lot into the relationship you should move on to someone that is on your level of companionship.
2006-09-22 09:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instict babe......you should be able to talk about it though and have examples to present to her. Might be time to step back from the relationship and evaluate the situation. Many people stay in relationships that they shouldn't.
2006-09-22 09:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being subconsciously controlled.
Happy now?
2006-09-22 09:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. If you are not happy then you are not with the right person.
2006-09-22 09:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by notskerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit giving so much and see if things change.
2006-09-22 09:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋