This is this girl that i think is beautiful, i talk to her online every once in awhile, Im usually a guy that doesn't get nervous around women, but when im talking to this girl in person im scared to talk to her because im scared to mess up and say the wrong things, what should i do to not feel nervous or tell me anything u think can hellp me THANKS
2006-09-22 09:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by Chosen One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aaaawwwwhh!! thats sooo sweet!!!
ok first thing is to put it straight out of your head.. that you like her!
trust me it can totally f**k things up for ya!!! treat her as one of your close friends that you can sit and chat to.. and be yourself 100%!!!! it will loosen things up for ya!! trust me!! just chat normally!! dont examine your every word!! relax!! talk to her!!!!
dont use chat up lines!! she obviously likes you!! so pay her alot of attention!!! respect her!!! let her feel comfortable!!!! she will have soo much fun!! she wont dare question a second date!!! xx
2006-09-22 09:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. If you are super nervous about not knowing what to say, tell her you and a couple friends are going bowling or to a movie and you think it would be fun for her to come along.
2006-09-22 16:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.. She probably thinks its kinda cute that you get all bobbled around her. But just try to be yourself, that is who she is going to like in the long run.
And really, its how your body reacts to her. I Dont think you could change it. Its like trying to not love somebody when you do, or not feeling pain if you drop something on your toe. Preventing those feeling would be hard to do.
2006-09-22 16:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say one thing alot of girls dont like shy guys aleast i dont , you have to break the ice say something funny women love a sense of humor , ask her how her day was, compliment her, tell her you thought about her today ...make her feel beautiful and she will respond graciously
2006-09-22 16:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Miskateyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have ONLY talked to this girl online? like in just texting? you have never heard her voice?
dude.. chances are SHE is really a HE named BUBU that wears a dirty wife beater t-shirt while drinking beer and smoking cigars while sitting in his 4 day old underware.
Before asking anyone out.. talk to them on the phone.. on a web cam.. somethning... but make sure they are who they say they are!
2006-09-22 16:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an email asking her out. I got one of those once.
2006-09-22 16:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sweet you must be nervous because you really like her.Try to not be nervous aroud her.
Ask her out you could do it.
2006-09-22 16:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say she looks good and ask her out.
2006-09-22 16:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vic (above) has the idea, ask her out she will say yes.
2006-09-22 16:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by mlblue66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture her naked....
Well that is not going to work....
Picture you naked... Visual ... forget that too.
speak the truch, don't BS or exagerate, be your self Luke...
2006-09-22 16:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋