I got a crush on a guy. I know he likes me too, but I don't want to go out with him but then I want to go out with him. The thing is that I always have a habit of breaking things of when it gets really serious. This guy is so sweet and nice, that I don't want to hurt him, so I don't go out with him, but then again. I like him. Help!!!
2006-09-22 08:47:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if 19 is to immature to be dating then what is. Or is it the way I go about the whole situation makes me immature for dating
2006-09-22 08:55:51 · update #1
Dragon 77: Maybe I really need a psychiatrist insight on this
2006-09-22 09:09:04 · update #2
thats alrite i knw u must be confused at this point of time so i would suggest u to just let it go....... when u look around at half boxed items awating a decision abt their fate.i still wonder why iam hanging on to things i dnt really want.. these things at one time held some purpose for me. so life is not about possessing and clutching onto things.i say dnt go with guy bcoz u know after all its just a crush not love that would remain forever. if u think everyday is not a good day just try missing out one. work is the least and family & friends are the most important thing. i want u to get this straight in ur head.....from ur faithful wellwisher
2006-09-22 09:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Sounds like you have some issues that need to be worked on. Any relationship worth having will eventually get serious in time - that's a good thing- love is serious business- our happiness, self worth, & meaning in life comes from love. Sounds like this guy would be good for you , but you got to get past this problem in your head...so what's going on? Are you afraid of getting hurt? afraid of letting him see the real you ? afraid that you don't deserve someone nice? Maybe you should see a therapist? If you keep repeating this pattern- you'll never know love on it's deepest & most intimate level- that can bring you true joy & happiness! Do whatever it takes to bring love into your life! You'll be glad you did! Wishing you the best...bye bye
2006-09-22 16:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are totaly lossing control of your self you just have to make sure that you understand some thing befor you have even began the relationship you have decided that you are going to dump him what if things go perfect what if you foll in love with him come on from the begining don't start with the word lossing cause that is what you will end up wining and the other thing why should you breack up with him if you say hi is sweet to you and if he is nice to you well I don't see any reason why you shouldn't go out with him and the reason that you are making up not to go out with him doesn't seem a good one to me so I sugest you sotp that noncense and start to enjoy the time that you want to have with the person that you think is good for you...
2006-09-22 15:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be sexy enough but don't do any foolish thing, which could ruin your life. I am a man and I know that we men just are interested in great sex and after that we have an attitude of GO TO HELL. Because once we get a girl, we take her for granted and a sex object. THIS IS THE TRUTH. So, don't submit yourself until marriage, and after marriage, don't sleep without sex, DO THAT PROFUSELY THEN...AND DEEPLY ALSO...
2006-09-22 16:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your habit of breaking things will not always do good. Don't want to hurt him and want to hurt him by not going with him. A wonderful chemical formula of your life! You like him but you dislike to go with him. Be brave to face any situation and see what happens. Life is a series of happenings. Accept them when they are advantageous to you. Good luck!!!!!?????
2006-09-22 16:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG im going through the same thing except im 16 and if u find out how to do it then please help me too lol cause whenever things get good i get scared and run away if its the same for u then if u wanna talk about it my email address in casiediddygirl @yahoo.com
2006-09-22 18:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help from some psychiatrist not at yahoo answers.
2006-09-22 16:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by dragon77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we tell you to 'grow up' would you take it as criticism? It just seems like you're too immature to even be dating if this is the way you truly are.
2006-09-22 15:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl come on girl you like the guy he like you and its all good,just tell him how you feel he might understand go and go out with him.
2006-09-22 15:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just keep it casual.. stay really close friends.. you know the type that care about you alot that they have a strong relationship without all the complications.. you get to be relaxed around him.. spend more time getting to now each other.. and see what develops!! ....xxx
2006-09-22 15:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋