Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

My seventeen year old son got his girlfriend pregnant and her dad said he was going to kill him what should i do he is bigger than me. And he is the sherriff.

2006-09-21 03:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by jockstrap 1 in Family

Reworded Question: My wedding party lives about an hour and 1/2 away from where the wedding is. The rehursal dinner is the night before...who whould pay for the room the night of the rehursal dinner? I'm not paying for the room the night of the wedding...but I think I should pay for the night of the rehursal dinner before the wedding so they don't have to drive back and fourth. We have our hair appointment in the morning...etc. I can't take the chance of anyone being last and I don't want to be stressed out. I feel like I should pay for the room the night before, but not the night of the wedding. What do you think? Any advice?

2006-09-21 03:33:02 · 19 answers · asked by Michele K 2 in Weddings

I met a gentleman 3 yrs ago, I have 3 grown kids on thier own, he has no children. We decided to get married its now been 18 months later. My younger son that was in the Marines for 5 yrs, had a substantial savings, car, self sufficient. He came back home and has more than taken on his share of responsibilities, morally, physically and financially. The problem is that my husband is asking me to make a decision to choose him or my son, he does not want my son living with us any more just because he is not working, but he is financially able to not work at this time. He is taking off some time, something in the military you do not have any of your time belongs to everyone else. I cannot believe I have been asked to make such a decision. At this point I do not feel that there is a choice to be made. Any ideas on how to reckon or reason to such a question? There is room for everyone, the home is mine and has been for 20 years. Why would he demand such decision made?

2006-09-21 03:32:23 · 18 answers · asked by peach31522 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering...guys say girls are so complicated and confusing. But how confusing is this (i'm going to be as blunt as i can be).....a guy wants sex..he meets a girl, they start to really like each other, and she knows that if she has sex with him that would make him happy....so they do the deed, then he isn't as interested and lost some respect for her for doing it so soon, BUT then if she were to wait, he would be frustrated (both heads, mind you), and guys ALWAYS b**ch about how they don't get sex soon enough, it's like they want the chase but want to get banged at the same time, you can't have your cake and eat it too, a girl who's easy makes you happy but a real woman gets on your nerves and frustrates you, wtf? (and no this isn't something i experienced, i just see it happen so often, and i can't understand it)

2006-09-21 03:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Bailey 2 in Singles & Dating

well heres the thing i have a friend and her crush liked her and of course she liked him well he likes me now and i feel guilty what should i do?

2006-09-21 03:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by mgfizzle 2 in Friends

I used to go out with my best friend & we were happy for nearly two yrs, he then joined the army and moved to a different country, after about 6months of doing the long distance thing he decided he didnt wanna stay with me, this was last october. Since then has has been out in Iraq, before he left he told me he still loves me.

I don't feel the same about him anymore but lately he has been calling me n telling me that he wants me back & wud do ne thin.

I'm now seeing a guy that i knew from years ago and its really nice not having to deal with such a serious relationship. (i'm starting to really like him)

My ex doesn't know that i'm seeing this new bloke( i dnt wanna tell him while he's out in Iraq) but now he wants me to visit him in germany when he comes home bcz he thinks that my feelings will change when i see him again, but i really don't know what to do,
Do you think my feelings will change if i see him?
Should i just see how it goes with my new bloke??

HELP!!!

2006-09-21 03:31:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 10 years. We have been married 7. We have 2 kids together. The first 8 years we was together he did nothing but cheat and do very hurtfull things to me. Now, I have forgivin him and in the last 2 years he has completelly changed his life around, BUT I still cant forget. Is it fair to either one of us to still be together if I cant forget what he has done? I have a lot of hatered towards him. It affects our relationship and our kids. Is there reallly any way to forget? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-09-21 03:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i find it so strnge that he hangs so many pictures of them in his room once i thought i saw him kiss his poster. i need an answer to this mystery.

2006-09-21 03:30:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i keep on thinking that ishould sleep with other guys coz eventually hel cheat. advice?

2006-09-21 03:30:26 · 39 answers · asked by titties 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 03:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by cocknoodle35 1 in Weddings

2006-09-21 03:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met up with a school friend, two weeks later we got a flat to share. She's become quite close to my sister and told her one night that I take drugs. My sister ran to my parents who demanded i take a drug test and go see a shrink. I forgave her as thought she had my best interest in mind. Since then she's been reporting my social life to my sister. Now she's moved out to live with my sister to whom i don't speak either, and is saying that she's tired of "my rubbish". I have up to this point been completely understanding but now I feel she's out of order and i shouldn't have bothered wanting to be her friend.

Should i have cut her out of my life for going to my parents about my drug taking?

2006-09-21 03:29:13 · 26 answers · asked by SusanG 1 in Friends

what would u say if a woman asked u to do this?

2006-09-21 03:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 18 and with little or no social life or even contact. My parents never let me do anything in high school like going to the mall exc. or movies with friends. I am not kidding i only ever saw my friends at school and a bf was out of the question. I made a few attempts but at 17 they were still asking to meet my friends parents and giving my friends the 5th degree so most did not even want to visit me. My dads motto was school is not for socializing. Senior year i barley was allowed to go to homecoming but i did meet a bf there and well messed things up badly with a pregnancy scare drama which led to complete isolation. I was never a bad kid and always kept good grades and never snuck out or did anything. I am now in my first year of college doing well so far but feel out of place socially. I only really have three friends two are still in highschool and i feel lost and angry with my parents. I feel socially cripled but they pay for my college tuition.

2006-09-21 03:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-21 03:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

One minute my boyfriend's ex is calling his phone constantly, then it stops for a month and then it starts up again. she knows about his relationship with me, but doesn't care. Is she trying to get over him. does the harassment start again with her, because of something he's doing or saying to her?

2006-09-21 03:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's 5 and has been asking for dance class for over a yr. so I am taking her to her first one tonight. I am just wondering if other mother's on have their daughters in dance class and if they like it and what to expect. I'd love to hear from anyone who went as a child too.

2006-09-21 03:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by ME 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

choose only one please

2006-09-21 03:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by ihopeyoulikemetoo 1 in Friends

Being called cheezy or licking a lemon??

2006-09-21 03:27:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-21 03:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by steve s 1 in Family

Now i got ya attention, can anybody enlighten me as to why your tummy gets all fluttery over a man/woman that you have never met, yet you feel a connection!

2006-09-21 03:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by ball_cathie 4 in Singles & Dating

We all have the Top 5 list. We may call it different things but the basic concept is the same. The FIVE celebs that we are "allowed" to be with-given the chance.
I'll start with my list...
Seth Green
Joaquin Phoenix
Hugh Jackman
Billie Joe Armstrong
#5 is an up & coming player in the custom bikes game

2006-09-21 03:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok well do you think its wrong for a 13 year old to go out with a 19 year old even if they are in fact in love??

Age doesnt matter..right??

I would like your input on this kind of relationship..

Is it wrong??

2006-09-21 03:26:27 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

In the society she behaves like a normal person, but my husband and I know, that she is lying to everybody about her life, about her "dramatic" first marriage, that ended 30 years ago, about her health,her "sufferings", telling to everyone slightly different stories about the same story, always exagerating,but believable ones,but with all the necessary details. She also begins to cry, while telling her life-story (which is, I repeat, a lie).
Above this, she tries to control everybody, is more than very dominant, and if you don't do what she says, she becomes the devil, becomes like a crazy person, yelling at you in a horrible manner.
When you confront her with her lies, she just says, it's not true, she didn't say anything like that.
Also, she is rich, but never gives you anything unconditionally. Only if you play by her rules.
When i will have children, I am afraid, leaving them alone with her.How do you handle such a person? How can we make her stop?

2006-09-21 03:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by charmed 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And not be required to sleep with him that night?

2006-09-21 03:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 03:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by myhigh212 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 03:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 03:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by xhari_ng_sablayx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I have been seeing for over a year, supposedly has a preconceived notion that my parents might be hoity toity because they are more well off than his parents. He may get this assumption by the way I dress, or the car I drive, but I've always been truly a down to earth person, and money wouldn't matter to me as long as I was happy. But I really didn't get a chance to open up to him, because he never really opened up to me.. until he had to move back home for certain reasons. Then I told him that my parents are very down to earth, aren't flashy & like people for who they are. But I want him to know that money doesn't mean sh*t to me as long as I had him. But my "outside" appearance may speak otherwise. The reason is I used to model, & I was trying to hold on to that fantasy & I dressed in a way that people who knew me expected me to dress. And that may have hurt my chances of getting serious w/him. How do I reveal that to him? He's away now, not too far, but I want to be honest.

2006-09-21 03:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

He lied to me, I fell before I found out the truth, and I can't get over him, my life is at a standstill. my heart can't move on...It's been almost a year....and I can't move on.

2006-09-21 03:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by Babsygirl 4 in Singles & Dating