Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

2006-09-21 04:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by identity_letters 2 in Weddings

I have been with my fiance for a few years and engaged for 1. He is the love of my life, but he has so many serious faults i cannot stay with him. He has a tendacy to lie, expects the whole world to do him a favour and has really bad temper tantrums (he is 28) where he acts like a child. i know he loves me, but it isn't enough. despite his excellent and costly education, i have come to the conclusion he is not very bright, but insists on arguing points and acting very arrogant, on top of being generally quite lazy and relying on me to do the housework adn generate most of the money. despite this i love him madly, how do i do what i know is best for me? Then how do i get over it?

2006-09-21 04:17:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Between my 50 hour a week job, my home, my finances, and my calling in my church, how can I manage them better so I am not running around in circles. I try to do a schedule of cleaning, it is very good, but I can not seem to stick to anything. I am procrastinate (sorry spelling) very bad! I can organice well, and everything I just cant follow through. My husband also works at the same place I do, I am an accountant. We both do house work and I take care of the finances. We want to have children but I really need to get my life organized. Any Ideas?? Oh and we are trying to have children with no luck so far, so I am not waiting for the perfect time because I know there is no perfect time! Thanks

2006-09-21 04:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm afraid that they'll be out of control teens or something that i'm not capable of handling. i'm sure there are soon to be parents out there with the same thoughts or at least parents that have already gone through such a thing, and some that have thought of it, but everything turned out okay. but how can i just put that in the past and get down to thinking straight and being a parent. i just want to be the best i can for my child and a future family.

2006-09-21 04:14:21 · 25 answers · asked by Parent In Need 1 in Family

2006-09-21 04:13:59 · 21 answers · asked by Mi$s-RoMantiC 1 in Singles & Dating

i'll admit it thats y my last question was questionable... bear with me, there is a point to all this...
WHO ELSE IS PARTYING????????
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWHHHHHHHHHHHHHH? kisses

2006-09-21 04:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that penis size is proportional to body size? I mean did you know a thin guy with a good size and a thick one with small size? Just wondering what is written in books real or not?

2006-09-21 04:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it true that penis size is proportional to body size? I mean did you know a thin guy with a good size and a thick one with small size? Just wondering what is written in books real or not?

2006-09-21 04:12:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he cheated on me.. would cheating on him would make me passive about what he did.. i just want the pain to be gone.

2006-09-21 04:12:49 · 51 answers · asked by addiee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend stood me up last night, but he did wind up calling and explaining why he couldnt come over. So while I was waiting I wrote him a sweet,nice letter and dropped it off over at his house like he asked me to. Well in the letter it specifically asked him to call me after he read it so that we could talk about what was in the letter. He never called and we are supposed to have dinner tonight, should i bring it up and cost maybe ruining the dinner and the relationship or let it go because this letter meant a lot to me.

2006-09-21 04:12:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got an sms from my girl friend fnd like this: "frndship test.. if me and my duplicate are standing, how wil u recognise me.pls answer"...she is expecting my reply.wat wil i answer.pls suggest a gud answer to this.i wil give u 10 points

2006-09-21 04:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by jose v 1 in Friends

My best friend is straight, I understand that sexuality varies and one person can never be completely straight nor completely gay.

My problem is this: We're both 19, I've gone to school with him since we were in kindergarden. We are very close I know he loves me as his best friend, and I wan't to love him in the same way. He knows i'm gay and we joke about it all the time, he's great. We agreed to get a place together and become roomates. But just recently i've began to notice how attracted I am to him.

I'm not stupid, i know he's straight and I know that a best friend relationship like this isn't worth ruining, regardless of how much I love him. It's hard to think about it but i know the only thing i can do is try to get over him. Spending less time with him isn't an option. we hang out everyday, we talk about everything, he needs me just as I need him. He is my world, and I don't wan't to love him if he can't love me in the same way. Please i need some advide. DG

2006-09-21 04:11:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past year, I've been single and meeting all kinds of women. A significant portion are married or dating. None of these women appear like "sluts," and most have high social standing.

How do I ever trust a girlfriend or even a wife when I rarely see women stopping for more than a few hours because they're taken.

-Confused in Orlando.

2006-09-21 04:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I adore the guy and the relationship that i am in, however, both do not gel with the usual lovey-dovey ideas about the four letter word starting with 'L'. But do like a change. I am a hopeless romantic, and would like to once in a while be different to my man!!! Suggestions???? and please no run of the mill stuff, and do not ask me to gaze into his eyes till we both drop dead:).Something fun!

2006-09-21 04:10:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 04:10:45 · 15 answers · asked by Niecy 2 in Singles & Dating

the way they act is So fake!

2006-09-21 04:10:00 · 11 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I cannot have chldren, and, until recently, were friends with another couple who could not either. About two years ago, they adopted a little girl from overseas.

We realized that they would be having new friends because of the adoption, and would have less time for us because of their newest family member. But, there have been a few times when his wife has made plans with mine, and then she would call her up at the last minute to cancle, because a couple with children wanted to do something with them.

They are on the outs with us now, and, of course, the story they tell our other friends is we are jealous of them because they now have a child. We say that having a child in your life does not excuse you from remembering your friends, and keeping your planned social engagements. Any opinions on this?

2006-09-21 04:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by rhino 6 in Friends

From since i could remember that has been my fantasy(To have sex with a woman) Idid think about doing it with her but i'm afraid it would interfere with our friendship.We've been friends like for 10 years.But hey what better person to do it with than your best friend,( RIGHT)

2006-09-21 04:09:17 · 22 answers · asked by Caribbean Queen 1 in Friends

My good friend of 7 years and I had a petty fight last weekend - both PMSing and I thought she was being nit picky and petty about little stuff when we were planning a cottage weekend away. So we had a yelling fight and I told her she was getting on my nerves and stuff like that and she cried alot and even that made me mad - she made it into a big drama and I told her this during the fight...so now the weekend is over and she's still upset. I think life is too short to dwell or focus on petty stuff. She's sooking and making it into a bid ordeal. She's "hurt and confused". So, today I sent her a letter to say we've been friends for a long time and don't let this small stuff affect us. Soo...now do I leave her alone or cater to her woes of being "very hurt and confused"? This is such a thorn in my side as I have a sm baby and am working on my university degree and this is just peanuts in the big scheme of things. Do I ignore her or keep talking (wish she would take a chill pill)?

2006-09-21 04:09:02 · 1 answers · asked by Sweet Potato Pie 2 in Friends

Married 4+ years. Two weeks ago she accused me of cheating (again). She has not spoken to me (not one word) since. In the past I have always been the one to speak first and explain and apologize. I have never been untrue to her but her ex cheated and she says all men cheat. I am no longer able to tolerate her jealous behavior. I want to leave her. How much financial responsibility do I have as her sponser?

2006-09-21 04:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by milessumner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... here goes...
Im in love with this girl(G1) ....and her best friend(G2) has a major crush on ME!!!! I love G1 ,but, how can i go out with her, hurting her friend like that? Woudnt that change G1's opinion about me? Woudnt that turn her against me, if i crush her proposal?

2006-09-21 04:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by sLiMsHaDy 1 in Singles & Dating

i need some insight, U gotta *** to Australia mate... it's too easy to change ur opinion about the best country in the world! u gunna *** track me dwn?

2006-09-21 04:07:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 04:07:36 · 9 answers · asked by justinemariebassani 1 in Weddings

2006-09-21 04:07:04 · 12 answers · asked by MARC R 1 in Friends

I have just discovered that my partner has joined a gay website. What do I do ????? Do I confront him with what I know or do I wait and catch him out. In profile he has he says he is bi-sexual. He works nightshift with his job. I work during the day so we don`t get much time together. Please please help.......

2006-09-21 04:06:43 · 30 answers · asked by floss012002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 04:06:33 · 30 answers · asked by Glen 1 in Weddings

I confronted her about this guy's name wich I found out. She says he "JUST A FRIEND" Ok 85 min calls, 50 calls, 110 minute calls, and she's making the majority of em

2006-09-21 04:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by barbell405 4 in Singles & Dating

You gotta admit, he definitely adds life to the room & brings a breath of fresh air to the usual "does he love me" "do women like big or little penises" or worse, "how can I save my romance?"
lol I would rather read something posted by "The One" any day!
He rocks!!

2006-09-21 04:05:42 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 04:05:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 17. and seriously in need of this. no one seems to like me. HELP.

2006-09-21 04:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by ratface 1 in Singles & Dating