I was just wondering...guys say girls are so complicated and confusing. But how confusing is this (i'm going to be as blunt as i can be).....a guy wants sex..he meets a girl, they start to really like each other, and she knows that if she has sex with him that would make him happy....so they do the deed, then he isn't as interested and lost some respect for her for doing it so soon, BUT then if she were to wait, he would be frustrated (both heads, mind you), and guys ALWAYS b**ch about how they don't get sex soon enough, it's like they want the chase but want to get banged at the same time, you can't have your cake and eat it too, a girl who's easy makes you happy but a real woman gets on your nerves and frustrates you, wtf? (and no this isn't something i experienced, i just see it happen so often, and i can't understand it)
2006-09-21 03:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Bailey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i blame it on the Y chromosome! guys alwiz want everything and don know wat they want. a girls too fat or too thin.. too loud..too quiet...too clingy.. too detached.. and the list goes on and on.. but wat u say is really true.. they get the girll... the girl is labelled a slut.. they don get anything.. shes a stuck up ***** who things too highly of herself?... and ive alwiz liked to think tht they grow out of it.. but many don. but the good news is... theres hope.. :) although we tend to generalize.. there really are guys who arent like tht at all. ya it might b seldom u meet a guy like tht... but.. there stil is hope!!!!! so good luck.
2006-09-21 03:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by rag doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, guys and girls are both confusing on one point or another...anyway!
Boys don't respect girls who are sluts. Period, the end. Yea, they want sex, and they feel like they have to have it...but in the end, they have a hand, and an imagination and they can take care of themselves! Girls who make them wait, are annoying because they know they want sex, and it frustrates them that for once in there lives they've found something they can't have.
Something like that...I swear it's true!
2006-09-21 03:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Muppet Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda messed up, but some guys would say anything to get in them draws. and you're saying "real women". that real women isn't really that real. in fact she's more like "gullible". the fact is it really comes down to the kind of guy the girl is dealing with. time after time the girl just picks the wrong guy who doesn't want to deal with anything about her after sex. a guy who talks about how much females he's dealt with in the past and then says he's looking for a relationship and you seem like the type for him, is usually that type of guy. hes being totally manipulative. on the other hand, a guy who's slower and more interested in knowing about you throughout is a longer period and not 2 days, is usually the guy that would stick around. the point is don't give it up until you've established a emotional and intellectual connection with him. the guy that moves the relationship quickly and doesn't want to seek those "connections" is usually the kind of messed up guy that would have you all confused after he's finished. there are fine guys out there, and there are a lot of fine girls. sometimes you can't follow your heart. you have to go with what's rational.
2006-09-21 03:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If its true love it can wait! If it isn't then it never waits!! Never give in honey,guys do use you,they used my daughter. If a guy has same interest as you,gives you respect,treats you like a lady and can wait till you're ready for sex..........then he's the one that can be your true love. Always stay friends first to find each other out before heading down that road to your choice.Smile!
2006-09-21 03:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its clear dat guys prefare girls dat dont come too cheap to dem thats why they continue the chase and keep on trying to get the girl. and in the process they get to know the girl and fall in love, this now makes them more confused because they never planned for a relationship and d next thing they see is they are stucked with one. dis now makes a guy more confused unlike a girl dat sees herself in another relationship prefares staying with d guy cos she feels she has seen what she has been looking for.
2006-09-21 03:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are hunters...when they catch what they are going after all the fun is gone for them...maybe your giving it out a little too easily. If they don't have a chance to develop any feelings for you then it's just sex and it's over. I don't see anything complicated in that at all.
2006-09-21 03:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are not more confusing than girls at all, they're just dumber take on consideration that guys only use half of their brain capabilities and is not their better half (scientifically proved)
2006-09-21 03:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only guys sincere and honest, love born for them.
2006-09-21 03:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by dolphin_enter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/C they really don't know what they want.....a girl to take home to meet the parents or just a real slut.................
2006-09-21 03:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always like that...some dudes have a conscience..
2006-09-21 03:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋