Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

Could this really be true or is it all in the mind.?...things do be happening but i try to avoid feeding into it. my oven was turned on higher then what i put it and burnt my cake...my microwave oven was put higher than i did. I have a butterfly in my bathroom that never ever fell of the mirror and it did. A black umbrella in my house was open and left in the hallway....i asked every one in my household did anyone opened the umbrella and every one said no.little things here and there...My daughter say sometimes there are bad ghost....should i take my daughter to a therapist ? plz help all jokes aside..

2006-09-21 05:13:30 · 20 answers · asked by gengen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i've been having multipul dreams about what happens when my boyfriend returns from Fort Hood in December.

1) I go to the airport with his mother to pick him up and and I let his mom meet him first from the gate. Then he comes and sees me and asked why i let her greet him first...i told him because its your mother and you can never change that. and we have a pleasent ride home

2)Just like the first one i go with his mom but this time he is all mad at me. The ride home we don't talk at all.

3) I don't go with his mom or anything and i don't really know when he's gonna be home. I'm taking a nap and he comes into my room and surprises me by kissing me.

any ideas?

2006-09-21 05:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been trying to find a best priced diamond ring on High street and Internet. I know the basics about diamond, the colour, cut, clarity, etc. For the same spec, Platinum 1ct diamond ring on the highstreet costs £7-8K, but only £5k on the internet. I want to know why they costs so differently? isn't the spec of the diamond determines the price?


Thanks.

2006-09-21 05:12:23 · 21 answers · asked by Yangyanzhe 2 in Weddings

I thought it a funny site and lots of pple seem to be judging the product advertised. I found that most answers were judgemental and unexpected. To those who saw the site and gave a holier than thou answer. Look deep inside at why the product bothered you. For those who suspect their significant other of cheating the answers I received were.... you shouldn't have gotten married, you should learn to pick them better, if you suspect them then get out of the relationship are among the answers I remember.
To you who gave these answers (you know who you are) may I wish the serenity of the ignorant, the peace of the peacock with their heads in the sand, and the wisdom that even if your spouse/partner is cheating that you never have to deal with the STD's in the world.

Ok I've vented....

2006-09-21 05:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by lisa n florida 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 05:12:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know he is going to pick me up he took me to school we argueed again. I told him that our friendship is over but he keeps stressing me and doesnt give up trying to be sweet now,but he had hurt me badly in the past

2006-09-21 05:11:11 · 8 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend does this and I just can't understand. She says since she is eating right and taking care of herself in other ways that everything should be alright. She is a very smart person so I don't get it. Smoking during pregnancy causes a wide range of problems. Ranging from infant death to learning disabilities in children. Why would she do that to her baby if she knew she could prevent it? I'm having trouble getting past it when I'm around her. I have told her how I feel and showed her why. There are a million websites related to the problems and she still smokes 13 cigarettes a day. She says she cut back from a pack so that's good enough. Don't get it. Help???!!!???

2006-09-21 05:11:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-21 05:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

Dear Readers,
Ever since I was little I was always a tomboy liking guys sports, games, being a fighter. My question is I'm not attracted to guys' bodies at all. There's 0 % attraction to me. However, I'm very attracted to womens' bodies and facial features, and of course personalities. I come from a very strict religious family who are Roman Catholics. I've been afraid to tell them anything. I know they'll still accept me thank God, but I know they won't support me in my decisions. They'd try to do everything as long as I lived there to make me like men. lol. ;-) It's just gross to me because I have no attraction to masculine features and mens' bodies. I really do have mental illness and it's hard for me to reason things out. I'm sorry if this question sounds like it has an annoyingly obvious answer. But I really am confused. I also can't stand really feminine looking clothes and definitely can't stand dresses and skirts. Neither do I like make-up.

2006-09-21 05:10:17 · 10 answers · asked by elysianlife1983 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but after 2 yrs of our relationship e left coz his band split up so he split up wiv me. ever since then i lay awake cryin over him everynight. thers nt a day go by i dnt think of him. then bout a few weeks ago i found him on myspace. he has a girlfreind ther livin togetha wiv a dog n everything n e claims e dont know me. y is this??? im so inlive wiv him i cnt just let go of him. i think of her wiv him an night cuddlin him n kissin him. i just wnt him bk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i lov him so much, for these 2 yrs ive neva luved a guy or ad a b.f coz i cnt love them how i love him!!!! i duno wat to say but im crazy bout him n thinkin of them too havin kidz n get married to just makes me cut myself n try to kill myseklf!!! please help me
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2006-09-21 05:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This summer I met a boy and his best friend. One day his best friend came and asked me " shall I arange him to you" and I was like NO!And I don't think that the other boy knew that he asked me this?!?!?!
What does this mean?
But also the boy (not the best friend) puts a HUGE distince between us he hardly ever talkes to me and lookes as if he totally hates me!??!?!
Please help!!!!

2006-09-21 05:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

never worked before so I had a casual look, you know, jeans & tennis shoes & that, & when I had to get a job I started buying clothes for the office & had to wear make up, which I had never done, so I didnt have much idea about this stuff, I've tried to do my best, bearing in mind that it’s a small office & that people don't go dressed & made up as if they worked for Donald Trump. My mom keeps telling me that i should buy elegant suits & fancy clothes & that i should use more make up & that i should try more hairstyles (she has the farrah fawcet style) & well I'm no gisele bundchen, but i feel good, i like the way i look & the clothes i wear & i admit i'm not that comfortable wearing the office clothes, but hey! i'm new at this & she makes me feel i have no style at all, & smtimes she makes me feel so bad i dont even wanna go to work, sometimes when she's telling me all this i tell her i feel fine & she gets offended & stops, but the next day its all the same, what's wrong with her?

2006-09-21 05:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mossespa 2 in Family

Don'y know what to do with my girlfriend, she drive's me f**king mad, she's moody, depressing and does nothing but moan about anything and everything. For example: went to the local harvester on sat for a beer and a burger with her, but she bummed me right out and ruined my vibe by constantly moaning about a girl who she thought was staring at her and saying she was gonna stab her in the eye with a fork.

Only problem is i think i do love her and i cant bring myself to chuck her, what should i do?

Also while i'm here whats the best brand of Absinthe?

2006-09-21 05:08:30 · 16 answers · asked by Jiggy_O 2 in Singles & Dating

I have children, and am concerned about their reaction, as well as reaction of community if I dont wait until divorce is final - almost seems like bigamy? Advice or thoughts?

2006-09-21 05:07:57 · 23 answers · asked by hipmc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm mid 20s and occasionally will take the same bus to work with this guy since last yr. In recent months as I'm not dating anyone, I started noticing him and really would like to know him! Trouble is I get on the bus first and I alight before him. Gurus out there, is there any way to get to know him in my situation? Of cos with zero background, its merely superficial attraction but be it set in anywhere else, its first impression that counts b4 getting to know the person rite? I have no qualms about being friendly 1st as a gal but on the bus?!...somebody pls advise! Certainly think it'll be a pity if soon he changes job and stops taking that same bus in the morning.. Personally feel its weird as I have experiences with friendly guys on the bus.. but who knows if there's a clever way out, why not try it than to regret later hor.. and what do the guys think? THANKS!

2006-09-21 05:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by crazyzzz 2 in Singles & Dating

the states "dominant" and "submissive", can these terms apply in different ways in a relationship than just sexual? I've recently been faced with an extremely straightforward message about a relationship with a girl in a submissive female, dominant male sense and wonder if she's only sexually interested. Thanks

2006-09-21 05:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 05:05:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife does not have much sexual drive she dont like it daily she become ready once in a week what to do turn her mind to enjoy sex

2006-09-21 05:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 05:04:21 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

how can i help him or at least make him feel better?

2006-09-21 05:04:18 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 05:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by *CaTaL!Na* 1 in Friends

What exactly do I do, get a new marriage licence, or a renewal or what? I don't want to accidentaly do something illegal or something wrong.

2006-09-21 05:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by delphina0723 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If your boyfriend is cheating? Are there any give away signs?

2006-09-21 05:01:38 · 22 answers · asked by Loopy loo 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help getting my boyfriend to eat me out till i ***. He thinks that he is not supposed to do that. But he thinks that it's ok if I go that far with him. I don't think that it's fair. I need some advise.

2006-09-21 05:01:31 · 11 answers · asked by smarshall_inspring 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(Last Q about weddings, promise.....) So, the wedding is Oct 2007, and I have been browsing mags and web sites (like The Knot) for a little while. When is too soon to be going to shops to look up close at dresses and try them on? I'm not sure of when to start the process.

Also, I am such a girly girl--I fall in love with soooo many dresses I see. How will I know when to settle for one lovely dress? Sort of like how you know your guy is the one, you just know??

2006-09-21 05:01:05 · 14 answers · asked by Rachael 3 in Weddings

my sis's b-day is only 5 days left i dont know wht to give i have money for gold as gift for sis but hat money i have saved for buying a mobile(i dont have one) if i dont give her anything ill feel gultiy becuz when i small till mow she always used to throw me a party not even my mom & dad should give me a small party WHAT DO I DO?WHAT GIFT????????

2006-09-21 05:00:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-21 05:00:40 · 7 answers · asked by suriya narayanan 2 in Family

cause she is saying we are by common law is it true?

2006-09-21 05:00:19 · 7 answers · asked by joe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK. i've come to terms, Brandon does not want to live together now ! I need to have a home for MY kids. Im doing all that ! How come every time he talks about getting his new place or anything about his new place, I just want to cry. We have lived together for over a year now and he doesnt want the responsibility of my kids living with him. WE have both been going thru divorce, more than a year. I needed a place to stay, ended up living with Brandon. We have had talks about being together in our future,buying a house in the country. Now Brandon is buying a condo and I am renting an apt. He still wants to be in a commited relationship,so do I. When everything is all said and done, I want to have a home with Brandon,together. Our divorces were in progress before we met.He has 2 kids, I have 3,2 at home. both our youngest are 14 am I crazy for hoping for a future with Brandon? He says he loves me , I love him. How long would you wait for things to go in the direction you would like?

2006-09-21 05:00:11 · 17 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i change my avatar?
the only time people think i'm male is when i talk about beating my wife... whenever i talk about my children they think i'm a woman...

id really like to only show half my face.

2006-09-21 05:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating