This summer I met a boy and his best friend. One day his best friend came and asked me " shall I arange him to you" and I was like NO!And I don't think that the other boy knew that he asked me this?!?!?!
What does this mean?
But also the boy (not the best friend) puts a HUGE distince between us he hardly ever talkes to me and lookes as if he totally hates me!??!?!
Please help!!!!
2006-09-21 05:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think he was asking you if you wanted him to set up a meeting with him. Do not let him do that...you will go farther by going to him yourself if you are interested.
2006-09-21 05:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dint know how old you are,so I will assume you are younger than 18.This sounds like a red flag.Which means as you said, that you are mixed up.Which doesn't mean YOU . It means you did not fall for something that you should not have fell for.If something does not feel right, then trust yourself. Feeling mixed up is normal at times like this.The bad part is it can be tough to understand and since your normal reaction may be hurt. I dint think his look means he hates you.It can be intimidating to you. though.Embarrassment,shame is more like it, and very well it should be.This boy is like a predator with his best friend ,they are a "team". As the mother of 3 sons,now age 24,25,28, I understand boys somewhat.Shame on them! My answer now,hold your head up high,smile,smile,smile!If either boy speaks to you in the future,give him the "hateful" look. Not all boys behave this despicably.I am proud of you. Life will go on. Just wait and see. I bet that you are not the only one they have behaved so poorly to. Everything will work out.Refuse to be around anyone who gives you the red flag feeling. I hope this helps.
2006-09-21 12:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by lauren m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to the boy, not the boys best friend and ask him "whats up?" and "hey, what did your buddy mean when he asked me 'shall I arrange him to you'" I don't know what that means so I told him NO" and then smile at him in a really nice flirtatious smile. He will answer you and I bet you will get a smile back as well. Blessed be
2006-09-21 12:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friend, definitely has a HUGE thing for you, he tried hooking you up with his friend, in the mean while he tells the friend bad things about you. The idea is that the guy is rude to you and you go and look for comfort in the best friends, arms...
2006-09-21 12:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Asley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they sound crazy I'de keep the distance thing strong
2006-09-21 12:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u should leave him and start ova but if u really like this guy you should let a ***** know whats going down!!!!!!
2006-09-21 12:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by mz jamaica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End your friendship with them and move on.
2006-09-21 12:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Zephyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm mixed up too.
2006-09-21 12:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confused me!?
2006-09-21 12:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋