ok i've been having multipul dreams about what happens when my boyfriend returns from Fort Hood in December.
1) I go to the airport with his mother to pick him up and and I let his mom meet him first from the gate. Then he comes and sees me and asked why i let her greet him first...i told him because its your mother and you can never change that. and we have a pleasent ride home
2)Just like the first one i go with his mom but this time he is all mad at me. The ride home we don't talk at all.
3) I don't go with his mom or anything and i don't really know when he's gonna be home. I'm taking a nap and he comes into my room and surprises me by kissing me.
any ideas?
2006-09-21 05:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like normal anxiety dealing with a long awaited reunion. I'm sure it will go fantastic, how could it not, right??!! Anxiety can come out in your sleep causing crazy, sometimes awful dreams. It's good you're "talking" about it when you are awake, good luck!
2006-09-21 05:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is dream about relationship, insecurity and guilt conscience, decision making
#1 question from him, but still a pleasant dream = It translates into some sort of jealousy you projected in him. You may be into a little sense of insecurity about him. You give up the first position to pick him up. You want to give up and let his mom do that first. On the surface, it may mean you respect his mom, but you probably are into some sense of insecurity about him trusting you. The question you projected him to ask you basically is a question you want to ask yourself. It is from your subconscience. It is opposite in the dream many times. In this case, you may be into some sort of jealousy of him being taken as first priority by his hom.
#2 He is mad at you = That is your guilt conscience. You don't do what he likes. You feel like you are doing things wrong because in reality you may not be listening to what he really wants to do. This time, he is mad. That agains is a projection of your guilt conscience. You decided there was no conversation because somewhere in real life you lost trust to him. His mom is only a symbol of how you judge and determine priorty
#3. A make up dream of what you have done. Basically, it is another guilt conscience, but this time you want a perfect ending. You decided to be a perfect one. You finally gave up the thought of being with his mom. Perhaps, this decision makes you think that sometimes leave him alone, let him make his own decision will award you with affectionate kiss.
In real life, may be you feel that you are sometimes too bossy to him and you should let him make his own decision.
2006-09-21 12:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just anxious to see him and different scenarios are playing out in your dreams. There may be a little fear that while he was gone he came to the conclusion he could live without you or that you'll never be as important as his mother. But these are all normal relationship issues. I'm sure when he gets home it will be a wonderful day for all!!
2006-09-21 12:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Buff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these dreams are clearly a sign of your status in your relationship you are not sure in some way where you stand or how you should react in each dream there is a different outcome which leads me to believe you are very confused about something maybe you feel you are to controlling or you are the leader in the relationship...
2006-09-21 12:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Missbribri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first 2 sound like you're struggling with your position for #1 girl in his life. The last one sounds like your brain is just trying to make you relax and be comfortable with where you are.
2006-09-21 12:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by dbackbarb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're confused and possibly worried about how things will be when he comes home. I don't think there's a lot more to it.
2006-09-21 12:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's just your superstitions , or what you think might happen. Any could happen, you won't know which one until it does. Normally, I would say it means you are just feeling awkward about what position to take in the airport when he arrives back.
2006-09-21 12:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dreams are your thoughts hidden inside you.
Dream is a dream,if you remember your dreams it means you have not slept well.
2006-09-21 12:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by SKG R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I get is that you have great anxiety about how things will be when he comes home.
2006-09-21 12:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can not tell you what dreams mean, but you dream a lot about what is really on your mind, so enjoy ur dreams then see what really happens in real life
2006-09-21 12:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋