If your boyfriend is cheating? Are there any give away signs?
2006-09-21 05:01:38 · 22 answers · asked by Loopy loo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my dear, trust is very important. for eg if u feel he is loving u anything lesser, tell him how u feel but never accuse or confront him as this will only spoil a relationship. try to think positively and in life don't let yourself be dominated by your partner. spend more time with your family and friends and have a balance life. best wishes.
2006-09-21 06:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he will start making excuses for not being around even if you don't ask him. He will start hiding things like not being on the pc in front of you. Will make sure there are no messages on his phone for you to accidently pick up and check. And sometimes they will mess up in a conversation and ask you something that you have nothing to do with confusing you with his secret flame. But the best insight is the distance he will be giving you more then normal
2006-09-21 12:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he seem distant when he is with you?
Does he talk about a certain "friend" in a casual way?
Does he REALLY care what he looks like ?
Has he changed his looks recently? Like new clothes or new way to wear his hair?
Is he not very interested in what you say?
Well, if most of these are right he is probably cheating, but the most important thing is do you feel like he is cheating? You my dear are probably right?
2006-09-21 12:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to speculate...checking for unknown phone calls, unaccounted for times away from you...but you need some hardcore proof, otherwise he will lie his way out of it.
Lipstick or makeup on his clothes or body, remains of intimate acts in his clothing...pictures of him with someone else.
If you really want to know you could always hire or have someone you know follow him like a PI to get you the proof.
But really truthfully....If you trust your guy, have the trust unless you have a hardcore reason to not. Do you love him and does he love you? If so, do you each trust each other....if you don't then you have a problem and are not really building a happy relationship. Follow your heart and mind
2006-09-21 12:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Peachz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he tells you he has been cheating. Look for the opportunity to be honest and open with him and talk to him about why you are suspecting him.
If you have clues discuss these with him and ask for an explanation.
If he has been honest through out the relationship and the answer is reasonable then you should likely believe him.
If he has been dishonest in the past and you don't trust him then why are you with him now?
2006-09-21 12:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by todd k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that your boyfriend is cheating then you might have cause to wonder. Or you may just be thinking the worst of your relationships without cause.
2006-09-21 12:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Betty Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel quilty or weary of his actions or of what he says around you, so he may try to avoid lengthy or deep conversations with you. He may also be a bit snappy if you get nosey or nag on him... the other reaction he might give is a lovey-dovey attitude so as not to arouse your suspition; for your sake, I hope he's not cheating.
2006-09-21 12:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by mopar-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfeind was cheating on me then I would know.
1) Start lying
2) Not calling when they are suppose to
3) His whole behavior just change
4) Never has anytime for you
2006-09-21 12:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by shy_isha18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you are asking this question means you are probably seeing some
2006-09-21 12:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by murphy51024 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there are signs and sometimes there aren't at all depends on how well he can cover his tracks.
2006-09-21 12:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋