Don'y know what to do with my girlfriend, she drive's me f**king mad, she's moody, depressing and does nothing but moan about anything and everything. For example: went to the local harvester on sat for a beer and a burger with her, but she bummed me right out and ruined my vibe by constantly moaning about a girl who she thought was staring at her and saying she was gonna stab her in the eye with a fork.
Only problem is i think i do love her and i cant bring myself to chuck her, what should i do?
Also while i'm here whats the best brand of Absinthe?
2006-09-21 05:08:30 · 16 answers · asked by Jiggy_O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the answers so far, good guess saturday_nite_show i'm actually 22 (maybe i'm saying too much in case her or someone she knows recognises me lol)
2006-09-21 05:34:46 · update #1
Your girl obvioulsy has an issue with herself. its classic. feel shitty and you take all your pain and anger on the world and everyone around you. trust me i know how you feel, i have been on the receiving end of it before. and its not nice. try and get her to build up her confidence then she might not feel so thretend by people and she might not cuss as much. Try telling her to "grow up" a bit too, what kinda talk is that about putting folks in peopels eyes. i realise she must be hurting in someway and she might not realise how she is acting is obvious and she might not be able to make the connection. you try to find out why she has changed and acts like this, maybe you could help her, try suggesting a college course or going on raving, get her to get a social life with people who love her and RESPECT her around her, she will feel better knowing she has aloving unit behind her. she might feel all alone and thretend at evey pretty girl and eveything in your twos way,. goodluck with her though, but if she dont get better, be crul to be kind and tell her EXACTLY how she makes you feel when she behaves like that. someone needs to. xx **)
2006-09-21 05:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, dont give up yet!!!.....there must be some good things about her for you to feel like you may love her, but i do think if your relationship is going to survive you need to be honest about how your feeling, if you dont tell her she will never know. it strikes me as she feels a little insecure about what people think of her or maybe she feels infact that the girl was looking at you and to pass off that jealousy she said she was staring at her. ask your girlfriend what made her so angry, maybe there is something thats playing on her mind that she needs to get off her chest.
good luck, i am sure you will work it out.
you have to try fee absinthe parisian if you want the best, it is the original french absinthe, it blows your mind!! trust me i am a licensee!!!
2006-09-21 12:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by killan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange one. Have you actually talked to her? By looking at your wee story you must be between 18 - 21? You should talk to her and see what her problem is. Also you should KNOW if you love her and not just think. Sometimes if a woman drives us nuts we feel a natural tendecy to care for her as if she is indeed a family member and you should feel no guilt in saying to her that it isnt going to work.
2006-09-21 12:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by saturday_nite_show 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she drives you mad now think what it would be like if you were with her 24-7.
Are you into Masochism sounds as though you are
It is your choice, theres a mighty big ocean out there.
Throw you line back in!!!
2006-09-21 12:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Monty323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid you could do better, theres nothin worse than a partner who has to act tough all the time and has no emotions, violence in a relationship is the pits, get out now while you still have your nads!
2006-09-21 12:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her... who wants to be with someone who is bringing you down. If she is driving you to want absinthe, things really are bad.
2006-09-21 15:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her moany violent verbalisations bring you down, you never know she might be doing it cos she thinks it impresses you. If this doesn't work use powerful electromagnets to wipe her brain clean and re programme her into what you want.... not sure if this works but its worth a bash
2006-09-21 12:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't touch the Absinthe - it's horrible stuff!
2006-09-21 12:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by BadShopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Question is do i love her or don't i then its plain you don't love her.Bring yourself to leave her a make sure that the next time your in a relationship with you actually like being in her company it does help. trust me.lol
2006-09-21 13:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by misswelsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should find someone whos more enjoyable to be around theres nothing worse than sitting there with someone when all they do is ***** about people. if you really think you love her tell her to change her attitude otherwise its finished. good luck babe
2006-09-21 12:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋