Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

Maybe I'm to damn nice. Story of my life with women is this..We meet, have a great time, we laugh, have fun etc..but everytime I think a romantic relationship is starting and I want to get more serious (like officially become bf and gf) , the answer usually is something like this "Oh, your a great friend but..(the typical followups) I don't want that to change..things to change ..but your your just a friend...I don't think your bf material...I don't think of you in that way etc, etc..." To rub salt in the wound, most of them have said that I'm one of the (if not the best) guy they've ever met. That makes no damn sense!? How in the hell do I stop from getting pigeoned holed in the "Just a Friend" hole during the getting to know you stage? I've been told to try the "bad boy" image but that just is not me.

2006-09-17 16:50:34 · 10 answers · asked by microwaved-brain 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:50:28 · 3 answers · asked by babydoll12383 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my best friend is a girl, and my girlfriend is extremely jealous of her, and thinks that i am going to dump her to get w/ my best friend. How do i let my girlfriend kno that i truly love her and that my best friend is nothing to worry about?

2006-09-17 16:50:11 · 6 answers · asked by cossgo17 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy is 48 years old. what would you prefer? the guy is average, well-off and secure in life or a guy who is fine, but poor and not secure in life.

2006-09-17 16:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 in Singles & Dating

did you ever play music when making love???
(was it barry white?)

2006-09-17 16:49:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy thats my friend. him and i are pretty tight. we talk at church and we talk online. he lives in a different city, but not too far. i am a year older than him, but that doesn't really matter. my friend says he "steals glances" at me and every once in a while i catch him looking at me like i mean a lot to him. but other times, he avoids me and seems a little weird or nervous or something?? i don't know whats going on when this happens! and i want to know if i should keep flirting with him or lay off a little.

2006-09-17 16:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend's boyfriend has Bipolar. Lets call her Kelly and him Owen. Kelly is in her early 20s and Owen in his late 20s. They have been together about 14months and its been an on & off relationship. I think they broke up about 2-3 times. Anyone who is familiar with Bipolar will know that the person can be depressed for day(s). Currently Owen is unemployed & has been for a couple of months. Kelly does help with his rent payment every now and again & sometimes other expenses too. Owen may go for days without calling/seeing Kelly & she is the one that mostly rings him. His excuse is that he is too depressed etc. I know I shouldn't call it an excuse & I understand its a serious illness. When they break up, they remain friends & get back together again. She gets upset when he doesn't ring/see her. I tell her that it isn't just Owen that we are dealing with but it is his illness as well but sometimes ya know..U jus haf 2 wonder..is it really? I am lost on how to advice her.

2006-09-17 16:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by Sienna Bella 1 in Friends

I mean those women who have like a 26 inch waist, are rail thin, with tooth pick arms and legs.
Or do you prefer someone a tad bit bigger?
I dont get why men want a tooth pick for a women, I mean if you were having sex with them you might break em!
Men, what is your actual ideal women, please only answer if you are over 30 years old.
Add you age please.

2006-09-17 16:47:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi girls
I want to improve my English language, can anyone talk to me on the massenger
I am 20 y, female, from UAE

2006-09-17 16:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by Cinderella 3 in Friends

2006-09-17 16:45:07 · 23 answers · asked by narziso23 1 in Singles & Dating

Im new to scrapbooking? any suggestions on how to get started? or whats good to work with?

2006-09-17 16:44:18 · 10 answers · asked by Morgan s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ex-bf and I dated for almost 2 years........we broke up cause he was treating me horribly and making me cry everyday. Then he tells me through a comment on myspace that he's marrying some other girl........ even though he told me he loved me want wanted/would wait for me forever the day before? How does that work?

2006-09-17 16:43:54 · 19 answers · asked by sncannon86 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who likes me romantically. I've made it clear that I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years now, whom I love very deeply, and that I only like this friend as a friend and nothing more. My friend says he accepts and understands that, but every once in a while he'll still tell me that he's "in love" with me. (And I always tell him it makes me uncomfortable, bc I don't feel the same way about him.)

Should I just stop hanging out with him? I feel that he is still hoping and still pursuing, so it makes me uncomfortable and makes me worry that I am leading him on, even though I'm not trying to lead him on.

2006-09-17 16:43:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

call your ex to give them your new number?

2006-09-17 16:43:02 · 26 answers · asked by datgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OKAY guys......when can us girls determine if you are flirting just to be friendly or you are actually interested in us?? Are there different things you do when you flirt with a girl you actually like than with a girl you are just messing with?? Thanks for any insight into y'alls minds!! :)

2006-09-17 16:42:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are some people that say oh i have children and these questions should not be ask online. i think we should be able to ask serious questions even if they are a little bit on the nasty side.Dont you think so or should we keep it bottled up inside.

2006-09-17 16:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by Billy T 6 in Family

and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).
once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it but we talked about this one almost constantly, and i set something up with a friend of mine from college that's here till tuesday, with some ground rules set. she didn't have to do anything on the date - but she could do anything she wanted too.

now its going on 12:00, and i can't sleep. its nuts! i just keep wondering - did they? are they? its so hot and crazy and the ssame time. except i don't know how to keep sane till she comes home.

2006-09-17 16:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

and someone plz give me a useful answer this time

2006-09-17 16:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm studying in US under Student visa. I'm from Vietnam. I and my boyfriend who is German and living in Germany. I and my boyfriend decided to get married and would like to get all the paper work done by next December. But I'm not going back to Vietnam until July. Can we make it then? I heard it would take long but is there anyway I can request for quick process?

2006-09-17 16:40:48 · 1 answers · asked by saturdayinca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

MY HUSBAND CLAIMS THAT I COMPLAIN CONSTANTY ABOUT EVERYTHING I DEMAND TO MUCH?WE HAVE A 12 YEAR OLD DAUGTER & AND I HAVE A SON FROM A PREV. AND SO DOES HE "BOTH THE SAME AGE" MY SON HAS A FULL TIME JOB AND SO DOES HIS! MINE LIVES ON HIS OWN HIS LIVES WITH US AND PAYS NOTHING" when" MY SON LIVED WITH US HE HAD TO PAY $100.00 A WEEK .HIS SON WAS RAISED BYE MY HUSBANDS MOTHER MY HUSBAND THINKS HE SHOULD BE ABE TO LIVE FREE FOR AS LONG HED LIKE AND HE WON"T ASK HIM TO PICKUP AFTER HIS SELF OR PAY FOR ANYTHING HES 19 WE ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING ABOUT THIS .HE BEEN LIVING WITH US ABOUT 2 MONTHS WE WERE DOING GREAT UNTILL NOW. HE WILL TELL OUR DAUGHTER TO CLEAN UP AFTER HER SELF

2006-09-17 16:39:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But i hope by leaving him in child-care, he is able to mix with children of his age, thus, able to talk as he cant say a word till now not even calling mummy or daddy. I hope him can learnt to be indepndent too. But whenever i see him call for me for coming back, i really feel very sad. Can someone tell me what to do?

2006-09-17 16:38:09 · 13 answers · asked by tinyant06 2 in Family

~Just wondering if people think love is a game?--> ;o)

2006-09-17 16:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by dreamzzz102 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Natalia P 1 in Singles & Dating

its not cause of me its my stepmom shes so mean to me i really want them to get a devorce ..........my dad even clls her names and says mean things bout her she does to but she the worst at it she calls me names like slut and makes fun of me and always brings me down and she controls me w/ everything no one on my dad side likes her even and she listens to my phone conversations and interrupts me when im on the phone she also hurts me at times she says im just like my birth mom and im gonna turn out like her "my birth mom is kinda bad long story" i just really need your help people please and i dont do anything wrong so dont say i do. i really want them to split up help

2006-09-17 16:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even though girls are expected to like chatting on the phone, I can't stand it. I'd much rather talk in person. Does that make me weird? haha.

2006-09-17 16:36:27 · 33 answers · asked by alwaysright 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got a married woman pregnant. after a big ordeal with her husband finding out, he wants to raise the baby as his. i dont want another man raising my child. what can i do ? do i have any rights as the biological father ?

2006-09-17 16:35:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should a girl make the first move, or do you think a guy should??

2006-09-17 16:34:45 · 12 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Singles & Dating

they just broke up from a relationship a couple of months ago. she told me that the relationship was very "intense" but she has moved on. but recently he has been calling her and emailing her about going to a concert with him. she says nothing will happen. but i don't know

2006-09-17 16:34:12 · 56 answers · asked by cone_head 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:34:08 · 18 answers · asked by Natalia P 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl in my class, whom I adore too much. Through my body language and words, I have tried to convey that I like her. But I am unable to say her that I sincerely love her irrespective so called social values.

2006-09-17 16:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by Gentleman 2 in Friends